How to be fucked to cum while anal sex

  • cuteasian21

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    May 09, 2014 7:51 AM GMT
    I'm a bottom, tried a lot of times with my bf, but i wasn't able to cum while he was fucking me.
    feels i should cum for him at least once
    can anyone teach me how to cum while anal sex?
    i wasn't able to cum even if my bf helped me to jerk it
  • Nayro

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    May 09, 2014 8:12 AM GMT
    your thread title is a bit misleading..
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    May 09, 2014 8:15 AM GMT
    Nayro saidyour thread title is a bit misleading..


    lol, ikr
  • cuteasian21

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    May 09, 2014 8:27 AM GMT
    Nayro saidyour thread title is a bit misleading..

    thanks man
  • tristan36

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    May 09, 2014 10:16 AM GMT
    cuteasian21 said
    feels i should cum for him at least once


    It can take quite some patience and relaxation and stimulation to keep an erection during anal sex (for the receiver). So, if you make it an 'obligation' - especially to satisfy someone else - you're just putting negative stress on yourself. I'm sure the outcome of that is obvious...

    I've let go of that fixation on cumming during anal penetration, and instead focus on the right stimulation for anal orgasm. Much better, much longer, much more intense, and tops Love it when they can get their partner to *that* point icon_lol.gif

    Either way, enjoying the ride is much more important than focusing on the destination. Have fun!

  • 6packabs

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    May 15, 2014 3:26 PM GMT
    Anal orgasm? Wow. Never heard of that before.
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    May 19, 2014 11:11 AM GMT
    I think you just need to relax more and let go.
  • tristan36

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    May 19, 2014 2:02 PM GMT
    6packabs saidAnal orgasm? Wow. Never heard of that before.


    I suppose it's a matter of prostate gland stimulation by the inserted penis.

    It's like heat building up inside, to a point of extacy, like fireworks going off inside you icon_biggrin.gif Sparks and peaks of pleasure, make your ass twitch like hell. Can't really describe it more clearly, but it does feel amazing.

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    May 19, 2014 2:38 PM GMT
    Not really sure how you can teach someone this without actually being with him.. instead of online.. but I will give it a stab..

    to start with, it's your boyfriend and not you.

    your boyfriend should be more conscious of making sure he rubs up on your prostate instead of just stabbing your gut. This is considered a man's g-spot. He should be sliding the his dick over, rubbing it as he goes in and out. This should help stimulate you, in essence helping you jack off. and I guarantee you, this will help with your problem.

    and if you don't know where the prostate is, here is a visual.

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  • Destinharbor

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    May 19, 2014 4:19 PM GMT
    Don't worry about it. If he's a true top he's enjoying topping you and feeling you enjoy it. If you're distracted thinking about what's not happening, he'll enjoy you less. Some can and some can't get off during anal. I'm mostly top now but when I'm bottom, I'm either dick or ass oriented, not both. My partner likes to get off after I'm done but still in him. There is no right or wrong way about sex. Just enjoy.
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    May 19, 2014 5:23 PM GMT
    As tristan36 and dudewithabeard said, although I'll say it much more bluntly....

    It's not about teaching you how to blow during anal. It's about teaching your partner how to fuck so you both enjoy it instead of just -him- enjoying it.
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    May 19, 2014 9:01 PM GMT
    Some men Can't cum when being fucked. It's just their physiology/psychology. It's not unusual to loose a hard on when being entered. Some don't even care, the anal pleasure is what they want. J/O or blow to completion! And a real anal orgasm (not cock cumming) is a thing I love to see. Twitching, spasms and shaking, you can feel their body surge. It's a great feeling to know I can get my man to do that! At that point I don't care if I cum!

    Some guys will blow a load just at the thought of getting fucked, I didn't even get my head in there and BAM! Thanks! but what do I do now LOL???? (Only another man can appreciate a premature ejaculation! I was sort of flattered.)
    One buddy of mine is rock hard while being fucked, but he says DON'T touch my cock or I'll shoot. His precum is like drooooling, great evidence that he is enjoying it ;-) Slow and deep, measured and fast, mean or romantic, mix it up. Rimming and fingers (if you're into that) helps relax if that is an issue...before, during or after.

    Just enjoy each other. You'll develop a pattern of what it takes to get you off. Experiment. Have fun. Be safe.
  • iwrkhrd2

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    May 21, 2014 6:03 PM GMT
    dudewithabeard saidNot really sure how you can teach someone this without actually being with him.. instead of online.. but I will give it a stab..

    to start with, it's your boyfriend and not you.

    your boyfriend should be more conscious of making sure he rubs up on your prostate instead of just stabbing your gut. This is considered a man's g-spot. He should be sliding the his dick over, rubbing it as he goes in and out. This should help stimulate you, in essence helping you jack off. and I guarantee you, this will help with your problem.

    and if you don't know where the prostate is, here is a visual.

    GetImage.aspx?ImageId=89903

    That's exactly what it takes to send me through the roof and into outerspace.
  • 6packabs

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    Oct 06, 2014 7:58 AM GMT
    Seriously, I wish I could fuck you to see if I'd bring about your hands free orgasm. I've given other guys their first, and my ego wants to believe I could do so for you too.

    Yeah, that ego, hope you'll forgive me. When it comes to sex, I tend to believe I've got passion that most men don't have.

    That diagram already posted in this thread is good. If you were my man, and given the way I've fucked guys when they blew their loads, I would have you folded in half, your ankles over my shoulders, me on top and I'd be thrusting you with my arms wrapped around you tight in full body passion. I'd have a hold of your neck and skull, massaging and kissing you, depending on your size would determine if that be your forehead or your neck, or somewhere in between. My mushroom head would be all over that g-spot, and you'd be feeling full body masculine energy and intensity.

    For me, merely a cock and ass is just the icing on the cake. The rest of the body is crucial and must be in flexing, passionate lovemaking mode as much as my cock for a real euphoria to happen. That is why merely getting a BJ is so not appealing to me.

    I want the masculine energy of a full body contact orgasm, and over and over again it seems I've fucked guys who haven't ever really had much of that. Their sexual experience seems to be isolated just to the mid section, their cock or ass, and that is but a fraction of what potential there is to experience.

  • rnch

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    Oct 06, 2014 2:31 PM GMT
    6packabs saidSeriously, I wish I could fuck you to see if I'd bring about your hands free orgasm. I've given other guys their first, and my ego wants to believe I could do so for you too.

    Yeah, that ego, hope you'll forgive me. When it comes to sex, I tend to believe I've got passion that most men don't have.

    That diagram already posted in this thread is good. If you were my man, and given the way I've fucked guys when they blew their loads, I would have you folded in half, your ankles over my shoulders, me on top and I'd be thrusting you with my arms wrapped around you tight in full body passion. I'd have a hold of your neck and skull, massaging and kissing you, depending on your size would determine if that be your forehead or your neck, or somewhere in between. My mushroom head would be all over that g-spot, and you'd be feeling full body masculine energy and intensity.

    For me, merely a cock and ass is just the icing on the cake. The rest of the body is crucial and must be in flexing, passionate lovemaking mode as much as my cock for a real euphoria to happen. That is why merely getting a BJ is so not appealing to me.

    I want the masculine energy of a full body contact orgasm, and over and over again it seems I've fucked guys who haven't ever really had much of that. Their sexual experience seems to be isolated just to the mid section, their cock or ass, and that is but a fraction of what potential there is to experience.





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    Oct 07, 2014 1:31 AM GMT
    Gotta support this guy. I've given these male orgasm, too.

    He's right on.

    Tommy
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    Oct 09, 2014 3:00 PM GMT
    tristan36 said
    6packabs saidAnal orgasm? Wow. Never heard of that before.


    I suppose it's a matter of prostate gland stimulation by the inserted penis.

    It's like heat building up inside, to a point of extacy, like fireworks going off inside you icon_biggrin.gif Sparks and peaks of pleasure, make your ass twitch like hell. Can't really describe it more clearly, but it does feel amazing.



    Yes, I agree!! It is the most wonderful feeling, physically and psychologically.

  • Oct 11, 2014 2:00 AM GMT
    i've only had sex 2 times in my life and the first time, the guy made me cum because he was so passionate and sensual.

    The other time I came simply when he rimmed me while giving him a bj.

    in all i definitely you're mentality is the most important aspect. If you are fully enjoying the sensations and the experience, you will eventually blow :p
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    Oct 11, 2014 2:03 AM GMT
    Frankie says Relax. icon_smile.gif
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    Oct 19, 2014 7:29 PM GMT
    I think relaxing is the key to any good sex, don't focus on just the cumming , just enjoy the sensations.

    Jim
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    Oct 20, 2014 3:06 AM GMT
    stillgrowing122 saidi've only had sex 2 times in my life and the first time, the guy made me cum because he was so passionate and sensual.

    The other time I came simply when he rimmed me while giving him a bj.

    in all i definitely you're mentality is the most important aspect. If you are fully enjoying the sensations and the experience, you will eventually blow :p


    stillgrowing122 you have delivered the best advice of all of these posts. There are many who believe that technique or positioning or passion are important which they are but if all three are there and you add desire then the mind blowing full body orgasm is assured.

    There is an as assumption that a big cock or big muscles ect makes the difference but that's not actually true because what turns us on the most is individual and the result of those four factors I listed above all being present

    Those factors work to give your mind the psychology you it needs to have that kind of experience. We are not robots or clones nor should we try to be, communicate to your partner what feels the best to you
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    Oct 20, 2014 5:42 PM GMT
    unckabasa saidSome men Can't cum when being fucked. It's just their physiology/psychology. It's not unusual to loose a hard on when being entered. Some don't even care, the anal pleasure is what they want. And a real anal orgasm (not cock cumming) is a thing I love to see. Twitching, spasms and shaking, you can feel their body surge.


    I'd second this. Ejaculation has only happened for me (as a bottom) a couple of times but honestly I really don't care. When I'm being fucked it's about the sensation of that act, just relaxing and really enjoying it. A prostate orgasm is so much more intense than your standard ejaculation anyway, if I don't 'cum' oh well! lol