Am I the only one who doesn't like giving Blow Jobs?

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    Apr 27, 2014 4:32 AM GMT
    I know I'm probably a bad gay for saying this but I'm just not particularly fond of giving them.

    Putting a dick in my mouth doesn't turn me on. There are other things I'd rather be doing with my mouth.


    Some of you guys must be with me on this... haha


    So who else doesn't like giving them?
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    Apr 27, 2014 5:34 AM GMT
    You're not alone. icon_neutral.gif
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    Apr 27, 2014 5:42 AM GMT
    Youngun said
    So who else doesn't like giving them?

    I dont
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    Apr 27, 2014 5:44 AM GMT
    Dopes. You're supposed to suck, not blow.
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    Apr 27, 2014 5:53 AM GMT
    LOL. Blow job is about pleasuring your partner. If you don't like it, then just deal with it until it's time to switch positions. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Apr 27, 2014 5:56 AM GMT
    I like giving blow jobs but I don't like receiving them so much.
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    Apr 27, 2014 6:04 AM GMT
    I'm just gonna close my mouth and walk away.

    I mean it's cool and all.

    I don't understand it.

    I accept it.

    I don't understand it.

    It's cool. Seriously.

    I don't need to understand everything.

    It's cool.

    Walks away.
  • buddycat

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    Apr 27, 2014 7:00 AM GMT
    Studies show that if a person is a top they tend to be an oral top as well and same is said about bottoms too.
  • KittenpasteCo...

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    Apr 27, 2014 7:03 AM GMT
    I like it for about 5 minutes... and then it becomes a chore. Sometimes, I wish I'd bump into a hypersensitive guy. Quick pay-off and won't end up sore.

    I'm not big on receiving... even for a minute.
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    Apr 27, 2014 10:49 AM GMT
    xrichx saidLOL. Blow job is about pleasuring your partner. If you don't like it, then just deal with it until it's time to switch positions. icon_biggrin.gif

    There are plenty of men who are more than happy to give head without receiving the favor back.
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    Apr 27, 2014 10:51 AM GMT
    duluthrunner saidThey're okay but I'm much more into any sexual activity that allows us to be eye to eye with one another, even if our eyes are closed...

    You can perfectly mantain eye contact during a blowjob
  • jaroslav123

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    Apr 27, 2014 11:18 AM GMT
    Put it like this:

    Physically, I hate it. It doesn't taste nice and you're in an awkward position. icon_sad.gif

    Psychologically, I love it. icon_biggrin.gif The feeling of pleasuring a guy's most sensitive area is amazing. The subtlety and nuances you can give in a BJ are amazing...just one flick of the tongue on a particular part he likes can drive him wild. Nothing like this. icon_biggrin.gif

    On the other hand...receiving blow-jobs...in my experience, they're either really pleasurable or really uncomfortable.

    I guess it's all about context - where you're doing it, what position you're in...and of course more importantly: who with.
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    Apr 27, 2014 12:08 PM GMT
    I love giving BJs, especially to a guy who's responsive. I'd enjoy getting them more if other guys could give them as good as I do. Most of the time they merely give a tongue bath, which doesn't provide me with enough stimulation.

    One great exception was a guy who was my "dick double": exact same length and thickness as me, both when soft and hard. Only difference was he was uncut, which I love, that also led to some good docking action. As well as some great tandem stroking, best when dicks are a size match.

    Anyway, we'd get into a 69, which I usually don't enjoy because sucking his dick distracts me from the sensations in my own. Not with this guy! He could suck like the proverbial Hoover, no way I'd not respond to it. Not only could he bring me off that way, but we even came simultaneously in each other's mouths, only guy I've ever been able to do that with. Too bad he had some serious flaws that kept a relationship from developing.
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    Apr 27, 2014 11:42 PM GMT
    xrichx saidLOL. Blow job is about pleasuring your partner. If you don't like it, then just deal with it until it's time to switch positions. icon_biggrin.gif


    I don't agree with that at all haha
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    Apr 28, 2014 10:01 AM GMT
    Lol only if his penis is weird, deform, or just not appealing.icon_redface.gificon_neutral.gif
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    Apr 28, 2014 10:32 AM GMT
    Lumpyoatmeal saidDopes. You're supposed to suck, not blow.



    LOL!!! icon_lol.gif
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    Apr 28, 2014 10:33 AM GMT
    Blakes7 said
    Lumpyoatmeal saidDopes. You're supposed to suck, not blow.



    LOL!!! icon_lol.gif



    It's one of my favorite things to do, EVER!!!!!
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    Apr 28, 2014 11:04 AM GMT
    D3K_ said
    xrichx saidLOL. Blow job is about pleasuring your partner. If you don't like it, then just deal with it until it's time to switch positions. icon_biggrin.gif

    There are plenty of men who are more than happy to give head without receiving the favor back.


    Phew I used to think I was an odd bod lol
  • takashi

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    Apr 28, 2014 11:58 AM GMT
    I am not much of an oral guy either.
    But I like having my top's penis in my mouth.
    You may feel that the guy with the penis in another guy's mouth has the power or is the dominant person, but I don't see it that way. I like to think that I have the most important organ, well one of the most important organs, a man has in my mouth, I am in control.
    Having said that I want my top to feel good. I usually suck until the cock is hard and ready for penetrating my other orifice.
    Usually it is not some power play, its just one act of sex. In my case I never let it be the final act, I let it lead to the final sex act, which for me would be anal penetration.