"Yes, Son, I already know you're a gay BDSM pornstar. I've been reading your Blogs for years..."

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    May 09, 2014 9:49 PM GMT
    First: People getting married BEFORE they come out to parents... Is that an actual thing now? (EDIT: Reading is Fundamental, my bad. This mom knew he was married!)

    Second: For the "This Thread is Useless Without Pics" crowd... You're right!

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    Now, if you've made it this far, on to the story...

    http://www.queerty.com/adult-film-star-comes-out-to-his-mother-after-finding-porn-on-her-computer-20140507/

    QueertyAdult film star Jesse Jackman got quite a shock when he logged onto his mom’s computer last October.


    Wouldn't we all? icon_lol.gif

    Queerty“My heart sputtered. I was instantly nauseous, and felt like I was in free fall. The ramifications hit me at once: if she’d seen the blog, she knew everything. She knew that I was a porn star, that my husband Dirk (whom I’d met through my studio) was a porn star, that my frequent trips to California were not really to visit friends.”

    After getting over the initial horror, he decided it was time to confront his mother about his profession, which he had been keeping a secret from her for years.


    Or, so he thought... icon_twisted.gif

    QueertyA few days later, he and his husband arranged a dinner with her. At the dinner, Jackman said:

    “Mom, there’s something I want to talk to you about. I stopped by the house a few days ago and used your computer, and it was open to…”

    “Your blog,” she interrupted.

    Jackman was speechless.

    His mother explained that she had been aware of his profession for some time, after finding an unusual deposit on one of his bank statements sent to her house.


    I don't quite get the part of why he would be speechless at that point, but anyway...

    QueertyAmazingly, she didn’t care too much about what her son did for a living. She was more upset because the bondage scene she stumbled upon looked like he was being tortured, which made her sad.

    “We explained to her that everything we did was consensual, exciting, and a tremendous amount of fun. Boundaries were respected, and nobody got hurt,” Jackman writes.

    He concludes:

    “I don’t think she fully understands my decision to make porn; she has difficulty grasping how I can be so open about something as private and intimate to her as sex. But that’s not really the point. The important thing is that we actually talk about stuff now. If I can tell her I’m a friggin’ porn star and she still loves me, then I can tell her anything.

    If that doesn’t warm your heart, nothing will.


    Yeah, it gets me right here. No, not THERE, you pervs. Here. icon_razz.gif
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    May 09, 2014 9:59 PM GMT
    So he can be open and admit to his Mother that he is a porn star...after she already knew...and then what? "Gee, Mom, I took a double penetration the other day..." icon_rolleyes.gif
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    May 09, 2014 10:01 PM GMT
    Yep, that would be a tough conversation to have. Glad she's OK with it, as best as she can be! LOL
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    May 09, 2014 10:02 PM GMT



    My mum would get a heart attack! or turn into JU-On straight with her neck twisted icon_confused.gif
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    May 09, 2014 10:05 PM GMT
    To all our Moms out there secretly reading RealJock...

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    May 09, 2014 10:09 PM GMT
    The Queerty headline is somewhat misleading. He did not just come out to his mom as gay, but as a porn star. If you read his blog on Huffpost, the source of the Queerty story, he says, "In essence, I'd come out to her a second time. It felt like a giant boulder had been lifted from me -- just like when I told her I was gay some fifteen years earlier, and once again she was entirely caring and supportive."

    http://www.huffingtonpost.com/jesse-jackman/mom-im-a-porn-star_b_5275341.html
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    May 09, 2014 10:12 PM GMT
    "So, Mom, did you ever use a strap-on with Dad?"
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    May 09, 2014 10:15 PM GMT
    "Let me get you a cup of tea and a hot water bottle for your boo-boo popo" icon_wink.gif
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    May 09, 2014 10:24 PM GMT


    Honestly Mama knows best! icon_wink.gif at least they do really know something deep down somewhere what their son really are.

    I wouldn't be surprised If my mum went #meh either.
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    May 09, 2014 10:29 PM GMT
    Iceblink saidThe Queerty headline is somewhat misleading. He did not just come out to his mom as gay, but as a porn star. If you read his blog on Huffpost, the source of the Queerty story, he says, "In essence, I'd come out to her a second time. It felt like a giant boulder had been lifted from me -- just like when I told her I was gay some fifteen years earlier, and once again she was entirely caring and supportive."

    http://www.huffingtonpost.com/jesse-jackman/mom-im-a-porn-star_b_5275341.html


    Exactly, that headline threw me off so bad I didn't even notice the discrepancy until I read it twice. I had to massage the RJ thread title.
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    May 09, 2014 10:32 PM GMT
    My mum commented one day that I should become a stripper. icon_lol.gif

    Was after my sister's hen's party and quite hilarious at the time. I don't have the bod for stripping though that's for sure.

    So I guess porn is just the next step up stripping huh?
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    May 10, 2014 10:26 PM GMT
    So....how would you feel about your mom or sister watching you be nude, hard, penetrated, getting a facial or watersports or scat or spanked, etc.?

    OMG!...I would be completely mortified and want to die...icon_eek.gif
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    May 11, 2014 10:48 AM GMT
    th3ro saidMy mum commented one day that I should become a stripper. icon_lol.gif

    Was after my sister's hen's party and quite hilarious at the time. I don't have the bod for stripping though that's for sure.

    So I guess porn is just the next step up stripping huh?


    I got some bills right here....*smirk*
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    May 11, 2014 6:54 PM GMT
    Sharkspeare said"So, Mom, did you ever use a strap-on with Dad?"


    "But of course, dear. And, we used the one that fit around his dick, anchored into his ass, and simultaneously give me two in the pink and one in the stink. What would you like to know about strap-ons, sweetie?"