M4M Hookups

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    Apr 25, 2014 5:23 AM GMT
    A recent research has found that "ten percent of gay men placing personal ads on Craigslist are looking specifically for a same-sex encounter with a non-gay-identified (NGI) man".

    In other words: on the M4M section one in 10 males seeks someone who calls himself "straight", "bi", "married", etc., but not "gay".

    Could you suggest your own reasons for the results of this study?
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    Apr 25, 2014 5:33 AM GMT
    A lot of guys see straight guys as the defying look of ''masculinity''. And that's their ''preference'' and you know how people are with preference. They say there attracted to what their attracted to.

    I've only been out of the closet... for about a year. When i was still nervous about coming out and such. When i would attempt to talk to guys they seemed fascinated by me being ''down low'' i wasn't exactly down low or ashamed per say. I was just nervous about coming out. It was kind of a feeling i didn't like though...

    these guys essentially wanted me when they knew i wasn't out. They saw me as more masculine and ''manlier'' and yada yada. I felt kind of like a zoo animal at that point.

    I think people think way too much into this thing. Masculine or feminine is not really a big deal to me. And i think people put way to much power on the subject.
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    Apr 25, 2014 5:36 AM GMT
    NSA

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    Apr 25, 2014 5:40 AM GMT
    The guys who really want to hook up with guys who aren't open about being gay are predatory. Simples!
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    Apr 25, 2014 5:44 AM GMT
    B_n_p saidgay guys mostly suck, so some guys want some men who suck less


    That's extremely offensive. Unless you are joking, or being cynical.

    Jerry: Well, I have a terrible past. For three years now, I've been living with a saxophone player.

    Osgood: I forgive you.

    Jerry: [tragically] I can never have children!

    Osgood: We can adopt some.

    Jerry: But you don't understand, Osgood! Ohh...

    [Jerry finally gives up and pulls off his wig]

    Jerry: [normal voice] I'm a man!

    Osgood: [shrugs] Well, nobody's perfect!


    (Some Like it Hot)
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    Apr 25, 2014 5:00 PM GMT
    Danny_boy93 saidThe guys who really want to hook up with guys who aren't open about being gay are predatory. Simples!

    Oh you have so much to learn in life. Before you make definitive statements like this, you need to do some research.

    Many guys that are not open or in other relationships that might want to hook up for sexual fun are NOT considered predators.

    Merriam-Webster:
    pred·a·tor noun ˈpre-də-tər, -ˌtȯr
    : an animal that lives by killing and eating other animals : an animal that preys on other animals
    : a person who looks for other people in order to use, control, or harm them in some way

    These guys are looking for consensual sex with another man. They're not looking to hurt, take advantage or control anyone. Chose your words more wisely and don't feel a need to comment when you don't understand or know the facts.