OMG how are you single, or are you secretly not??

  • Just_Louis

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    Apr 27, 2014 10:44 PM GMT
    Well,basically I thought about this, while scrolling through some profiles, of some jaw droppers, and just thought that there is no way that these guys are single.

    On RJ I have discovered that there are guys of all types, not just the typical-super-muscle-mad-jock, but also there are some really sweet guys here. like really... But the thing that caught me was the fact that nearly every profile I saw was a super nice/super hot/just plain super guy, and they're mostly single.

    My question is, why are you single?
    and are you really single?


    My reason and message is that my life's motto and the words I want on my pink sequence grave stone are; "If you want something or someone, go for them!"
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    Apr 27, 2014 10:46 PM GMT
    because you only see a portion of who they are as a person.

    Spend enough time on the forum getting to know these guys and you'll soon understand why most of them are single.
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    Apr 27, 2014 10:48 PM GMT
    lilTanker saidbecause you only see a portion of who they are as a person.

    Spend enough time on the forum getting to know these guys and you'll soon understand why most of them are single.

    ROFL.
    You scamp!
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    Apr 27, 2014 10:49 PM GMT
    lilTanker saidbecause you only see a portion of who they are as a person.

    Spend enough time on the forum getting to know these guys and you'll soon understand why most of them are single.


    Good answer, lol, Outch, I guess XD (:
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    Apr 27, 2014 10:50 PM GMT
    lilTanker saidbecause you only see a portion of who they are as a person.

    Spend enough time on the forum getting to know these guys and you'll soon understand why most of them are single.


    hahah
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    Apr 27, 2014 10:50 PM GMT
    ElectroShark said
    lilTanker saidbecause you only see a portion of who they are as a person.

    Spend enough time on the forum getting to know these guys and you'll soon understand why most of them are single.

    ROFL.
    You scamp!

    hahaha come on, you've been on these forums longer then I have.

    Was that inaccurate?
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    Apr 27, 2014 10:52 PM GMT
    lilTanker saidbecause you only see a portion of who they are as a person.

    Spend enough time on the forum getting to know these guys and you'll soon understand why most of them are single.


    Yes. Sometimes everything that seems 'good on paper' is not how the actual person is. I've had my own experiences with people who are just that and they turn out to be not who they claim to be.

    With that being said, there are indeed a number of exceptional people who really are classy guys. If distance wasn't a factor I would surely have dated/partnered with them.
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    Apr 27, 2014 10:56 PM GMT
    You're better off asking that question to other guys rather then the guy himself. At least thats in my case. icon_lol.gif

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  • Just_Louis

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    Apr 27, 2014 10:58 PM GMT
    Fivealive said
    lilTanker saidbecause you only see a portion of who they are as a person.

    Spend enough time on the forum getting to know these guys and you'll soon understand why most of them are single.


    Yes. Sometimes everything that seems 'good on paper' is not how the actual person is. I've had my own experiences with people who are just that and they turn out to be not who they claim to be.

    With that being said, there are indeed a number of exceptional people who really are classy guys. If distance wasn't a factor I would surely have dated/partnered with them.



    I would have to agree, I have been on some scary blind dates lol, where the guy's just not who he portrays...
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    Apr 27, 2014 10:59 PM GMT
    IceBuckets saidYou're better off asking that question to other guys rather then the guy himself. At least thats in my case. icon_lol.gif

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    Apr 27, 2014 11:00 PM GMT
    woodsmen saidIt is because to get into the secret societies of RJ, you must be single and a virgin!

    I advise you to stop this talk of a secret society. There is no secret society. False flag. Remember, the last person to speak of this secret society has now gone into hiding.
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    Apr 27, 2014 11:02 PM GMT
    It's interesting, and somewhat annoying, that people assume because you look a certain way that you'd automatically be in a relationship. I guess it demonstrates how little some people know about initial attraction, dating and relationships.
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    Apr 27, 2014 11:03 PM GMT
    Iceblink said
    woodsmen saidIt is because to get into the secret societies of RJ, you must be single and a virgin!

    I advise you to stop this talk of a secret society. There is no secret society. False flag. Remember, the last person to speak of this secret society has now gone into hiding.

    There is no cabal.
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    Apr 27, 2014 11:04 PM GMT
    I am still single because there is no need to look for someone in NYC when I am not going to be here for the entire summer. But, even before that, I just really don't look to date. I'm not very "up to date". If that makes any sense.
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    Apr 27, 2014 11:05 PM GMT
    lilTanker saidbecause you only see a portion of who they are as a person.

    Spend enough time on the forum getting to know these guys and you'll soon understand why most of them are single.


    haha yes. For some guys they always look good on paper (or in this case a profile) but not so much in real life.

    #notboyfriendmaterial
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    Apr 27, 2014 11:07 PM GMT
    IceBuckets said
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    You're too attractive for this gif to apply to you.
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    Apr 27, 2014 11:09 PM GMT
    unfounded7 saidIt's interesting, and somewhat annoying, that people assume because you look a certain way that you'd automatically be in a relationship. I guess it demonstrates how little some people know about initial attraction, dating and relationships.


    Well to tell the truth, I have not really been in a good relationship, and besides that I am only 19, still way too young to realize the full responsibility of a relationship.

    Though to tell the truth, I prefer to be single as I need freedom and space, I just finished school, in 2012 and I have never been the one to have a great many friends. so I guess relatioships are not, and will for a time not be my strong suit.
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    Apr 27, 2014 11:10 PM GMT
    I am too boring, to be honest. icon_cool.gif
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    Apr 27, 2014 11:10 PM GMT
    unfounded7 said
    IceBuckets said
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    You're too attractive for this gif to apply to you.

    *sigh*

    Why doesn't anyone get this gif? It's supposed to echo the little voice in our heads telling us a fact that simply isn't true. icon_razz.gif
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    Apr 27, 2014 11:12 PM GMT
    IceBuckets said
    unfounded7 said
    IceBuckets said
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    You're too attractive for this gif to apply to you.

    *sigh*

    Why doesn't anyone get this gif? It's supposed to echo the little voice in our heads telling us a fact that simply isn't true. icon_razz.gif


    *hugs* I understood it
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    Apr 27, 2014 11:12 PM GMT
    IceBuckets said
    unfounded7 said
    IceBuckets said
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    You're too attractive for this gif to apply to you.

    *sigh*

    Why doesn't anyone get this gif? It's supposed to echo the little voice in our heads telling us a fact that simply isn't true. icon_razz.gif

    Hey hey hey, I understood your meaning!!!
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    Apr 27, 2014 11:16 PM GMT
    lilTanker said
    ElectroShark said
    lilTanker saidbecause you only see a portion of who they are as a person.

    Spend enough time on the forum getting to know these guys and you'll soon understand why most of them are single.

    ROFL.
    You scamp!

    hahaha come on, you've been on these forums longer then I have.

    Was that inaccurate?

    Sadly, no, it was perfectly accurate.
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    Apr 27, 2014 11:20 PM GMT
    IceBuckets said
    Why doesn't anyone get this gif? It's supposed to echo the little voice in our heads telling us a fact that simply isn't true. icon_razz.gif


    I didn't say what I said because I didn't "get" the gif.
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    Apr 27, 2014 11:31 PM GMT
    unfounded7 said
    IceBuckets said
    Why doesn't anyone get this gif? It's supposed to echo the little voice in our heads telling us a fact that simply isn't true. icon_razz.gif


    I didn't say what I said because I didn't "get" the gif.

    ...oh. Well then. Thanks. icon_lol.gif
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    Apr 27, 2014 11:31 PM GMT
    Because Relationships - like everything else in Life - grow and evolve over time. Ideally two people grow and evolve with each other.

    But that is not always the case. Sometimes people find, with time and maturity, that they want different things in Life and they have simply run their course. It doesn't in any way negate what they had.

    Here on RJ, like any other place, You will find Guys on different parts of their Journey. Being single is not contingent upon physical, psychological or emotional appeal (although they each factor in). It simply is a natural phase of every life.

    Look at it this way; if You come across Mr. Wonderful and He is single - it's the perfect time for You to step in and do something about it.

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