leo_ saidI asked him about his past for which he said that he had a normal past. Later, he said that he dont want to mess up the present so he don't want to talk about his past.
..... That sounds...reassuring... Anyway, this is something i've never really understood, the pressure on sex to build a commited relationship. Come on dude, this is a new relationship, still in the early stages. I don't think you should be so hung up on sex yet. Yes, it's an important aspect of the relationship, especially if you want things to go longterm. But be careful not to fixate on it so much you end up missing out on a great guy just because he felt pressured into bed after a few weeks of knowing you. In anycase, his not wanting to bring up the past just yet doesn't necessarily mean he's has something, there's a bunch of legitimate possibilities. All in all, take it one day at a time and dont worry so much. Just enjoy what you have.