Fem Tops and Butch Bottoms?

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    May 19, 2014 1:42 PM GMT
    Are there any fem tops and butch bottoms here? I ask this because it's usually expected that the tops are the butch ones and the bottoms are the fems so I'm curious. If you're one of these 2, how has the fact that you're fem and top or butch and bottom affected your dating life and the way other guys perceive you? What silly assumptions they make about you?
  • HottJoe

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    May 19, 2014 2:21 PM GMT
    The butch/fem-thing only comes up online. IRL a big hard cock is a big hard cock.icon_wink.gif
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    May 19, 2014 5:03 PM GMT
    HottJoe saidThe butch/fem-thing only comes up online. IRL a big hard cock is a big hard cock.icon_wink.gif



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    May 20, 2014 7:55 AM GMT
    HottJoe saidThe butch/fem-thing only comes up online. IRL a big hard cock is a big hard cock.icon_wink.gif


    This is true.

    Once you transcend the confines of the binary "top" and "bottom", you'll find a much more colorful sex life.

    I used to be exclusively top and I used to think that that was the way it had to be because I'm more of a masculine guy. Turns out I wasn't 100% comfortable with myself; I was too self-conscious about the dominant/submissive dynamic between me and my sexual partner(s). Once I opened up more (quite literately icon_lol.gif ), it added a whole new element to my sex life, and it was very kinky.

    Although I still prefer the top bunk (at least until I get to know someone well enough), some of the best, most memorable experiences I've had were when I was on the bottom. Fem/masc isn't really a big concern of mine (as a matter of fact, there's something quite kinky about a feminine tops and masculine bottoms).
  • buddycat

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    May 20, 2014 9:49 AM GMT
    They are definitely out there. I am not into roles but what feels right to you and your partners is up to you. Many feminine guys like other feminine guys and butch guys like other butch guys. No need to role-play where one is the "woman".
  • tristan36

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    May 23, 2014 3:34 PM GMT
    HottJoe saidThe butch/fem-thing only comes up online. IRL a big hard cock is a big hard cock.icon_wink.gif


    That, my friend, is nothing but a rumour icon_cool.gif

    I remember a sad sex date with this hunk of a man, even taller then myself, big cock, but when he fucked me he moaned like a woman... Seriously. Needless to say the date didn't last long.

  • HottJoe

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    May 23, 2014 3:48 PM GMT
    tristan36 said
    HottJoe saidThe butch/fem-thing only comes up online. IRL a big hard cock is a big hard cock.icon_wink.gif


    That, my friend, is nothing but a rumour icon_cool.gif

    I remember a sad sex date with this hunk of a man, even taller then myself, big cock, but when he fucked me he moaned like a woman... Seriously. Needless to say the date didn't last long.


    Normally, the bottom does the loudest moaning.

    Either way, the question was whether or not there are fem tops, and obviously you found one and threw him back... so we know there is at least one tall, hung fem top out there!

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  • tristan36

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    May 23, 2014 3:55 PM GMT
    [quote]Normally, the bottom does the loudest moaning.[/quote]

    ...Exactly ;) ....

    [quote]Either way, the question was whether or not there are fem tops, and obviously you found one and threw him back... so we know there is at least one tall, hung fem top out there![/quote]

    He's all yours!!

  • HottJoe

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    May 23, 2014 5:02 PM GMT
    tristan36 said[quote]Normally, the bottom does the loudest moaning.


    ...Exactly ;) ....

    [quote]Either way, the question was whether or not there are fem tops, and obviously you found one and threw him back... so we know there is at least one tall, hung fem top out there![/quote]

    He's all yours!!

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    Haha. I'm taken, but if I see any butch bottoms bemoaning the lack of fem tops, I'll link them to this thread.
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    May 25, 2014 6:08 AM GMT
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