Guys in there 40s and 50s

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    May 23, 2014 12:54 AM GMT
    Why do they ignore me on dating sites?

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    May 23, 2014 1:18 AM GMT
    silver_bullet said
    Danny_boy93 saidWhy do they ignore me on dating sites?

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    Try contacting meninlove and yourname2000, they love young guys, but they have been lying pretty low lately after a scandal erupted on here over their involvement with a teenage kid realjocker. icon_rolleyes.gif

    Just what type of older man are you trying to attract with a kids cartoon pic in your avatar? [ shudder ] icon_sad.gif


    I don't treat this site as a dating sites. I come on for the forums. I do not use this picture for dating sites.

    Just to say about the members you mentioned the teenage realjocker said the claims were untrue so there's no scandal there.
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    May 23, 2014 1:28 AM GMT
    Danny_boy93 saidWhy do they ignore me on dating sites?

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    No answer, just my thoughts on your question - Wow, this thread kicked off atypically - but the replies will be typical.
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    May 23, 2014 1:33 AM GMT
    silver_bullet said
    Danny_boy93 saidWhy do they ignore me on dating sites?

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    Try contacting meninlove and yourname2000, they love young guys, but they have been lying pretty low lately after a scandal erupted on here over their offline involvement with a confused teenage kid realjocker. icon_rolleyes.gif

    Just what type of older man are you trying to attract with a kids cartoon pic in your avatar? [ shudder ] icon_sad.gif


    lol, what a liar you are. Now then, the realjocker was 21.

    The realjocker, who is 23 now has stated publicly that what you are believing are lies.

    But do go on. icon_lol.gif
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    May 23, 2014 1:34 AM GMT
    owl_bundy saidbecause you didn't say daddy.

    You're bad.icon_lol.gif
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    May 23, 2014 1:35 AM GMT
    silver_bullet said
    Danny_boy93 said
    silver_bullet said
    Danny_boy93 saidWhy do they ignore me on dating sites?

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    Try contacting meninlove and yourname2000, they love young guys, but they have been lying pretty low lately after a scandal erupted on here over their involvement with a teenage kid realjocker. icon_rolleyes.gif

    Just what type of older man are you trying to attract with a kids cartoon pic in your avatar? [ shudder ] icon_sad.gif


    I don't treat this site as a dating sites. I come on for the forums. I do not use this picture for dating sites.

    Just to say about the members you mentioned the teenage realjocker said the claims were untrue so there's no scandal there.


    You never seek dates on this site, but you start a thread here complaining about not getting the dates you seek. Sure that makes sense.icon_rolleyes.gif

    You take the word of a manipulated confused kid at face value?

    Hmmm, an answer is beginning to form as to why these older guys you crave are running in the opposite direction. icon_lol.gif


    I don't date on this site. I ask questions on this site because of the fact that the members are either gay or bi so they might know a thing or two about gay dating and dating sites. I see no problem with my logic and if you have nothing nice to say then why not bog off?
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    May 23, 2014 1:36 AM GMT
    because your a pokeman?
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    May 23, 2014 1:37 AM GMT
    Danny, silver_bullet is a known troll - KiwiLifter was his previous profile.
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    May 23, 2014 1:41 AM GMT
    DTOBIN2013 saidbecause your a pokeman?

    Not anymore I just evolved icon_razz.gif
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    May 23, 2014 1:44 AM GMT
    Men that age are probably skeptical when talking to younger guys for alot of reasons.
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    May 23, 2014 1:47 AM GMT
    ACRO_Slim saidMen that age are probably skeptical when talking to younger guys for alot of reasons.


    yes and a handsome dude
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    May 23, 2014 1:48 AM GMT
    For some older dudes a young guy with a Pokemon avatar is probably a turn on.
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    May 23, 2014 1:49 AM GMT
    David3K saidFor some older dude a young guy with a Pokemon avatar is probably a turn on.

    I've already said I don't use that avatar on dating sites!
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    May 23, 2014 1:53 AM GMT
    Well, what do you have to offer them? You're not giving us much to go on.

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    Danny_boy93 saidWhy do they ignore me on dating sites?

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    Try contacting meninlove and yourname2000, they love young guys, but they have been lying pretty low lately after a scandal erupted on here over their offline involvement with a confused teenage kid realjocker. icon_rolleyes.gif

    Just what type of older man are you trying to attract with a kids cartoon pic in your avatar? [ shudder ] icon_sad.gif


    lol, what a liar you are. Now then, the realjocker was 21.

    The realjocker, who is 23 now has stated publicly that what you are believing are lies.

    But do go on. icon_lol.gif


    I've been gone a while. Who is this troll Silver Bullet?
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    May 23, 2014 2:00 AM GMT
    I think some guys ignore you for the same reasons some guys in their 20's ignore men in their 40's-50's.
    Not everyone's cool with the age disparity thing.
    There's 7 years between my partner and I, yet somehow, it feels like we're the same age.
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    May 23, 2014 2:04 AM GMT
    This is the part where the thread gets derailed bacause everyone wants to pay attention to the troll... icon_rolleyes.gif
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    May 23, 2014 2:05 AM GMT
    I looove guys in this age range. So handsome!
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    May 23, 2014 2:37 AM GMT
    Because I got them all first, sorry.
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    May 23, 2014 3:03 AM GMT
    silver_bullet said
    meninlove said
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    Danny_boy93 saidWhy do they ignore me on dating sites?

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    Try contacting meninlove and yourname2000, they love young guys, but they have been lying pretty low lately after a scandal erupted on here over their offline involvement with a confused teenage kid realjocker. icon_rolleyes.gif

    Just what type of older man are you trying to attract with a kids cartoon pic in your avatar? [ shudder ] icon_sad.gif


    lol, what a liar you are. Now then, the realjocker was 21.

    The realjocker, who is 23 now has stated publicly that what you are believing are lies.

    But do go on. icon_lol.gif


    21 is still a scandal for a couple of old geezers. Whatever it was you were up to was manipulative and sordid and unfortunately seems to be a reoccurring theme in the "community" re the latest Hollywood Gay Mafia sleaze story still unfolding. Notice how the gay activists aren't showing any "outrage" on this one, instead hoping it will just go away and the flow of campaign donations will be safe again.


    More blah blah. The RJ in question has publicy stated what you are believing are lies. (my but you are rather dense)
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    May 23, 2014 3:51 AM GMT
    Danny_boy93 saidGuys in there 40s and 50s -- Why do they ignore me on dating sites?

    Because when they were growing up, people knew the difference between "there" and "their." icon_neutral.gif

    Okay, seriously... as has been said, older guys who want to date substantially younger guys represent one particular segment of the population. I won't presume to assign a percentage to it, but I would say it's not a majority. Don't take it personally. People like what they like, and that's about them, not you.
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    May 23, 2014 4:01 AM GMT
    MOVINGRIGHTALONG is right, many people wont like you, but you should care about the ones who care for you, and not by who don't. If people doesn't like you, is THEIR desicion, I know what you feel because before I was kinda the guy who tried to make everyone like him, and became a pest for them. Now I dont care a bull and people likes to come nearby, world is crazy!

    BTW, dont put Raichu, maybe Raikou, Electivire or Zekrom were a better idea icon_smile.gif. Still proud of you liking pokemon!
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    May 23, 2014 4:08 AM GMT
    Danny_boy93 saidWhy do they ignore me on dating sites?

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    Because you're not broke and naked.
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    May 23, 2014 4:11 AM GMT
    I don't understand why you're interested in men in that age group. I assume you're not looking just for hookups, or a daddy, so why do you want to date and possibly get into a relationship with someone old enough, or almost old enough, to be your dad?

    Men in their 40s and 50s are right in the middle of their adult lives. If they have careers they've been building up for a life-time, they're right in the middle of them. The ones who really want to be in monogamous relationships, and know how to have one, are most likely already in one. So that takes a bunch of them out of the dating pool right there.

    But the rest of them who aren't looking for "pups" just to fuck around with are probably looking for *partners*… that is, men they can not only have fun with but rely on to share the nitty gritty of their lives with.

    Are you ready and able to do that?
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    May 23, 2014 4:16 AM GMT
    -seams simple to me if it's truly a dating site.
    Were I to take the time to fill out a profile on a "dating site" I'd be looking for a husband, or at least should be at my age and, not to be to cruel, you're not husband material.
    Now if it's a hook up sight...
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    May 23, 2014 8:41 AM GMT
    MikeW saidI don't understand why you're interested in men in that age group. I assume you're not looking just for hookups, or a daddy, so why do you want to date and possibly get into a relationship with someone old enough, or almost old enough, to be your dad?

    Men in their 40s and 50s are right in the middle of their adult lives. If they have careers they've been building up for a life-time, they're right in the middle of them. The ones who really want to be in monogamous relationships, and know how to have one, are most likely already in one. So that takes a bunch of them out of the dating pool right there.

    But the rest of them who aren't looking for "pups" just to fuck around with are probably looking for *partners*… that is, men they can not only have fun with but rely on to share the nitty gritty of their lives with.

    Are you ready and able to do that?


    I was with a guy in his mid fifties and although that relationship was rubbish it wasn't an age problem it was more a marriage problem. Despite there being problems I never felt the same connection with any other guys closer to my age since.

    I definitely do want a relationship with the right person and not just hook ups. As you said as chances are they know what they're looking for and know what want in a relationship so I would be happy to let someone else take the lead if that's what they want.