Finally met a good guy and he has to move in 5 months

  • whytehot

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    May 11, 2014 6:32 AM GMT
    Last week I really hit it off with a friend of a friend, finally a real masculine guy's guy who likes dick and gets my humor. Unfortunately he has to spend his last semester abroad starting September. If he was hotter, I would have just had a fling with him, but I like him more for the personality, the latter being a long-term investment. We already made out today while clubbing with mutual friends, only because I didn't want to push him away yet, but I regretted it after. He's head over heels for me, yet there's no telling if it will survive the distance.

    Conflicted.
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    May 11, 2014 7:09 AM GMT
    You're too narcissistic to maintain any sort of relationship (not sure what you see in yourself, you aren't that great), so just end it.
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    May 11, 2014 7:33 AM GMT
    Sounds like it still has potential. 5 months is a long enough time to see how things do or don't develop. And one semester apart after that is short enough for a developing relationship to be able to survive. The big question is are you into him enough to push on regardless of whether or not he were temporarily going away in September.
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    May 11, 2014 8:21 AM GMT
    duluthrunner saidSounds like it still has potential. 5 months is a long enough time to see how things do or don't develop. And one semester apart after that is short enough for a developing relationship to be able to survive. The big question is are you into him enough to push on regardless of whether or not he were temporarily going away in September.


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  • whytehot

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    May 11, 2014 5:08 PM GMT
    duluthrunner saidThe big question is are you into him enough to push on regardless of whether or not he were temporarily going away in September.


    Physically no, but he has an amazing personality and swagger, which made him a lot hotter than he really is.

    This is in stark contrast to my ex, who everyone thought was really hot, and that we looked great together, but we didn't connect at all and hung onto the relationship only because of strong mutual physical attraction.

    I'm thinking that maybe this time I'll try a different approach