Seriously, I wish I could fuck you to see if I'd bring about your hands free orgasm. I've given other guys their first, and my ego wants to believe I could do so for you too.
Yeah, that ego, hope you'll forgive me. When it comes to sex, I tend to believe I've got passion that most men don't have.
That diagram already posted in this thread is good. If you were my man, and given the way I've fucked guys when they blew their loads, I would have you folded in half, your ankles over my shoulders, me on top and I'd be thrusting you with my arms wrapped around you tight in full body passion. I'd have a hold of your neck and skull, massaging and kissing you, depending on your size would determine if that be your forehead or your neck, or somewhere in between. My mushroom head would be all over that g-spot, and you'd be feeling full body masculine energy and intensity.
For me, merely a cock and ass is just the icing on the cake. The rest of the body is crucial and must be in flexing, passionate lovemaking mode as much as my cock for a real euphoria to happen. That is why merely getting a BJ is so not appealing to me.
I want the masculine energy of a full body contact orgasm, and over and over again it seems I've fucked guys who haven't ever really had much of that. Their sexual experience seems to be isolated just to the mid section, their cock or ass, and that is but a fraction of what potential there is to experience.