Apr 28, 2014 3:19 AM GMT
In my circle of gay friends, it is considered abnormal if you don't sex a guy on the first date. They told me if I don't "test-drive" asap, I risk wasting my time if the sexual chemistry turns out to be bad. By the first date I can usually tell whether the guy is top or bottom, but other than that my position is that if I like the person, the "chemistry" will work itself out. It's not like I'm looking for or even want someone who "knows what he's doing" too well. Is it really that weird?