being_human saidfor what its worth, he said he s gonna break up with his girlfriend.. which at first I was pleasantly surprised.
I guess its a go now. I just answered the thread's question. :-D
thanks y'all for the answers.
Haha.. Sorry but a lot of closeted married men say that when in the end, they don't go through with it. They are too comfortable with their lives to do such a thing. Or if they do, they do it when they are older. Do you really want to wait that long?
In any case, I would say don't do it because it's vile but you aren't me. You're left to do whatever you want. Just remember to accept any consequences that may result. I say "may" because I'm sure there are plenty of gay/bi men who cheat successfully on their wives/girlfriends with other dudes but I hope you know that if this guy does end up with you, who's to say he won't do the same thing to you?
Be sure to think things through before you do anything.