plz help how to do anal sex without pain i hav use lot lot lubricans but it stil so much peinful to me

  • tiki52

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    Apr 27, 2014 12:35 PM GMT
    plz help me what to do in anal sex i hav use lot lot lubricans but it stil so much peinful me
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    Apr 29, 2014 4:54 AM GMT
    There are several things you can do.

    Let us begin with your counterpart, your top. A good one shall provide you with various forms of foreplay. This will help you relax before you and him...hunch. (I pulled that term out the old school country dictionary). Depending on what type of person you are, certain types of foreplay will be much better than others. Foreplay is necessary to maintain heighten senses, increase the blood flow along with the heart rate, and relax the body.

    This can turn into a whole other topic, but since no one has responded in days, I'll go.

    Lets start with smell. Every man has a certain smell that is released when they become lustful i.e. horny. (I feel so filthy using these words) icon_redface.gif Anyway, the pheromones, have a chemical substance that attracts their partner.

    Next, you two will touch each other. I find that touching palms to palms (Nerve endings), while gently kissing on the lips is a good start. Next, (listen up tops this is important) your top should gently glide his hand and arm around your waist, stopping at the small of your back while at the same time, pulling you closer to him. You are going to feel his identifier, and it will be much larger and harder than you remember, don't buckle. (Tops, you're welcome.)

    Bottoms. When this happens you are submitting to your top. This means you are non-verbally allowing him access to explore your body, and instilling trust in him. (If your mind is not willing to allow this trust threshold to be crossed, then something isn't right, and stop.)

    Your top will typically be in the drivers seat so, he should be kissing, or lightly biting you in all the right erogenous zones. (You know, lips, hips, earlobes, collarbone, pecs). It's okay to return the favor to him.

    Next is sound. I got to be honest, because I'm a verbal person, this step will make my knees buckle. (That's why it's important to have a trusted top to catch you as you melt in his arms). His voice, will drop at least two octaves into a baritone so low, that when he whispers in your ear, it will send vibrations to parts of your body you didn't know had nerves.

    He will say all kinds of things from, how hot he is, to how good you look, to how you make him feel, to how good you feel in his arms, to how he wants to make you feel.

    He will ask you things. If your response is anything like mine, you won't be able to say much. You'll do one of two things, moan or whimper. Hell, it doesn't matter by this time you'll be putty in hands.

    ***commercial break***
    Cleanliness, is next to godliness. Make sure your mouth, and entire body is clean before you start invading your partners space. (I understand, that some men have fetishes that are pure mud, if so, please ignore.)

    Last on the list, is taste. I hope I don't have to give too much detail, but I will say, quiet as it's kept, your top prefers a certain flavor so...light his palate up. Think of it this way; your body is a three course meal, complete with a drink icon_twisted.gif. Your man will need, spicy, savory, and above all, sweet.

    If all of those options are available to him, he will make sure you will be ready when it's time. After a while, you'll get use to it, and you'll be riding it, like Scarlett O'Hara rode that horse back to Tara.

    Don't be a fool, keep it wet, and if he doesn't have a glove, then he shall get no love.

    Lastly, If all this doesn't work, I think there are some type of pills you can buy from your local adult stores that will relax your muscles but, I don't have any experience with that.

    This is not law, your experience might be completely different.

    Good luck
  • jaroslav123

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    Apr 29, 2014 8:12 AM GMT
    Ntyson said

    Next is sound. I got to be honest, because I'm a verbal person, this step will make my knees buckle. (That's why it's important to have a trusted top to catch you as you melt in his arms). His voice, will drop at least two octaves into a baritone so low, that when he whispers in your ear, it will send vibrations to parts of your body you didn't know had nerves.

    He will say all kinds of things from, how hot he is, to how good you look, to how you make him feel, to how good you feel in his arms, to how he wants to make you feel.

    He will ask you things. If your response is anything like mine, you won't be able to say much. You'll do one of two things, moan or whimper. Hell, it doesn't matter by this time you'll be putty in hands.





    Jesus fucking Christ.......
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    Apr 29, 2014 1:39 PM GMT
    You can use anal eze - its lube with a slight anesthetic to help numb away a bit of the pain a bottom gets when getting fucked. If your top is not wearing protection it can have a numbing effect on their dick too, which can delay time to cumming, which means the bottom may get their butt pounded for a lot longer, so take care.

    Ntyson - wow. What a post! icon_eek.gif
  • my8kitso

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    Apr 29, 2014 5:03 PM GMT
    I actually created an "Ass Play 101 - How to take a dick up your ass AND enjoy it." video and put it on xtube.

    Hope it helps.

    BTW, I'm a top trying to learn to be versatile, that's one of the reasons I created this video, was for guys to learn about it without being scared!

    Enjoy!

    Pete

    Ass Play 101 - How to take a dick up your ass AND enjoy it.
    A friend asked me to make a "How to" video on enjoying anal sex. First I explain about "WHY" you would even want to try and put something in your ass! Some etiquette rules about anal sex with guys. Talking about the joys of anal sex and why you may want to try it and how great it can feel if done right, or how it can hurt like a bitch if you don't know what you're doing! Next I talk about hygiene, how to clean and prepare your ass. Then, Lesson 1 on how to start feeling and opening your ass by using your fingers. Next I talk about toys and toy maintenance. Then the actual insertion of a beaded dildo, then a vibrator, then I CUM! I guess I was so horny from the assplay I wasn't even hard and I shot a big load! Last I talk about good positions for fucking.
    http://www.xtube.com/play_re.php?v=DqtMu-G540-&c=myv&page=1
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    May 02, 2014 5:29 PM GMT
    tiki52 saidplz help me what to do in anal sex i hav use lot lot lubricans but it stil so much peinful me

    First, practice on yourself with a dildo. Try sitting on top of the guy, which gives you more control over how deep and fast he penetrates you. Get him to go slowly.
  • rnch

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    May 02, 2014 6:04 PM GMT
    Rimming, single & double digit fingering, kissing , stroking, LOTS of silicone lube.....and 10 seconds before he tries to enter in your azz...a healthy nasal snort from a fresh bottle of poppers will relax you enough so that he will slide right in.
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    May 03, 2014 3:32 PM GMT
    rnch saiddouble digit fingering


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    .. That could be up to 99 fingers !
  • rnch

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    May 03, 2014 4:30 PM GMT
    [quote][cite]Anocxu said[/cite]
    rnch saiddouble digit fingering


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    .. That could be up to 99 fingers ![/quote



    Whatever works!!

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