willocdh saidSo I've been dating a guy for almost 10 months now. He's a very busy professional (even busier than me) and about 10 years older than me. Occasionally he makes the effort to see me once during the week (but usually not). Rather, visits are limited to Friday and/or Saturday evenings, despite the fact that we live quite close. We do text everyday. Should I be worried about this? It seems that at this point, more time together would be normal, but I'm not sure.
Successful professional people have very busy lives - and often work long hours. I assume this is the case with your date. If you are spending most weekend nights together, and you have only been dating for a month - that's not such a bad average. "He
makes an effort to see me during the week." Do you
make an effort to see him? Is he traveling? If not, how does he react to your asking to sleep over at his place during the week? (If he has a busy life, I'm sure it is easier for him to have you spend the night there than vice versa.) Or maybe his work schedule is just so tight, that he needs to spend more time working at home in the evenings as well? I would give that a try, and not worry much at this early
stage of dating.