I think we all need to have a good cry and a hug. And to ask for forgiveness of eachother.

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    In this thread we shall ask for forgiveness from other RJ memebers in an effort to quell the drama.

    I think it's important that we come together as an RJ community to demonstrate not only to eachother, but to the world at large that us gays can put aside our catty drama and personal issues we have with eachother in order to move forward and forgive.

    We're all human beings here., and yes that goes for the Asians as well.
    We need to come together and forgive eachother.
    If you have a personal issue with another member, here's where you can ask for forgiveness and not be judged. Please keep the sassiness to a minimum as this thread is to serve as a genuine place of solitude, reflection, meditation, and finally ownership of your wrong-doing(s).

    I don't really like the term "at the end of the day", but I'll say it here: At the end of the day, we're all looking for the same thing. Happiness and contentment with life. There's no need to be bitchy, catty, nasty, and just plain rude to people. We're supposed to be adult men. Let's have some maturity and be men. Despite me being a cat, I'm still a male cat though I was neutered, but I dont care. I still have a little penis.

    Does everyone think we as RJ need this? I am concerned that the RJ community is sabotaging itself and it saddens me a great deal. Please think about this and if you wish to express your apologies here, please do so. You're in a place now where no one is judged. It's just you and me.

    ~Namaste






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    And you are?

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    owl_bundy said
    snapbacks saidIn this thread we shall ask for forgiveness from other RJ memebers in an effort to quell the drama.

    I think it's important that we come together as an RJ community to demonstrate not only to eachother, but to the world at large that us gays can put aside our catty drama and personal issues we have with eachother in order to move forward and forgive.

    We're all human beings here., and yes that goes for the Asians as well.
    We need to come together and forgive eachother.
    If you have a personal issue with another member, here's where you can ask for forgiveness and not be judged. Please keep the sassiness to a minimum as this thread is to serve as a genuine place of solitude, reflection, meditation, and finally ownership of your wrong-doing(s).

    I don't really like the term "at the end of the day", but I'll say it here: At the end of the day, we're all looking for the same thing. Happiness and contentment with life. There's no need to be bitchy, catty, nasty, and just plain rude to people. We're supposed to be adult men. Let's have some maturity and be men. Despite me being a cat, I'm still a male cat though I was neutered, but I dont care. I still have a little penis.

    Does everyone think we as RJ need this? I am concerned that the RJ community is sabotaging itself and it saddens me a great deal. Please think about this and if you wish to express your apologies here, please do so. You're in a place now where no one is judged. It's just you and me.

    ~Namaste








    bye bye.



    lol wtf
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    owl_bundy said
    snapbacks saidIn this thread we shall ask for forgiveness from other RJ memebers in an effort to quell the drama.

    I think it's important that we come together as an RJ community to demonstrate not only to eachother, but to the world at large that us gays can put aside our catty drama and personal issues we have with eachother in order to move forward and forgive.

    We're all human beings here., and yes that goes for the Asians as well.
    We need to come together and forgive eachother.
    If you have a personal issue with another member, here's where you can ask for forgiveness and not be judged. Please keep the sassiness to a minimum as this thread is to serve as a genuine place of solitude, reflection, meditation, and finally ownership of your wrong-doing(s).

    I don't really like the term "at the end of the day", but I'll say it here: At the end of the day, we're all looking for the same thing. Happiness and contentment with life. There's no need to be bitchy, catty, nasty, and just plain rude to people. We're supposed to be adult men. Let's have some maturity and be men. Despite me being a cat, I'm still a male cat though I was neutered, but I dont care. I still have a little penis.

    Does everyone think we as RJ need this? I am concerned that the RJ community is sabotaging itself and it saddens me a great deal. Please think about this and if you wish to express your apologies here, please do so. You're in a place now where no one is judged. It's just you and me.

    ~Namaste








    bye bye.


    why bye bye?
    I haven't violated any rules.

    Please stick to the thread topic, please. Thank you.
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    "We're all humans, but I'm a cat"
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    owl_bundy said
    snapbacks said
    owl_bundy said
    snapbacks saidIn this thread we shall ask for forgiveness from other RJ memebers in an effort to quell the drama.

    I think it's important that we come together as an RJ community to demonstrate not only to eachother, but to the world at large that us gays can put aside our catty drama and personal issues we have with eachother in order to move forward and forgive.

    We're all human beings here., and yes that goes for the Asians as well.
    We need to come together and forgive eachother.
    If you have a personal issue with another member, here's where you can ask for forgiveness and not be judged. Please keep the sassiness to a minimum as this thread is to serve as a genuine place of solitude, reflection, meditation, and finally ownership of your wrong-doing(s).

    I don't really like the term "at the end of the day", but I'll say it here: At the end of the day, we're all looking for the same thing. Happiness and contentment with life. There's no need to be bitchy, catty, nasty, and just plain rude to people. We're supposed to be adult men. Let's have some maturity and be men. Despite me being a cat, I'm still a male cat though I was neutered, but I dont care. I still have a little penis.

    Does everyone think we as RJ need this? I am concerned that the RJ community is sabotaging itself and it saddens me a great deal. Please think about this and if you wish to express your apologies here, please do so. You're in a place now where no one is judged. It's just you and me.

    ~Namaste








    bye bye.


    why bye bye?
    I haven't violated any rules.

    Please stick to the thread topic, please. Thank you.


    racist comment. bye bye.

    We shall have the mods make that determination. You are not a mod.


    Anyone care to contribute to this thread in a positive manner?
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    WHo are you? Misfit? David? PatLok?
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    Whichever, obviously not a newbie as per post count.

    And a concern troll.
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    snapbacks saidIn this thread we shall ask for forgiveness from other RJ memebers in an effort to quell the drama.

    I think it's important that we come together as an RJ community to demonstrate not only to eachother, but to the world at large that us gays can put aside our catty drama and personal issues we have with eachother in order to move forward and forgive.

    We're all human beings here., and yes that goes for the Asians as well.
    We need to come together and forgive eachother.
    If you have a personal issue with another member, here's where you can ask for forgiveness and not be judged. Please keep the sassiness to a minimum as this thread is to serve as a genuine place of solitude, reflection, meditation, and finally ownership of your wrong-doing(s).

    I don't really like the term "at the end of the day", but I'll say it here: At the end of the day, we're all looking for the same thing. Happiness and contentment with life. There's no need to be bitchy, catty, nasty, and just plain rude to people. We're supposed to be adult men. Let's have some maturity and be men. Despite me being a cat, I'm still a male cat though I was neutered, but I dont care. I still have a little penis.

    Does everyone think we as RJ need this? I am concerned that the RJ community is sabotaging itself and it saddens me a great deal. Please think about this and if you wish to express your apologies here, please do so. You're in a place now where no one is judged. It's just you and me.

    ~Namaste

    Why don't you get us started? Who would you like to apologize to?

    Oh, heck. I'll go first.

    I didn't really have anything to do with it (did I?), but I'm sorry your penis is so small. What do you expect, though? You're a cat.
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    owl_bundy said
    snapbacks said
    owl_bundy said
    snapbacks saidYou're in a place now where no one is judged. It's just you and me.

    ~Namaste


    bye bye.


    why bye bye?
    I haven't violated any rules.

    Please stick to the thread topic, please. Thank you.


    racist comment and you're a troll. bye bye.

    You take this site way too seriously, breh. Real talk.
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    shawnathan said"We're all humans, but I'm a cat"


    A cat that recently got into a scrap with a Siamese (hence the rude comment about Asians).
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    People don't need to apologize much less hug and make up. All we need to do is stop posting snotty comments to one another (and worse).

    It is that simple yet, apparently, so difficult to do. And, yes, I do it too sometimes but I do know better. Just don't REACT (emotional reflex). Pause and reflect. 'How can this be handled better by me?' There are other options. I know making a snotty comment sometimes 'feels good' in the moment. If it only happened occasionally it would be no big deal. But it has gotten out of hand and that's the problem.
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    Ohno said
    shawnathan said"We're all humans, but I'm a cat"


    A cat that recently got into a scrap with a Siamese (hence the rude comment about Asians).


    ohhh..... that makes sense BUT he still said some racist shit so.. aye.



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    owl_bundy said
    shortbutsweet said
    owl_bundy said
    snapbacks said
    owl_bundy said
    snapbacks saidYou're in a place now where no one is judged. It's just you and me.

    ~Namaste


    bye bye.


    why bye bye?
    I haven't violated any rules.

    Please stick to the thread topic, please. Thank you.


    racist comment and you're a troll. bye bye.

    You take this site way too seriously, breh. Real talk.


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    you see me call the cops on a troll (the thread starter) though?? all i did was report this thread to the administrator and move on. you called the police on a damn screenname on a computer multiple times. get a life. the cops are laughing @ you. they don't give a fuck about people fighting on real jock web forums. they're busy fighting REAL crime. the police should lock you up for wasting their time and resources. the beach is open. go suntanning some time.


    "Owl_bundy" you're the only troll on this topic. I started a genuine thread for members to air their grievances and u refuse to contribute in anyway.

    If you have nothing to contribute, you can leave.
    This isn't your website. You cannot dictate what's allowed here or not. Kindly stick to the topic, please.

    Asians, if I offended you. I apologize. It was obviously a joke and not legitimately racist. "Owl_bundy" again you do not call the shots here. If you are unable to contribute then please just leave. I think members are getting tired of you and your constant complaining.
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    owl_bundy said
    shortbutsweet said
    owl_bundy said
    snapbacks said
    owl_bundy said
    snapbacks saidYou're in a place now where no one is judged. It's just you and me.

    ~Namaste


    bye bye.


    why bye bye?
    I haven't violated any rules.

    Please stick to the thread topic, please. Thank you.


    racist comment and you're a troll. bye bye.

    You take this site way too seriously, breh. Real talk.


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    you see me call the cops on a troll (the thread starter) though?? all i did was report this thread to the administrator and move on. you called the police on a damn screenname on a computer multiple times. get a life. the cops are laughing @ you. they don't give a fuck about people fighting on real jock web forums. they're busy fighting REAL crime. the police should lock you up for wasting their time and resources. the beach is open. go suntanning some time.

    I've always been respectful to you here. I can't say the same for you. The truth is I called the police only once, about a real person, not a screenname, who has threatened me with actual violence on more than one occasion. But whatever, breh. Throw your shade at one of the few people who's ever given you the time of day. I'm done with you.
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    owl_bundy said
    shortbutsweet said
    owl_bundy said
    shortbutsweet said
    owl_bundy said
    snapbacks said
    owl_bundy said
    snapbacks saidYou're in a place now where no one is judged. It's just you and me.

    ~Namaste


    bye bye.


    why bye bye?
    I haven't violated any rules.

    Please stick to the thread topic, please. Thank you.


    racist comment and you're a troll. bye bye.

    You take this site way too seriously, breh. Real talk.


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    you see me call the cops on a troll (the thread starter) though?? all i did was report this thread to the administrator and move on. you called the police on a damn screenname on a computer multiple times. get a life. the cops are laughing @ you. they don't give a fuck about people fighting on real jock web forums. they're busy fighting REAL crime. the police should lock you up for wasting their time and resources. the beach is open. go suntanning some time.

    I've always been respectful to you here. I can't say the same for you. The truth is I called the police only once, about a real person, not a screenname, who has threatened me with actual violence on more than one occasion. But whatever, breh. Throw your shade at one of the few people who's ever given you the time of day. I'm done with you.


    yes, you have, i don't deny that.

    however, i still stand by what i said. this is why the forum is going down. people taking this shit way too seriously when it doesn't need to be. there's no need for you to call the cops over what someone says on here to you. it's not in their jurisdiction. unless it affects your life offline where that person actually drives up, knocks on your door, sends you a threatening phone call and etc, it's not necessary and the police will not bother looking into it. they want actual evidence that you were threatened or that person was a REAL risk to your safety.

    when people see shit like that, it makes them feel uncomfortable because they fear that whatever they do on here will come back to fuck with them in real life. it shouldn't be like that. this is just a place where people just unwind, say whatever and etc. some of you guys take it to a unnecessary level where you can't separate online from offline. that's not good. it makes you guys a liability and the web owner might as well ban you guys because that's a lawsuit waiting to happen.

    all you have to do is report it to the moderator, whoever or put them on your ignore list. that's it.

    I understand why this matter is personal to you. I honestly don't believe the threats you made here were sincere. You got banned for it, and rightly so, but I think you were just talking smack.

    But you seem to be suggesting it's best to wait for someone to actually kill you before reporting them to the police. That doesn't make a whole lot of sense. And, as I've said, the police took this matter seriously enough to come out, create a case number, and ask if I would like to file a report and press charges.

    Sharkspeare has made dozens if not hundreds of vicious attacks here, and I've only involved the po-po one time. That alone should tell you whether I'm taking him too seriously. Obviously, other methods don't work with a committed predator.

    This is all off-topic, so I will leave it at that. Out of respect for the pussy that started this thread.
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    But you seem to be suggesting it's best to wait for someone to actually kill you before reporting them to the police. That doesn't make a whole lot of sense. And, as I've said, the police took this matter seriously enough to come out, create a case number, and ask if I would like to file a report and press charges.

    Sharkspeare has made dozens if not hundreds of vicious attacks here, and I've only involved the po-po one time. That alone should tell you whether I'm taking him too seriously. Obviously, other methods don't work with a committed predator.

    You never fucking stop with the insults, do you.
    God, you're sick.
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    Looks like we have a break-through.
    It's ok, yourname. You can cry here. We all are family here. Please feel free to express yourself further if you wish.


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    MikeW saidPeople don't need to apologize much less hug and make up. All we need to do is stop posting snotty comments to one another (and worse).

    It is that simple yet, apparently, so difficult to do. And, yes, I do it too sometimes but I do know better. Just don't REACT (emotional reflex). Pause and reflect. 'How can this be handled better by me?' There are other options. I know making a snotty comment sometimes 'feels good' in the moment. If it only happened occasionally it would be no big deal. But it has gotten out of hand and that's the problem.

    Thank you for contributing MikeW.
    I agree with you that the nasty comments have reached saturation levels. Are we all just sick and tired of eachother? Does it make us feel good knowing we made a nasty comment that provided a laugh for other members, at the expense of another member? I fear we have run out of things to talk about so we resort to the cattiness we've all become so accustomed to.

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    owl_bundy said
    shortbutsweet said
    owl_bundy said
    shortbutsweet said
    owl_bundy said
    shortbutsweet said
    owl_bundy said
    snapbacks said
    owl_bundy said
    snapbacks saidYou're in a place now where no one is judged. It's just you and me.

    ~Namaste


    bye bye.


    why bye bye?
    I haven't violated any rules.

    Please stick to the thread topic, please. Thank you.


    racist comment and you're a troll. bye bye.

    You take this site way too seriously, breh. Real talk.


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    you see me call the cops on a troll (the thread starter) though?? all i did was report this thread to the administrator and move on. you called the police on a damn screenname on a computer multiple times. get a life. the cops are laughing @ you. they don't give a fuck about people fighting on real jock web forums. they're busy fighting REAL crime. the police should lock you up for wasting their time and resources. the beach is open. go suntanning some time.

    I've always been respectful to you here. I can't say the same for you. The truth is I called the police only once, about a real person, not a screenname, who has threatened me with actual violence on more than one occasion. But whatever, breh. Throw your shade at one of the few people who's ever given you the time of day. I'm done with you.


    yes, you have, i don't deny that.

    however, i still stand by what i said. this is why the forum is going down. people taking this shit way too seriously when it doesn't need to be. there's no need for you to call the cops over what someone says on here to you. it's not in their jurisdiction. unless it affects your life offline where that person actually drives up, knocks on your door, sends you a threatening phone call and etc, it's not necessary and the police will not bother looking into it. they want actual evidence that you were threatened or that person was a REAL risk to your safety.

    when people see shit like that, it makes them feel uncomfortable because they fear that whatever they do on here will come back to fuck with them in real life. it shouldn't be like that. this is just a place where people just unwind, say whatever and etc. some of you guys take it to a unnecessary level where you can't separate online from offline. that's not good. it makes you guys a liability and the web owner might as well ban you guys because that's a lawsuit waiting to happen.

    all you have to do is report it to the moderator, whoever or put them on your ignore list. that's it.

    I understand why this matter is personal to you. I honestly don't believe the threats you made here were sincere. You got banned for it, and rightly so, but I think you were just talking smack.

    But you seem to be suggesting it's best to wait for someone to actually kill you before reporting them to the police. That doesn't make a whole lot of sense. And, as I've said, the police took this matter seriously enough to come out, create a case number, and ask if I would like to file a report and press charges.

    Sharkspeare has made dozens if not hundreds of vicious attacks here, and I've only involved the po-po one time. That alone should tell you whether I'm taking him too seriously. Obviously, other methods don't work with a committed predator.

    This is all off-topic, so I will leave it at that. Out of respect for the pussy that started this thread.


    the thing is.... people talk shit all the time on the internet. most people come here to escape the stresses of life and to simply get away because they can't afford the plane ticket so here is their vacation.

    i've talked with sharkie outside of real jock. he's a good guy. i doubt that he's serious about what he says about you or means any ill will towards you personally. do you both even know each other personally off of this site? just curious. people say things on here simply to get under each others skin for whatever reason.

    but speaking of which, has he, as in offline, called you on your phone and send you threats? went out his way as in knocked on your doorstep? went to your job to find you? or any of that??? if not, then he's not serious for you to take it offline because he hasn't done so.

    him arguing with you on here, you two trading insults, and etc is a matter for the real jock administrators. not the police. they could care less about you two fighting because it's not a crime to be on a web forum or a website practicing free speech. and besides, if the police got involved with web forums where every comment was taken seriously, they wouldn't be able to do their job. people talk shit all the time. it's the norm.


    I dont really think it's fair you go about your diatribes in a thread you allegedly reported to the admin.

    You have been dismissed. Good day.
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    I dont really think it's fair you go about your diatribes in a thread you allegedly reported to the admin.

    You have been dismissed. Good day.


    i reported you for your racist comment about asians and your trolling though. you've done both.


    As already stated. You're not the admin. And I am not trolling so please refrain from posting on a thread you reported. Seems like a conflict of interest Owl Bundy.

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    I agree with you that the nasty comments have reached saturation levels. Are we all just sick and tired of eachother? Does it make us feel good knowing we made a nasty comment that provided a laugh for other members, at the expense of another member? I fear we have run out of things to talk about so we resort to the cattiness we've all become so accustomed to.



    Who is this "we?" You have nine posts as of now. How offended can you really be?
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    snapbacks said
    I agree with you that the nasty comments have reached saturation levels. Are we all just sick and tired of eachother? Does it make us feel good knowing we made a nasty comment that provided a laugh for other members, at the expense of another member? I fear we have run out of things to talk about so we resort to the cattiness we've all become so accustomed to.



    Who is this "we?" You have nine posts as of now. How offended can you really be?

    Offended enough to make this thread. Yes.
    This "we" is us, showme. I would like the RJ community to come together as opposed to tearing eachother apart, which is what has been happening.


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    snapbacks said
    showme said
    snapbacks said
    I agree with you that the nasty comments have reached saturation levels. Are we all just sick and tired of eachother? Does it make us feel good knowing we made a nasty comment that provided a laugh for other members, at the expense of another member? I fear we have run out of things to talk about so we resort to the cattiness we've all become so accustomed to.



    Who is this "we?" You have nine posts as of now. How offended can you really be?

    Offended enough to make this thread. Yes.
    This "we" is us, showme. I would like the RJ community to come together as opposed to tearing eachother apart, which is what has been happening.





    Nice sentiment. Good luck, whoever you are.