Masturbating in men's locker room shower??

  • sonuus

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    May 02, 2014 2:25 AM GMT
    Hey guys,
    Few days back I joined my local YMCA in New York, so after a good workout I was having my shower in men's locker room.
    Diagonally opposite to my shower stall,there was a cute hot guy We both checked each other out since we both had shower curtain partially open.
    Later while showering, he started jerking off, and trying to show me his erect penis again and again, he was making it quiet obvious with his gestures and erection, I kind of felt embarrassed to reciprocate, and did not respond.
    Later I kind of liked him so I approached to talk, but he did not respond, so I was confused with his behavior.
    So my questions is, is it common or have you come across dudes who jerk off or show their erect penis while in locker room showers ? And how do you respond to that.
  • sonuus

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    May 02, 2014 2:32 AM GMT
    But this was not a random erection, he was doing it intentionally and trying to show me while jerking off? So my question was more of, was he inviting me sort off or just a show off?
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    May 02, 2014 2:36 AM GMT
    He was playing with your mind... You did right.

    Doing so in public places might be pretty exciting, but not with strangers. Its my point of view
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    May 02, 2014 2:40 AM GMT
    TheGuyNextDoor saidLOL... it's a story that's old as time.
    Erections happen.



    Just not always in a public place.


    Yeah, Its just another story, there will come up more,right? hahahaha
  • sonuus

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    May 02, 2014 2:43 AM GMT
    I see this guy all the time at my YMCA. I hope this does not become some kind of ritual for him, in case we cross again while showering.
    Well may be you are right I should just close my shower curtian
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    May 02, 2014 2:45 AM GMT
    He probably just wanted you to check it out. Guys are weird.
  • onefortified

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    May 02, 2014 2:58 AM GMT
    YCYL
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    May 02, 2014 3:26 AM GMT
    he obviously found you attractive, hence the boner, do you not feel the same way about him? its a nice compliment when a guy you find attractive, also feels the same way about you in the non verbal communication way, did you not have a boner too? since guys have 24/7 sex on the brain, shower erections I would say are spontaneous, first thought, although a real straight guy might be jazzed up thinking hes is going to bang gf when he gets home, if you have any practice, you can usually tell if the mutual attraction is there. I don't use those dam curtains, they are stupid and dirty, I just walk in the stall, I did see one time while I was drying off in the shower area, the guy in the stall across from mine had a nice boner since his curtain wasn't fully closed, I assume he was excited to see me uninhibited, its in the eye contact first before all else rises icon_lol.gif
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    May 02, 2014 3:32 AM GMT
    Exhibitionist. He was probably more into being naked and jerking off in front an audience.
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    May 02, 2014 3:39 AM GMT
    real straight guys can get an instant erection while seeing naked women while real gay men get the same while seeing naked men, its often a question to gay men, "how did you know you were gay"? a lot of answer the same, "I couldn't get an erection while with a women", more common than you think icon_idea.gif
  • AMoonHawk

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    May 02, 2014 4:10 AM GMT
    You were checking him out, so he thought he'd give you a show icon_biggrin.gif
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    May 02, 2014 8:20 AM GMT
    AMoonHawk saidYou were checking him out, so he thought he'd give you a show icon_biggrin.gif

    Nailed it. He wanted you to watch. Maybe next time keep looking, and see how far he takes it.
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    May 02, 2014 9:13 AM GMT
    He just is showing off. It would be a different story if he were stroking his dick in the suana with you - when he may very well want you to help him out. But even then, it would not be a prelude to conversation.
  • tj85016

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    May 02, 2014 9:16 AM GMT
    just don't offer to pick up his soap
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    May 02, 2014 9:20 AM GMT
    He was teasing you. You can look but You can't touch honey. LOL
  • xmanxxx

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    May 02, 2014 9:51 AM GMT
    LOL to everyone hire!
    he was flirting with u!! and u my friend(if u r single) r so stupid - u said u like him so why u didnt flirt back!!? sometimes u dont have to do much, the other side will take the lead....

    huh than u wonder why u r not geting some action or u r still single!

    now if i am he i would be ignoring u too, i am hunter and if i dont get any signal or shall say i am turned down, end of the story
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    May 02, 2014 9:56 AM GMT
    xmanxxx saidLOL to everyone hire!
    he was flirting with u!! and u my friend(if u r single) r so stupid - u said u like him so why u didnt flirt back!!? sometimes u dont have to do much, the other side will take the lead....

    huh than u wonder why u r not geting some action or u r still single!

    now if i am he i would be ignoring u too, i am hunter and if i dont get any signal or shall say i am turned down, end of the story



    You're just a sexual freaky-deak of the highest order, let's keep it 100! icon_cool.gif
  • xmanxxx

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    May 02, 2014 10:17 AM GMT




    You're just a sexual freaky-deak of the highest order, let's keep it 100! icon_cool.gif[/quote]

    lol dudeeee!
    i think u r the one who is flirting with me icon_wink.gif BUT IN A WRRONG WAY FELLA
    i am so open mined and easy going btw way more normal than u honey
    just say let meet buddy, unlock ur privates, no need to eat shit everywhere u see me baby icon_wink.gif
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    May 02, 2014 10:33 AM GMT
    xmanxxx said



    You're just a sexual freaky-deak of the highest order, let's keep it 100! icon_cool.gif

    lol dudeeee!
    i think u r the one who is flirting with me icon_wink.gif BUT IN A WRRONG WAY FELLA
    i am so open mined and easy going btw way more normal than u honey
    just say let meet buddy, unlock ur privates, no need to eat shit everywhere u see me baby icon_wink.gif
    piece [/quote]




    I have a feeling you might be a chubby-porker with bad teeth (or the like), I simply can't take that kinda risk!

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  • xmanxxx

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    May 02, 2014 10:44 AM GMT
    _SAGE_ said
    xmanxxx said



    You're just a sexual freaky-deak of the highest order, let's keep it 100! icon_cool.gif


    lol dudeeee!
    i think u r the one who is flirting with me icon_wink.gif BUT IN A WRRONG WAY FELLA
    i am so open mined and easy going btw way more normal than u honey
    just say let meet buddy, unlock ur privates, no need to eat shit everywhere u see me baby icon_wink.gif
    piece




    I have a feeling you are probably a chubby-porker with bad teeth (or the like), I can't take that kinda risk!




    hehe guess what - U R WRRONG HAHAHAHA icon_twisted.gif
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    May 04, 2014 3:19 AM GMT
    So, I've belonged to several gyms over the years and on those occasions that I've used the steam room, saunas, and showers, I might have seen an occasional chubbed up penis or two but I've NEVER seen a guy actually masturbate. I don't think it is common UNLESS the gym is a bathhouse.
  • sonuus

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    May 13, 2014 2:45 AM GMT
    Have any of you guys come across such guys at your local gym. locker-room shower stalls?
    Or had any such experience?
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    May 13, 2014 9:06 AM GMT
    sonuus saidHave any of you guys come across such guys at your local gym. locker-room shower stalls?
    Or had any such experience?

    No to both, and I've used lots of open gang showers in my many years since HS, and stalls as they've become more common now. My ex-BF used to claim he saw hardons all the time, and at the lockers, too, but I never did, including when I worked out and showered with him. The elusive shower stiffie.
  • iwrkhrd2

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    May 23, 2014 7:17 PM GMT
    Lots of guys do that at the gym, I just don't bother with them.
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    May 23, 2014 7:51 PM GMT
    sonuus saidHave any of you guys come across such guys at your local gym. locker-room shower stalls?
    Or had any such experience?