The “I Want a Relationship!” thread…

  • MikeW

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    May 08, 2014 1:11 AM GMT
    Ok, this thread is for all the RJ guys who want more than just hooking up. You’re looking for a BF and maybe a life partner and want to meet guys, date and see where it goes.

    To start, answer these questions:

    1) Where do you live?

    2) Are you willing to consider getting to know someone who may not be local?

    3) In one paragraph, why do you think you’d make a good BF and potential partner?

    4) In one paragraph, what qualities are you looking for in a BF and potential partner?

    5) Is it ok for an RJ member you don’t know to contact you from reading this?

    Ok, that’s it. Lets see what happens with this. If you like the idea, answer the questions and give the thread a bump every once in a while. Hey, it is free advertising, right? Feel free to have fun with it, too, but keep in mind that many guys may see this who don't post in the forums.
  • MikeW

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    May 08, 2014 1:21 AM GMT
    woodsmen saidI do not want a hookup! Am not a fish!
    You already have a man! This is for all the lonely guys out there.
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    May 08, 2014 1:24 AM GMT
    1. Warm waters off the Florida coast
    2. He must be somewhere along the shoreline
    3. Attractive, for a vicious sea creature; loyal, and way fun-loving.
    4. Low-maintenance. Only require the occasional octopus, squid, or weak swimmer for meals.
    5. Sure, as long as they're aquatic.
  • MikeW

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    May 08, 2014 1:44 AM GMT
    Sharkspeare said1. Warm waters off the Florida coast
    2. He must be somewhere along the shoreline
    3. Attractive, for a vicious sea creature; loyal, and way fun-loving.
    4. Low-maintenance. Only require the occasional octopus, squid, or weak swimmer for meals.
    5. Sure, as long as they're aquatic.

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    May 08, 2014 1:49 AM GMT
    1) Hell.

    2) Sure.

    3) Relationships are stupid.

    4) I hate everyone who is financially better off than I am.

    5) I don't give a fuck, not a single fuck. I don't give a fuck, not a solitary fuck.
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    May 08, 2014 2:01 AM GMT
    1) Thousand Oaks, CA (just outside Los Angeles)

    2) Depends on how far away, if the distance is too far, I don't think there is a point.

    3) I'm very giving, caring, attentive and romantic.

    4) Someone with decent values, but a lot more fiery than me, I'm very mellow, so I need a big personality to balance me out.

    5) That's fine with me.
  • MikeW

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    May 08, 2014 2:05 AM GMT
    James_Thunder_Early said1) Thousand Oaks, CA (just outside Los Angeles)

    2) Depends on how far away, if the distance is too far, I don't think there is a point.

    3) I'm very giving, caring, attentive and romantic.

    4) Someone with decent values, but a lot more fiery than me, I'm very mellow, so I need a big personality to balance me out.

    5) That's fine with me.
    Yeah, thank you. icon_wink.gif Finally a serious contender. Husband material here, fellas! Check out his profile and give him a shout-out!
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    May 08, 2014 2:25 AM GMT
    1. Currently Louisville Kentucky.

    2. Of course within reason. And if I can verify your legitimacy.

    3. I'm enthusiastic, I'm very thoughtful I'm easy going and up for anything. Although I may not be everyone's cup of tea I feel like I'm worth it because I'm loyal, and kind under my cold sarcastic armor.

    4. A sense of humor, confidence, hard worker, someone who is polite. Being taller than me is always a plus as well as someone strong mentally and physically. I really do mean it when I say someone who can put up with me. I can be a bit much but I never mean to be that mean. Oh and someone not jealous


    Sarcastic answer a trustfundee who is also a millionaire, or someone who is 90 and has a hefty life insurance policy. ;D

    5.Go for it I dare ya.
  • Eli_jah

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    May 08, 2014 2:30 AM GMT
    1) Where do you live? Purgatory

    2) Are you willing to consider getting to know someone who may not be local? No. Life is hard enough, why complicate it by starting something with someone you'll never see?

    3) In one paragraph, why do you think you’d make a good BF and potential partner? I listen. I know how to have fun.

    4) In one paragraph, what qualities are you looking for in a BF and potential partner? Someone more normal and sane than I.

    5) Is it ok for an RJ member you don’t know to contact you from reading this? Of course!
  • Eli_jah

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    May 08, 2014 2:33 AM GMT
    Jmusmc85 said

    3) In one paragraph, why do you think you’d make a good BF and potential partner?

    Despite my lack of tact or filter, I'm a pretty reasonable and mature guy. I am fiercely loyal, love taking care of a man, and am at a stage of my life where I feel I am ready and willing to commit to a guy 100% for a relationship. Plus, I suck a mean dick and have a high sex drive. icon_twisted.gif



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  • Karl

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    May 08, 2014 2:40 AM GMT
    1) Ho Chi Minh city,Vietnam... currently trying to move out, where I will be depends on where I get accepted to grad schools.
    2) Always, I'm more into people who dont speak Vietnamese.
    3) Be with me and watch me deal with my own problems, I ll do the same.
    4) Be proud of me, that's all I need.
    5) nobody would contact tho.
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    May 08, 2014 3:33 AM GMT
    1) Where do you live?

    NYC. Summer on the River Styx.

    2) Are you willing to consider getting to know someone who may not be local?

    I would prefer it. A photo will suffice. A deaf mute is not out of the question.

    3) In one paragraph, why do you think you’d make a good BF and potential partner?

    I have My own bank account, I look ADORABLE in hot-pants and I had My finger prints burned off years ago so the FEDS can't pin nothin' on Me. They also have yet to be able to PROVE that I had anything to do with My last 17 Boyfriend's suicides.

    4) In one paragraph, what qualities are you looking for in a BF and potential partner?

    He shouldn't tire too easily and not be afraid of Piranha. Would prefer a stunt driver. Criminal record is a plus.

    5) Is it ok for an RJ member you don’t know to contact you from reading this?

    As long as He sends a headless pic with His penis exposed it should be ok.
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    May 08, 2014 3:43 AM GMT
    To start, answer these questions:

    1) Where do you live?

    Toronto, Ontario, Canada

    2) Are you willing to consider getting to know someone who may not be local?

    Yes I have considered such scenarios.

    3) In one paragraph, why do you think you’d make a good BF and potential partner?

    Because I'll nag the crap out of him for something that he's capable of just as much as I will cheer him on for all of his accomplishments.


    4) In one paragraph, what qualities are you looking for in a BF and potential partner?

    That he's there for me as much as I'm there for him. That we can fight and find ways to resolve. He is strong and kind and when I walk into the room looking dapper, he goes. "There's my partner in crime."


    5) Is it ok for an RJ member you don’t know to contact you from reading this?

    If he wants to then sure. Can't promise that we'd click but I'm generally a friendly fella.

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    May 08, 2014 3:52 AM GMT
    ^^^Just for the record...I got dibs on Fivealive^^^

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  • AMoonHawk

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    May 08, 2014 4:17 AM GMT
    1) Where do you live?
    Colorado Springs

    2) Are you willing to consider getting to know someone who may not be local?
    Only if he is willing to move here.

    3) In one paragraph, why do you think you’d make a good BF and potential partner?

    I have great hair, am a great kisser, and am versatile.

    4) In one paragraph, what qualities are you looking for in a BF and potential partner?
    A guy that is Versatile, funny, strikingly good looks, HEALTHY, NOT BORING, and have real job or a viable, dependable means of support! No party boys, or grown men that call themselves boi!

    5) Is it ok for an RJ member you don’t know to contact you from reading this?
    Sure, but you better have real pics and RECENT not from 20 years ago, and don't be telling me you're younger than me when you're really like 20 years older.

    Okay ... I'm waiting icon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gif
  • davidchill45

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    May 08, 2014 12:42 PM GMT
    AMoonHawk said1) Where do you live?
    Colorado Springs

    2) Are you willing to consider getting to know someone who may not be local?
    Only if he is willing to move here.

    3) In one paragraph, why do you think you’d make a good BF and potential partner?

    I have great hair, am a great kisser, and am versatile.

    4) In one paragraph, what qualities are you looking for in a BF and potential partner?
    A guy that is Versatile, funny, strikingly good looks, HEALTHY, NOT BORING, and have real job or a viable, dependable means of support! No party boys, or grown men that call themselves boi!

    5) Is it ok for an RJ member you don’t know to contact you from reading this?
    Sure, but you better have real pics and RECENT not from 20 years ago, and don't be telling me you're younger than me when you're really like 20 years older.

    Okay ... I'm waiting icon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gif


    One of the funnier responses to any thread I've seen on RJ for some time.
  • MikeW

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    May 08, 2014 5:09 PM GMT
    Thanks to all you who have posted sincere responses. Unfortunately this may not get as much attention in the "Dating & Relationship" forum, although I understand why the moderator moved it here. I hope more people who are LURKING will be brave enough to reply. Come on guys, don't be shy! icon_wink.gif
  • tiger123

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    May 08, 2014 5:47 PM GMT
    1) Pretoria, South Africa.

    2) Yes. If you are a cute sugar daddy, i might even move continents to be with you!

    3) Im romantic, loyal, fun, smart, independent, music and series addict, affectionate, trustworthy, nature lover. Message me for more.

    4) A lover and partner in crime. Someone kind, loyal, non-smoker, non-drugs, fit to hike a mountain or jog, fun, do prefer old guys, hopefully a cook (i cant cook, but wont mind cleaning the pots and pans). Someone to enrich each others lives. And a great kisser or cuddler.

    5) Sure. I like chatting to guys icon_smile.gif
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    May 08, 2014 8:03 PM GMT


    Good topic, so *BUMP*!
  • AMoonHawk

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    May 09, 2014 5:39 AM GMT
    davidchill45 said
    AMoonHawk said1) Where do you live?
    Colorado Springs

    2) Are you willing to consider getting to know someone who may not be local?
    Only if he is willing to move here.

    3) In one paragraph, why do you think you’d make a good BF and potential partner?

    I have great hair, am a great kisser, and am versatile.

    4) In one paragraph, what qualities are you looking for in a BF and potential partner?
    A guy that is Versatile, funny, strikingly good looks, HEALTHY, NOT BORING, and have real job or a viable, dependable means of support! No party boys, or grown men that call themselves boi!

    5) Is it ok for an RJ member you don’t know to contact you from reading this?
    Sure, but you better have real pics and RECENT not from 20 years ago, and don't be telling me you're younger than me when you're really like 20 years older.

    Okay ... I'm waiting icon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gif


    One of the funnier responses to any thread I've seen on RJ for some time.


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    May 09, 2014 3:41 PM GMT
    Jmusmc85 said4) In one paragraph, what qualities are you looking for in a BF and potential partner?

    Kind, loyal, funny, smart, worldly, handsome. I have a fondness for mature (late 30's/early 40's) and European men so those are both bonuses. Bottoms need not apply.

    Ageist! 30s mature? What's wrong with 'mature' men in their 50s?
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    May 09, 2014 5:03 PM GMT

    1) Where do you live?

    Northeast Florida

    2) Are you willing to consider getting to know someone who may not be local?

    Not really, I want someone to cuddle with at any given moment.

    3) In one paragraph, why do you think you’d make a good BF and potential partner ?

    see my profile, I think I list my best attributes and things that best describe the type of person I am

    4) In one paragraph, what qualities are you looking for in a BF and potential partner?

    someone who is left wing, athletic, healthy , active, compassionate and concerned about the well being of others, spiritual but not religious, etc. ... oh and a beard is a major major major plus

    5) Is it ok for an RJ member you don’t know to contact you from reading this?

    sure, but they need to be realistic. I have no plans on moving anytime soon and am very hesitant with someone coming to Jacksonville just to meet me.

  • MikeW

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    May 09, 2014 5:41 PM GMT
    Don't be shy, all you lurkers, I know you're out there. 420 views so far. Leave a calling card icon_biggrin.gif
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    May 09, 2014 8:08 PM GMT
    Grr, I like this thread, why not! icon_cool.gif

    1/ Orange co (close to Disneyland), LA metro SoCal

    2/ No, I've done long distance before. Only looking for guys local to Los Angeles, OC, Long Beach and maybe San Diego this time.

    3/ Cute, Smart, Educated, Romantic, Creative, mostly smooth Versatile guy here. I love to travel, speak several languages. I can be very ambitious and can be loyal/monogamous.

    4/ Looking for: Intelligence, Stability, Kindness, Educated, Cultured, tall, cute (handsome) type of guy. Similar to my age (25-42), a little younger, older, extra bonuses if you're smooth, versatile, a little hairy, multi-lingual and can play the guitar/musician. icon_biggrin.gif

    5/ Sure, as long as they're not being creepy.

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    May 10, 2014 2:53 AM GMT
    1) Where do you live?

    Duluth, Minnesota -- by the shores of Gitchee Gumee (aka Lake Superior)

    2) Are you willing to consider getting to know someone who may not be local?

    Definitely. Since I split up from my ex 2 years ago all the guys I've dated have lived at least 100 miles away from me. I'm not holding my breath waiting for a compatible, single gay local guy to appear....

    3) In one paragraph, why do you think you’d make a good BF and potential partner?

    I'm fit, energetic, cultured, uncynical (except about the odds of meeting someone local....), and I'd rather make love than war. Also, I try to look for the best in everyone and I try not to hold grudges or "sweat the small stuff."

    4) In one paragraph, what qualities are you looking for in a BF and potential partner?

    Positive outlook on life, physical fitness minded, adventurous but not reckless. Nerdy, intellectual and having a healthy sex drive.

    5) Is it ok for an RJ member you don’t know to contact you from reading this?

    Definitely.