Ex Boyfriend-Is it wrong to ask.....thoughts please

  • jnick91776

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    May 29, 2014 3:17 AM GMT
    A few months ago I posted my ex left me for someone else. They have split up 2 weeks ago. We spent last Friday night to Saturday night together. He told me then he wanted to take it slow. Yesterday I get a text saying (he wants to be left alone right now. I got to many problems. I just don't like being pushed. I just want to be alone)....My question is-we sometimes go to the same bar on the weekend. Would it be wrong to text him asking if he will be going to the bar with Bill, the guy he left me for even though they split up. My thought is if he is with this guy again that to me means that he does not have any desire to reconcile with me.....that would hurt. This way I would not go to that same bar.....thoughts. thank you guys.
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    May 29, 2014 3:23 AM GMT
    In this case your silence may be more eloquent and convey more than your texted words can.
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    May 29, 2014 3:33 AM GMT
    Silence may not be golden, but it sure is valuable.
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    May 29, 2014 8:33 PM GMT
    Art_Deco saidIn this case your silence may be more eloquent and convey more than your texted words can.


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    May 30, 2014 7:06 AM GMT
    Another relationship with this guy is not going to happen. And if it bothers you to see him with another guy, you are not over him. Until you are, if you expect him to be in a particular bar, don't go there. Go somewhere new or stay at home until you are over him. (Unless you are a masochist.)