Helpp pleasee answer

  • Traww824

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    May 21, 2014 10:57 PM GMT
    Helppp i can't take it anymore. I'm DL and my friends is too he's really hot but he doesn't know im DL and he doesn't know i know he's DL ( he's messed with guys before) helpp? Anyonee pleasee
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    May 21, 2014 10:59 PM GMT
    Grow up and stop all this DL stuff, it's cowardly and unnecessary. So what you like men? It's not something you need to hide.
  • tj85016

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    May 21, 2014 11:01 PM GMT
    lol
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    May 21, 2014 11:05 PM GMT
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    James_Thunder_Early saidGrow up and stop all this DL stuff, it's cowardly and unnecessary.


    What would you know? You have obviously never had that option.


    what does that mean?
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    May 21, 2014 11:06 PM GMT
    How can the OP post without a picture? I had to wait for my pics to be reviewed before posting to forums icon_confused.gif
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    May 21, 2014 11:09 PM GMT
    Sorry! We're not allowed to answer until your 500th RJ post! icon_twisted.gif
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    May 21, 2014 11:10 PM GMT
    silver_bullet said
    JarIan said
    silver_bullet said
    James_Thunder_Early saidGrow up and stop all this DL stuff, it's cowardly and unnecessary.


    What would you know? You have obviously never had that option.


    what does that mean?


    He's never been mistaken for str8. No fem has any understanding of that experience.


    Well, no one ever suspects I'm gay but I don't hide who I am regardless. It really is cowardly. Real men don't ask for everyone's approval to be who they are.
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    May 21, 2014 11:11 PM GMT
    Sweetheart, shouldn't you be studying for your Geometry final?
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    May 21, 2014 11:11 PM GMT
    silver_bullet said
    JarIan said
    silver_bullet said
    James_Thunder_Early saidGrow up and stop all this DL stuff, it's cowardly and unnecessary.


    What would you know? You have obviously never had that option.


    what does that mean?


    He's never been mistaken for str8. No fem has any understanding of that experience.


    You know nothing about me, kiwilifter. I'm pretty much identified as straight everywhere, not that really matters, anyway, but you can't say I've never been mistaken for straight because you don't know me.

    I could pretend to be straight and pull it off easily, but I choose not to.
  • Import

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    May 21, 2014 11:12 PM GMT
    If your friend is DL, you must tell how u think he is a QT.
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    May 21, 2014 11:13 PM GMT
    silver_bullet said
    JarIan said
    silver_bullet said
    James_Thunder_Early saidGrow up and stop all this DL stuff, it's cowardly and unnecessary.


    What would you know? You have obviously never had that option.


    what does that mean?


    He's never been mistaken for str8. No fem has any understanding of that experience.


    Guess that would make the fem fag more brave and honest then the DL guy, doesn't it?
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    May 21, 2014 11:14 PM GMT
    silver_bullet said
    JarIan said
    silver_bullet said
    James_Thunder_Early saidGrow up and stop all this DL stuff, it's cowardly and unnecessary.


    What would you know? You have obviously never had that option.


    what does that mean?


    He's never been mistaken for str8. No fem has any understanding of that experience.


    I would much rather be mistaken for gay
  • HottJoe

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    May 21, 2014 11:21 PM GMT
    Scruffypup said
    silver_bullet said
    JarIan said
    silver_bullet said
    James_Thunder_Early saidGrow up and stop all this DL stuff, it's cowardly and unnecessary.


    What would you know? You have obviously never had that option.


    what does that mean?


    He's never been mistaken for str8. No fem has any understanding of that experience.


    Well, no one ever suspects I'm gay but I don't hide who I am regardless. It really is cowardly. Real men don't ask for everyone's approval to be who they are.

    When did you come out, because you had written on another thread that you were bullied for being gay when you were a kid?

    I'm not playing "gotcha" politics, or anything. I'm just curious how bullies identified you as gay when you were a kid, but that no one would know now, now that you're an adult. Did you adapt your mannerisms? Or is there something I'm missing???
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    May 21, 2014 11:30 PM GMT
    HottJoe said
    Scruffypup said
    silver_bullet said
    JarIan said
    silver_bullet said
    James_Thunder_Early saidGrow up and stop all this DL stuff, it's cowardly and unnecessary.


    What would you know? You have obviously never had that option.


    what does that mean?


    He's never been mistaken for str8. No fem has any understanding of that experience.


    Well, no one ever suspects I'm gay but I don't hide who I am regardless. It really is cowardly. Real men don't ask for everyone's approval to be who they are.

    When did you come out, because you had written on another thread that you were bullied for being gay when you were a kid?

    I'm not playing "gotcha" politics, or anything. I'm just curious how bullies identified you as gay when you were a kid, but that no one would know now, now that you're an adult. Did you adapt your mannerisms? Or is there something I'm missing???


    No, it had nothing to do with mannerisms. I started being honest about being gay in the 8th grade and paid for it dearly. I had no idea it would be such a big deal.
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    May 21, 2014 11:36 PM GMT
    silver_bullet said
    Scruffypup said
    silver_bullet said
    JarIan said
    silver_bullet said
    James_Thunder_Early saidGrow up and stop all this DL stuff, it's cowardly and unnecessary.


    What would you know? You have obviously never had that option.


    what does that mean?


    He's never been mistaken for str8. No fem has any understanding of that experience.


    Well, no one ever suspects I'm gay but I don't hide who I am regardless. It really is cowardly. Real men don't ask for everyone's approval to be who they are.


    You obviously don't know anything about it, many guys face losing their families etc.

    It is clear you are using the situation to portray yourself as some kind of "brave hero" but are in fact suffering narcissism - an unfortunately common condition in the gay "community" .



    Thank you for your diagnosis doctor, but I'd like to see your degree in psychology now. You don't even understand what a narcissist is if you think I'm one, so sit your dumb ass back down Kiwi.

    And don't try to tell me I don't know what it's like to feel persecuted. You have NO FUCKING IDEA. My entire family was Missionary Baptist. Ya know what that is? They're so narrow minded they believe Southern Baptists are going to hell. So don't tell me about "losing family." You love to talk about shit you know nothing about, which only shows just how stupid you really are.

  • Pheo

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    May 21, 2014 11:36 PM GMT
    James_Thunder_Early saidGrow up and stop all this DL stuff, it's cowardly and unnecessary. So what you like men? It's not something you need to hide.


    I have to majorly disagree with this for a few reasons. While it's becoming more and more accepted, there are still places and times when people have to remain DL and automatically assuming the situation is safe and comfortable for that person to transition out of is a big mistake that many people make in advice threads. While I prefer to date people who are out, I won't tell someone to out themselves just because I disagree with it, because there's more than one story. Major respect lost here.
  • HottJoe

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    May 21, 2014 11:38 PM GMT
    Scruffypup said
    HottJoe said
    Scruffypup said
    silver_bullet said
    JarIan said
    silver_bullet said
    James_Thunder_Early saidGrow up and stop all this DL stuff, it's cowardly and unnecessary.


    What would you know? You have obviously never had that option.


    what does that mean?


    He's never been mistaken for str8. No fem has any understanding of that experience.


    Well, no one ever suspects I'm gay but I don't hide who I am regardless. It really is cowardly. Real men don't ask for everyone's approval to be who they are.

    When did you come out, because you had written on another thread that you were bullied for being gay when you were a kid?

    I'm not playing "gotcha" politics, or anything. I'm just curious how bullies identified you as gay when you were a kid, but that no one would know now, now that you're an adult. Did you adapt your mannerisms? Or is there something I'm missing???


    No, it had nothing to do with mannerisms. I started being honest about being gay in the 8th grade and paid for it dearly. I had no idea it would be such a big deal.

    I came out in ninth grade and dropped out of school for awhile, because it was such a hostile environment. I ended up graduating from an ALC art school, which is where all the gays, druggies and teen mothers ended up.
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    May 21, 2014 11:54 PM GMT
    Justt telll himmm youu lusttt himm andd aree readyy too puttt yourr legsss uppp inn theee airr!
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    May 21, 2014 11:56 PM GMT
    Iceblink saidJustt telll himmm youu lusttt himm andd aree readyy too puttt yourr legsss uppp inn theee airr!

    You are incorrrigggiiibbbllee
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    May 22, 2014 12:00 AM GMT
    silver_bullet said
    Scruffypup said
    HottJoe said
    Scruffypup said
    silver_bullet said
    JarIan said
    silver_bullet said
    James_Thunder_Early saidGrow up and stop all this DL stuff, it's cowardly and unnecessary.


    What would you know? You have obviously never had that option.


    what does that mean?


    He's never been mistaken for str8. No fem has any understanding of that experience.


    Well, no one ever suspects I'm gay but I don't hide who I am regardless. It really is cowardly. Real men don't ask for everyone's approval to be who they are.

    When did you come out, because you had written on another thread that you were bullied for being gay when you were a kid?

    I'm not playing "gotcha" politics, or anything. I'm just curious how bullies identified you as gay when you were a kid, but that no one would know now, now that you're an adult. Did you adapt your mannerisms? Or is there something I'm missing???


    No, it had nothing to do with mannerisms. I started being honest about being gay in the 8th grade and paid for it dearly. I had no idea it would be such a big deal.


    Haha, you are talking shit, another unfortunate but common trait amongst gays. Its like they're all frustrated creative writers or something.


    I like how you talk about "the gays" like you're not a faggot yourself. icon_lol.gif