Social Mindbenders

  • TheMadKash

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    May 14, 2014 7:17 AM GMT
    Here's a reoccurring rhetorical mindbender that consumes me in times of mental stasis: How come some people..myself included will happy put an errect penis in their mouth..happily swallow it's contents but will revolt at the thought of eating a bite of someone elses sandwich. A few months ago my grandmother bought me dairy queen and looked longingly at my Blizzard and I offered her a bite ...she doubled dipped. Nastiness. Like AIDS i know you can't get decrepitude from saliva or a toilet seat. I acted as if i was full after she ate out of my Blizzard and took it home and dug out the entire spot she laid her saliva on.. and ate the rest while still highly grossed out at the idea of swapping saliva with her. I had a one nighter the next day.
    Where is the line drawn?

    I do not share drinks...or food at all...i will shake hands... but only if you look clean. But I have..along with maybe even yourself.. in the past have engaged in some pretty raunchy sex. Sex period is ... if you think about it... pretty gross... I'd blow you before i ate your sandwich..is pretty much what i'm saying...

    and thats just one of the many wierd social mindbenders and hypocritical juggernauts that exists. It's kind of funny.. Like most people would not talk to an unattractive stranger askig for directions but an attractive guy you meet at a bar .. you'll go home with him.. some people though would do the same in both situations... but i know a great deal of people who would sooner go home with an attractive stranger they just met than help a stranger on the street.

    There are more.. this was just a thread to explore wierd social paradoxes and idoiosyncracies...mostly those that the modern out gay male might encounter.
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    May 14, 2014 1:29 PM GMT
    i can say from personal experience it wears off as you get older. Something good to be said (experience sharing with other people) about growing up in a large family, closeness to an extended family.

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    May 14, 2014 1:35 PM GMT
    Lol Nope

    I've only once experienced this... She shared my drink w.o asking after picking at her herpes.

    Ahhhh
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    May 14, 2014 1:49 PM GMT
    TheMadKash saidHow come some people..myself included will happy put an errect penis in their mouth..

    That penis is probably cleaner than hands. Our hands have been touching shared keyboards, buttons, stair and escalator railings, touch screens, door knobs, phones, fixtures, pens, products, etc. Our penises are protected by a layer of underwear and then on top of that a layer of pants or jeans. We always wash our hands after using the restroom, but we ought to be washing our penis after our dirty, gross hands have contaminated something that was pristine and clean.
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    May 14, 2014 1:54 PM GMT
    - I'm the same as the OP. Unless you are my bf, date or an immediate family member, we will not be sharing saliva (that sounds so wrong haha!). But I do think you may be taking it a little too far with the shaking of the hands. Maybe all these things seem so "gross" to you because you simply learned it to be so from some experience you had. You probably got sick and vowed to be more careful the next time around.

    - The reason we approach attractive people rather than unattractive ones in the first place is because we associate attractiveness with politeness and kindness.



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    May 14, 2014 4:53 PM GMT
    My parents raised us with the motto you have to put soil in your mouth to develop your immune system ..
    We had to wash our hands before eating , but that was it .
    I believe on that motto , our immune system has to develop itself and fight against germs , and it is one way to do it .
    I don't mind to eat or drink after someone , as long he/she is not a total stranger ..
    Yes , if you start to analyse it , sex is pretty disgusting , that is hetero or gay , we put our mouth on dicks /vaginas where the pee comes from , we lick ass hole and so on , but we aren't grossed by it because of our raging hormones ..lol..
  • kew1

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    May 14, 2014 5:01 PM GMT
    Iceblink said
    TheMadKash saidHow come some people..myself included will happy put an errect penis in their mouth..

    That penis is probably cleaner than hands. Our hands have been touching shared keyboards, buttons, stair and escalator railings, touch screens, door knobs, phones, fixtures, pens, products, etc. Our penises are protected by a layer of underwear and then on top of that a layer of pants or jeans. We always wash our hands after using the restroom, but we ought to be washing our penis after our dirty, gross hands have contaminated something that was pristine and clean.


    One of the PTs at the gym washes his hands before going (but doesn't aftericon_evil.gif ).
  • MikeW

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    May 14, 2014 5:27 PM GMT
    Are you seriously asking why we humans are neurotic (think and act in contradictory ways) about an almost infinite variety of things? I think Freud was at least partially right about this: Society represses many of our instincts, especially our sexual ones. The example you give is fairly clear: You don't perceive sharing food as a means of erotic gratification. If you did, you'd be more likely to, right? icon_wink.gif

  • killercliche

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    May 14, 2014 5:33 PM GMT
    I'll share food with people I find attractive so I'd say I'm pretty consistent.
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    May 14, 2014 7:49 PM GMT
    I keep myself pretty ship shape cleansed and unless the person says or I notice recovering from a cold, I don't mind sharing any beverages or food.

    Also when you mentioned raunchy (period sex) ... Two things came into my mind....Both are related and not prettyicon_eek.gificon_eek.gif
  • Import

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    May 14, 2014 8:00 PM GMT
    Not trolling or being ageist or whatever, but maybe u were grossed out by ur grandmother's old mouth? I've noticed in my years that older people's breath tends to fucking reek! Because they dont brush their tongues or their denchers smell like shit or god only knows.... And by older ppl I mean elderly...like 75 and up... Their breath is the worst thing ever, smells like a rotting carcas.

    My grandmom eats burgers from mcdonalds and every once in a while my grandmom will spend a few nights at my parents house because she needs to be babysat (so annoying, i know).....anyway, she loves mcdonalds and when I was younger and living at home she would always eat half her burger and then save the rest.....for me. . She would put it in the fridge and then mention theres half a burger in the fridge if i wanted it... icon_neutral.gif

    Vom-it. No, I wouldn't touch that fucking burger if it was the last morsel of food on planet earth. Absolutely makes me sick. It was all because of her yellow teeth and stinky mouth. I would have rather eaten a burger off the bathroom floor at mcdonalds then touch the one my grandmother wrapped her lips around...Yet I had no problem sharing other things with other ppl...like drinks, food, kisses, etc.

  • TheMadKash

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    May 15, 2014 7:55 AM GMT
    Import saidNot trolling or being ageist or whatever, but maybe u were grossed out by ur grandmother's old mouth? I've noticed in my years that older people's breath tends to fucking reek! Because they dont brush their tongues or their denchers smell like shit or god only knows.... And by older ppl I mean elderly...like 75 and up... Their breath is the worst thing ever, smells like a rotting carcas.

    My grandmom eats burgers from mcdonalds and every once in a while my grandmom will spend a few nights at my parents house because she needs to be babysat (so annoying, i know).....anyway, she loves mcdonalds and when I was younger and living at home she would always eat half her burger and then save the rest.....for me. . She would put it in the fridge and then mention theres half a burger in the fridge if i wanted it... icon_neutral.gif

    Vom-it. No, I wouldn't touch that fucking burger if it was the last morsel of food on planet earth. Absolutely makes me sick. It was all because of her yellow teeth and stinky mouth. I would have rather eaten a burger off the bathroom floor at mcdonalds then touch the one my grandmother wrapped her lips around...Yet I had no problem sharing other things with other ppl...like drinks, food, kisses, etc.




    Old people straight up STANK. Especially old women... and old frail pussy...i've crafted a phrase that originates from the smell of older women vag... i call it pussy musk. It can come from any female.. but mostly that of either older or fat women...it's an unsettlingly masculine aroma that comes from a long hard day of pussy farts and collected vaginal fluids in the tampon that mirrors the odor of a stale roast beef ..moth balls and an undernote of sandalwood. It's usually wafting above a just-abused toliet seat. It just HOVERS. PUSSY MUSK.

    I implore you to use in sentence.


    It most deffinitely was that my grandmother is old and old people are just plain "STANKY"..not stinky... but STANK.. you have to drive straight to the inner city or "dirty south" to describe the nastiness of an old bitch.I love her dearly but the saliva of an old person... and especially the overall body stink of them.. the depressed drainstop anus.. the dentures.. the sad "given up" pussy in depends.. it's all neglected and calling protective services on it's owner.

    Jokes aside.. i in general will have a pause when it comes to eating after anyone... I mean.. it's true that a dick is most likely cleaner than someones hands.. it's not the germs but moreso the visual of the germs. Hey.. i don't mind if ya call me neurotic.
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    May 15, 2014 6:44 PM GMT
    Replace sucking dick with rimming. Then you've really raised the bar; in other words, what would you have to do to compare with that, drink water from the toilet?
  • TheMadKash

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    May 16, 2014 7:39 AM GMT
    Lumpyoatmeal saidReplace sucking dick with rimming. Then you've really raised the bar; in other words, what would you have to do to compare with that, drink water from the toilet?


    I often think about that too... eating ass is just about the grossest thing one human can do to another and you have to be in a moment consumed by utter lust.... you must not think about the act... just about your lust for your sex partner... hopping on that shit faster than Rosie O on a sugar free pussy shaped cheesecake. With a quickness. No allusion to thought.

    I will totally happily eat ass as happily as Courtney Love would snort snort Whitneys ashes... but first there has to be smell test. That test can waver if you're super attracted to guy.. and maybe that is the X factor.. we do insane thing for lust...and even more insane things for love.

    But poo on my cock...and we're through.
  • TheMadKash

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    May 16, 2014 8:34 AM GMT
    Fivealive saidI keep myself pretty ship shape cleansed and unless the person says or I notice recovering from a cold, I don't mind sharing any beverages or food.

    Also when you mentioned raunchy (period sex) ... Two things came into my mind....Both are related and not prettyicon_eek.gificon_eek.gif


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