How do you make up after a fight?

  • xy28

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    Apr 26, 2014 2:08 AM GMT
    I'm just curious how other couples make up after a fight? Other than sex icon_lol.gif
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    Apr 26, 2014 2:11 AM GMT
    Hahaha It wasn't with a couple because I'm single but I just had a discussion with 2 friends of mine. ( They know who they are) icon_lol.gif
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    Apr 26, 2014 2:33 AM GMT
    Petty Larceny.
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    Apr 26, 2014 2:40 AM GMT
    Cash saidPetty Larceny.

    I read Pretty Lingery
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    Apr 26, 2014 2:40 AM GMT
    D3K_ said
    Cash saidPetty Larceny.

    I read Pretty Lingery


    baahahahahah….
  • jo2hotbod

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    Apr 26, 2014 3:10 AM GMT
    Sex
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    Apr 26, 2014 3:11 AM GMT
    jo2hotbod saidSex


    hello

    +a-gazzillion (if that's even a word) icon_smile.gif
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    Apr 28, 2014 3:10 AM GMT
    I keep silence until he says something endearing to me, then I say something back, then we play video games together.
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    Apr 28, 2014 3:16 AM GMT
    Spread your legs and wait for it.

    Oh, other than sex? I usually go for a nice, warm, soothing sensual massage... that usually leads to sex anyway.

    So sex, basically.
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    Apr 28, 2014 5:47 AM GMT
    Big long hugs, cuddles, "I love you"
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    Apr 28, 2014 6:17 AM GMT
    Sensei saidBig long hugs, cuddles, "I love you"


    Yep. Lots of tender time just curling into each other and being held/holding each other. Quiet whispers and truths about how we feel about one another and reassurances.
  • Latenight30

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    Apr 29, 2014 3:24 PM GMT
    What if saying "I love you" is met with silence
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    Apr 29, 2014 9:04 PM GMT
    Latenight30 saidWhat if saying "I love you" is met with silence



    Then either...
    1) you're not making up yet, you're still fighting, even if silently
    or
    2) he doesn't love you
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    Apr 29, 2014 9:26 PM GMT
    Sex, then cum and Cuddling !! icon_lol.gificon_biggrin.gif
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    Apr 29, 2014 9:48 PM GMT
    I just need time away alone. Don't call me, don't text, and please don't offer sex. Just leave me alone, until whenever I'm ready.

    Time can heal a whole lot, but it won't make you forget.
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    Apr 29, 2014 10:01 PM GMT
    xy28 saidI'm just curious how other couples make up after a fight? Other than sex icon_lol.gif


    Talk it out. icon_wink.gif
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    Apr 29, 2014 10:18 PM GMT
    meninlove said
    xy28 saidI'm just curious how other couples make up after a fight? Other than sex icon_lol.gif


    Talk it out. icon_wink.gif


    It's awkward isn't it? Talking it out? lol, like how do you get over hurt feelings rather than just fuck your brains out. icon_eek.gificon_redface.gif
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    Apr 29, 2014 11:48 PM GMT
    socalx10 said
    meninlove said
    xy28 saidI'm just curious how other couples make up after a fight? Other than sex icon_lol.gif


    Talk it out. icon_wink.gif


    It's awkward isn't it? Talking it out? lol, like how do you get over hurt feelings rather than just fuck your brains out. icon_eek.gificon_redface.gif


    How are the hurt feelings not still there after the screw?

    If a relationship has really good communication, most arguments are (in my experience) moments of miscommunication. In which case, sorting out the miscommunication (either through fighting or talking) should clear up the hurt feelings.

    That is as long as you're both "fighting fair" anyway. IE: Sticking on topic, not calling names, no nitpicking BS, not teasing, not being intentionally hurtful, etc. That shit isn't fighting, it's immaturity rearing it's ugly head. And, at least in my life, that's always meant it's time to decide if their either mature enough to realize they're fucking up and change (once they calm down), or if they're just too damned immature to be in a healthy relationship with me.
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    Apr 30, 2014 2:04 PM GMT
    it takes two to fight unless your in the political realjock forums.

    -say you love him and walk out of the room.
    -its all junk at that point, be careful not to accelerate the argument
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    Apr 30, 2014 4:00 PM GMT
    TwisttheLeaf said
    socalx10 said
    meninlove said
    xy28 saidI'm just curious how other couples make up after a fight? Other than sex icon_lol.gif


    Talk it out. icon_wink.gif


    It's awkward isn't it? Talking it out? lol, like how do you get over hurt feelings rather than just fuck your brains out. icon_eek.gificon_redface.gif


    How are the hurt feelings not still there after the screw?

    If a relationship has really good communication, most arguments are (in my experience) moments of miscommunication. In which case, sorting out the miscommunication (either through fighting or talking) should clear up the hurt feelings.

    That is as long as you're both "fighting fair" anyway. IE: Sticking on topic, not calling names, no nitpicking BS, not teasing, not being intentionally hurtful, etc. That shit isn't fighting, it's immaturity rearing it's ugly head. And, at least in my life, that's always meant it's time to decide if their either mature enough to realize they're fucking up and change (once they calm down), or if they're just too damned immature to be in a healthy relationship with me.


    Pretty much this. Bill and I also have a little game we call, 'The Master Of Guilt' where we tell each other 'it's my fault' and humorously explain why, trying to outdo each other with descriptions of our own horribleness as we exaggerate more and more until we're both in stitches.
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    Apr 30, 2014 5:03 PM GMT
    We never contact each other again, that's the way us gays are meant to behave duh
  • bearygood1

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    Apr 30, 2014 5:05 PM GMT
    I say that I am sorry!
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    Apr 30, 2014 7:48 PM GMT
    Ohno saidWe never contact each other again, that's the way us gays are meant to behave duh


    hahaha, you're so bitter !! JK icon_redface.gificon_razz.gif
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    May 02, 2014 5:11 AM GMT
    Hey tickling usually works ! icon_razz.gificon_razz.gif
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    Jun 20, 2014 5:35 PM GMT
    Ohno saidWe never contact each other again, that's the way us gays are meant to behave duh


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