do you think that being girly is also just an act just like straight acting is?

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    Apr 29, 2014 7:38 PM GMT
    why do some gays even act that way?
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    Apr 29, 2014 7:42 PM GMT
    Usually they act that way to justify creating sock accounts and asking inane questions.

    Who other than a 9 YEAR OLD GIRL would even bother?
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    Apr 29, 2014 7:43 PM GMT
    Great, Now all the girly queens on this site will get butthurt. *grabs popcorn*
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    Apr 29, 2014 7:44 PM GMT
    Why are some straight people camp or effeminate ?

    Why are some gay men totally "masculine and straight acting" ?

    Its all in the way the person is inside and how they have experienced life eg part biological and part exposure.
  • jaroslav123

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    Apr 29, 2014 7:45 PM GMT
    Yeah, because people so intentionally act feminine in a culture where being masculine is perceived as being better...

    I don't get your logic sunshine.

    People are masculine because, that's who they are.
    People are feminine because, that's who they are.
    People are a combination of both, because that's who they are.

    And if it is an act, why care? Why get frustrated about it? Let them be whoever they want to be.
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    Apr 29, 2014 7:48 PM GMT
    It's only an act if you're trying to be something you're not.

    Part of fitting in is knowing how to act, so if you don't want to act don't try to fit in.
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    Apr 29, 2014 7:51 PM GMT
    HottJoe saidIt's only an act if you're trying to be something you're not.

    Part of fitting in is knowing how to act, so if you don't want to act don't try to fit in.


    That's kinda why I think being effeminate is just acting. Why not just behave normally? In my case, I used to be super girly and "fabulous" in high school. Why? Because, in my naivety, I thought that behaving that way I could scare off the girls and attract the boys. Also, all the portrayal of gay men in the media made me that way. BUt since I discovered that to be gay you don't have be like a girl, I started behaving like myself.
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    Apr 29, 2014 7:53 PM GMT
    Why do dumpy out-of-shape Guys always complain that Guys in excellent shape have the nerve to be on RJ - all while relentlessly drooling over ANY Guy with His shirt off?

    Why do Guys who have had maybe 3 dates in their entire lives profess to know everything (or anything) about relationships?

    Why do guys who live in a one-horse town who are still in the closet claim to know how "most" or "all" Gay Men think, act and/or feel?

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    Apr 29, 2014 7:54 PM GMT
    jaroslav123 saidYeah, because people so intentionally act feminine in a culture where being masculine is perceived as being better...

    I don't get your logic sunshine.


    Let me explain this to you.....Xxxmonkey is Kevex's sock account. They love having conversations with "each other" because it's the only way anyone will talk to him.
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    Apr 29, 2014 7:55 PM GMT
    Cash saidWhy do dumpy out-of-shape Guys always complain that Guys in excellent shape have the nerve to be on RJ - all while relentlessly drooling over ANY Guy with His shirt off?

    Why do Guys who have had maybe 3 dates in their entire lives profess to know everything (or anything) about relationships?

    Why do guys who live in a one-horse town who are still in the closet claim to know how "most" or "all" Gay Men think, act and/or feel?

    - more to come...


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    Apr 29, 2014 7:55 PM GMT
    jaroslav123 said
    Cash saidWhy do dumpy out-of-shape Guys always complain that Guys in excellent shape have the nerve to be on RJ - all while relentlessly drooling over ANY Guy with His shirt off?

    Why do Guys who have had maybe 3 dates in their entire lives profess to know everything (or anything) about relationships?

    Why do guys who live in a one-horse town who are still in the closet claim to know how "most" or "all" Gay Men think, act and/or feel?

    - more to come...


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  • MikeW

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    Apr 29, 2014 7:55 PM GMT
    HottJoe saidIt's only an act if you're trying to be something you're not.

    Part of fitting in is knowing how to act, so if you don't want to act don't try to fit in.

    Yeah, its right up there with (as just one example) the way so many guys (irrespective of race, or even nationality) today listen to hip-hop and rap, wear saggers and gold chains, flat billed baseball caps and gesture with their third and forth fingers tucked in when they dance… No, they weren't BORN that way. LOL. It's a style. They're emulating one another. It's part of fitting in and defining a group identity, etc.

    Better than being a chimpanzee, I'd think, although, perhaps in some ways, not all that different.
  • jaroslav123

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    Apr 29, 2014 7:56 PM GMT
    Cash saidWhy do dumpy out-of-shape Guys always complain that Guys in excellent shape have the nerve to be on RJ - all while relentlessly drooling over ANY Guy with His shirt off?

    Why do Guys who have had maybe 3 dates in their entire lives profess to know everything (or anything) about relationships?

    Why do guys who live in a one-horse town who are still in the closet claim to know how "most" or "all" Gay Men think, act and/or feel?

    - more to come...


    On a serious note....because people are hypocrites. And that's all of us.
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    Apr 29, 2014 7:56 PM GMT
    MikeW said
    HottJoe saidIt's only an act if you're trying to be something you're not.

    Part of fitting in is knowing how to act, so if you don't want to act don't try to fit in.

    Yeah, its right up there with (as just one example) the way so many guys (irrespective of race, or even nationality) today listen to hip-hop and rap, wear saggers and gold chains, flat billed baseball caps and gesture with their third and forth fingers tucked in when they dance… No, they weren't BORN that way. LOL. It's a style. They're emulating one another. It's part of fitting in and defining a group identity, etc.

    Better than being a chimpanzee, I'd think, although, perhaps in some ways, not all that different.


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    Apr 29, 2014 7:56 PM GMT
    Scruffypup said
    jaroslav123 saidYeah, because people so intentionally act feminine in a culture where being masculine is perceived as being better...

    I don't get your logic sunshine.


    Let me explain this to you.....Xxxmonkey is Kevex's sock account. They love having conversations with "each other" because it's the only way anyone will talk to him.


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    Apr 29, 2014 7:57 PM GMT
    kevex said
    jaroslav123 said
    Cash saidWhy do dumpy out-of-shape Guys always complain that Guys in excellent shape have the nerve to be on RJ - all while relentlessly drooling over ANY Guy with His shirt off?

    Why do Guys who have had maybe 3 dates in their entire lives profess to know everything (or anything) about relationships?

    Why do guys who live in a one-horse town who are still in the closet claim to know how "most" or "all" Gay Men think, act and/or feel?

    - more to come...


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    Apr 29, 2014 7:57 PM GMT
    jaroslav123 said
    Cash saidWhy do dumpy out-of-shape Guys always complain that Guys in excellent shape have the nerve to be on RJ - all while relentlessly drooling over ANY Guy with His shirt off?

    Why do Guys who have had maybe 3 dates in their entire lives profess to know everything (or anything) about relationships?

    Why do guys who live in a one-horse town who are still in the closet claim to know how "most" or "all" Gay Men think, act and/or feel?

    - more to come...


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    Where all chess pieces haha
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    Apr 29, 2014 7:58 PM GMT
    jaroslav123 said
    Cash saidWhy do dumpy out-of-shape Guys always complain that Guys in excellent shape have the nerve to be on RJ - all while relentlessly drooling over ANY Guy with His shirt off?

    Why do Guys who have had maybe 3 dates in their entire lives profess to know everything (or anything) about relationships?

    Why do guys who live in a one-horse town who are still in the closet claim to know how "most" or "all" Gay Men think, act and/or feel?

    - more to come...


    On a serious note....because people are hypocrites. And that's all of us.


    False.
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    Apr 29, 2014 7:59 PM GMT
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    jaroslav123 said
    Cash saidWhy do dumpy out-of-shape Guys always complain that Guys in excellent shape have the nerve to be on RJ - all while relentlessly drooling over ANY Guy with His shirt off?

    Why do Guys who have had maybe 3 dates in their entire lives profess to know everything (or anything) about relationships?

    Why do guys who live in a one-horse town who are still in the closet claim to know how "most" or "all" Gay Men think, act and/or feel?

    - more to come...


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    Where all chess pieces haha


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  • MikeW

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    Apr 29, 2014 7:59 PM GMT
    meninlove said
    Scruffypup said
    jaroslav123 saidYeah, because people so intentionally act feminine in a culture where being masculine is perceived as being better...

    I don't get your logic sunshine.
    Let me explain this to you.....Xxxmonkey is Kevex's sock account. They love having conversations with "each other" because it's the only way anyone will talk to him.
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    I was thinking it might be Misfit but wtf do I know.
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    Apr 29, 2014 8:00 PM GMT
    MikeW said
    meninlove said
    Scruffypup said
    jaroslav123 saidYeah, because people so intentionally act feminine in a culture where being masculine is perceived as being better...

    I don't get your logic sunshine.
    Let me explain this to you.....Xxxmonkey is Kevex's sock account. They love having conversations with "each other" because it's the only way anyone will talk to him.
    icon_idea.gificon_idea.gificon_idea.gificon_idea.gif

    I was thinking it might be Misfit but wtf do I know.


    How can it be Misfit? I thought Misfit was effeminate himself.
  • jaroslav123

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    Apr 29, 2014 8:01 PM GMT
    Cash said
    jaroslav123 said
    Cash saidWhy do dumpy out-of-shape Guys always complain that Guys in excellent shape have the nerve to be on RJ - all while relentlessly drooling over ANY Guy with His shirt off?

    Why do Guys who have had maybe 3 dates in their entire lives profess to know everything (or anything) about relationships?

    Why do guys who live in a one-horse town who are still in the closet claim to know how "most" or "all" Gay Men think, act and/or feel?

    - more to come...


    On a serious note....because people are hypocrites. And that's all of us.


    False.


    Nah. Sometimes we an be hypocritical without even realising. It's part of human nature. We hate and love things simultaneously.
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    Apr 29, 2014 8:02 PM GMT
    Mike you know alot my friend !! icon_biggrin.gif
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    Scruffypup said
    jaroslav123 saidYeah, because people so intentionally act feminine in a culture where being masculine is perceived as being better...

    I don't get your logic sunshine.


    Let me explain this to you.....Xxxmonkey is Kevex/Xavier's sock account. They love having conversations with "each other" because it's the only way anyone will talk to him.
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    Apr 29, 2014 8:03 PM GMT
    jaroslav123 said
    Cash said
    jaroslav123 said
    Cash saidWhy do dumpy out-of-shape Guys always complain that Guys in excellent shape have the nerve to be on RJ - all while relentlessly drooling over ANY Guy with His shirt off?

    Why do Guys who have had maybe 3 dates in their entire lives profess to know everything (or anything) about relationships?

    Why do guys who live in a one-horse town who are still in the closet claim to know how "most" or "all" Gay Men think, act and/or feel?

    - more to come...


    On a serious note....because people are hypocrites. And that's all of us.


    False.


    Nah. Sometimes we an be hypocritical without even realising. It's part of human nature. We hate and love things simultaneously.


    *can