dustin_K_tx said"I'm using the gym as a stable"
What does it really matter?
Like my MoonHawk said people talk, just be open to comments, winks, offers to spot.
Sometimes we get so into our workout we're not paying attention.
oh, and start looking for a new gym.
Trying to find someone to go out with who has a common interest does not always equal YCYL. If MMA means a lot to him and wants to have a partner who shares that passion, then where is he supposed to look for someone. And yes, single people do have to actually look for guys. They usually don't come knocking on our doors.
Now if he were hanging out in the locker room to see who wears Dolce & Gabanna or any other super designer underwear then that would most likely be a YCYL moment.