Gay in the OC

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    Jan 02, 2009 5:44 AM GMT
    All right so orange county is probably the only republican conservative county in California which sucks because meeting other guys is really hard. At the moment i've only met about 4 or 5 other out guys and they're all fucking crazy. I'm not picky i just want some that i can relate to like one of my friends but a boyfriend. I try to meet as many new ppl as possible but everyone i meet is straight. i'm also not into meeting guys at clubs because i want a relationship not a one night stand.
  • bwayne78

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    Jan 02, 2009 5:22 PM GMT
    Hey Anthony,

    I grew up in the OC (Capistrano Beach to be specific) and you just got to know where to look. I have not lived there in about 14 years (so things could have changed)...but Laguna used to be great place to meet guys...check out some bookstores/coffehouses/ you always have LA only a hop skip and a jump away.

    Good luck!
  • metta

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    Jan 02, 2009 6:39 PM GMT
    Living in orange county, it should not be any more difficult than living in much of California. One thing that you may want to consider doing is joining a local gay (sports related or other) club.

    The OC Center may be able to help you find local groups:

    As I'm sure that you are already aware of, much of the local gay organizations and activities are in Long Beach.

    Different Spokes:

    There is the Great Outdoors:

    You may want to even consider starting your own group. There is a need in your area for more of them. The populations is large enough so it should be pretty easy. It would just be a matter of planning, getting the word out, and give it time to grow.

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    Jan 02, 2009 6:43 PM GMT
    Awww come on every gay I know in UCSD is either from the OC or the bay area...

    Just because there rich, republican and deeply closeted doesn't make them straight