zdrew saidTo be fair, I don't automatically equate submission in a relationship with being a pushover. It's all about knowing when to bend (pun fully intended). I'm sure you'll agree, Mr. Tanker, that sometimes there's nothing hotter than having your punk ass put in it's place.
oh very true, however, I've found, that those who are umm, less inclined i suppose to say what they want, tend to be a push over.
I'm all for being submissive
and I'll bend to someones will as much as I'll fight someone, but, guys who immediately just start following there partner tend to be a push over.. difficult to explain, like you, I like someone who is head strong, independent and so on, but being able to give each other what they want isn't being submissive, its more just a willingness to give as much as you get... now, if your talking.. umm.. in the sack, well, all that goes out the window ;)