So pretty much I'm a whore...

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    Jan 06, 2009 9:55 AM GMT
    The other night I hooked up with 3 different guys in the span of about 5 hours... Safe only! The first guy I have no interest in seeing again. Def not my type. The second guy never told me his age but I'm guessing he had about 13 or 14 years on me. The guy kissed like a champ. Kissing is prob my fav thing to do with a man or woman. Fornicating is nice but passionate kissing does way more for me. We rolled around a bit made out a ton and traded some oral. We finished up with me topping him.

    Before he left he asked me for my number. I didn't want to give him my number but even more so I couldn't tell him bugger off. I felt like it was the least I could do after he let me give him the business and all. While we were making out I also told him I would like to meet again some time. So if I didn't give him my number it would have been mixed signals sorta and I hate mixed signals...

    The next night I get an email from him saying he had a great time and he wants to meet again. He also said he had been thinking about me all day... I wrote him back and said thanks. I told him I enjoyed the time as well and wouldn't mind meeting again some time. He writes me back and says hey lets meet for drinks/ dinner some time. Later he calls me and leaves a voice mail like hey had a great time would like to meet again give me a call blah blah blah.

    I just wrote him again. I told him I got his voicemail and that I appreciate the offer for dinner and drinks but I'm not looking for friendship or any kind of relationship. I was only looking for sex and that's it. Hopefully he takes me email badly and deletes my number... I don't want to be a dick but it was only sexicon_neutral.gif
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    Jan 06, 2009 10:39 AM GMT
    I fail to see what your point is....
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    Jan 06, 2009 2:24 PM GMT
    I don't think you're the bad guy - you simply don't want to get involved.
    It's bad when you give someone the wrong signals and then back off. But in your case, he should be aware that a one night stand doesn't usually include second dates icon_razz.gif
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    Jan 06, 2009 2:25 PM GMT
    And you want the world to know this because...
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    Jan 06, 2009 2:35 PM GMT
    not a whore.... but certainly an attention slut
  • Mikeylikesit

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    Jan 06, 2009 2:47 PM GMT
    My hats goes off to ya......I thought I was a whore with 3 guys in a week, But 5 hours!!.......dang........LOL........icon_eek.gif
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    Jan 06, 2009 2:48 PM GMT
    onejock saidAnd you want the world to know this because...


    Ha, I was thinking the same thing. So, what about the third guy?

    Anyway, as for guy number two, you kind of dug your own hole when you gave him your number but didn't tell him in person that you were just in it for sex. Yeah, it's awkward, but the guy is probably feeling like shit, today, after your Dear John email.
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    Jan 06, 2009 2:50 PM GMT
    And the GLBT community wants equal marriage rights? icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Jan 06, 2009 3:14 PM GMT
    Maverick75 saidAnd the GLBT community wants equal marriage rights? icon_rolleyes.gif


    icon_rolleyes.gif back at ya, cos that is totally unrelated. You think straight people don't whore around? icon_rolleyes.gif Comments like yours don't help in any way.

    To the OP: So what? If you're single, don't beat yourself up about it. If it becomes a constant habit then you might be looking at a problem, but sounds like you are just doing some sexual exploration that as a single man you are entitled to do. For the second guy, you've now been clear, so what ever response you get (if you get one) is a good thing cos you are COMMUNICATING (which is what you probably should have done in the first place).

    And yeah, what about the THIRD guy??
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    Jan 06, 2009 3:15 PM GMT
    Money=Whore
    Freebie= Slut
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    Jan 06, 2009 3:21 PM GMT
    Well in any case at least you can admit it.

    Next time around don't make it so easy and don't be so easy. Come correct with your intentions and don't lead people on. That was your first mistake with the 2nd guy who you obviously didn't want to see again but clearly felt guilty.

    Also I have to point out the obvious but you said there were 3 guys. You only mentioned 2 of them. Addition is a whore's friend.
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    Jan 06, 2009 3:23 PM GMT
    I'll just go with attention whore, period.
  • MSUBioNerd

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    Jan 06, 2009 3:24 PM GMT
    I'm on the side arguing that this is more slut than whore. Whores get paid.
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    Jan 06, 2009 3:34 PM GMT
    The difference between you and a whore is that whores are motivated by money (they get paid). You just told us about how incapable you are of relationships (at any level, not even willing to give your name, nor number to one of your tricks) and about how easy, and I,I,I,me,me,me you are about folks and sex. Ironically, you wear that selfishness, and shallowness, as a badge of courage as you tell your tale of promiscuity. You exemplify some of the very worst traits of gay culture, and exemplify why many folks think of gays as a stereotype in the same way. You have issues of attachment. To you, folks are to be used for your sexual gratification and then tossed away. I personally never go down that path (not because it doesn't present itself as I'm a consistent 9.1 to 9.9 in my appearance ratings, but, because it's just so very sleazy, and I,I,I,me,me,me). I'd be embarrassed to tell such a tale. Each to his own, but, I'd bet a large Diet Coke that at some point you get burned by such selfish, and inconsiderate, behavior. The tale is certainly not an endearing one to me, or the folks I hold close to me. Bragging about being a sleaze bag doesn't have much appeal to most folks.

    Nope, you're not a whore (you did it all for free), but, you are a slut, but, a fairly honest, self-indulgent, shallow slut, and as long as you know you're a slut, well, half the battle is won. Eh?
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    Jan 06, 2009 3:35 PM GMT
    onejock saidAnd you want the world to know this because...


    yeah, a whore AND and attentionwhore.... thanx for, er, sharing.

    ps, this isn't a personal blog, its a forum site. where ppl discuss issues of general interest? lol...
  • Hunter9

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    Jan 06, 2009 3:49 PM GMT
    to each their own.

    who gives a shit?
  • jeg75sea

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    Jan 06, 2009 3:52 PM GMT
    While reading the initial post, my ADD kicked in and I thought "oooh look, penguins" and then shook my head...
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    Jan 06, 2009 3:58 PM GMT
    We can turn this around and see who holds the record for being a slut in a 24 hour period.

    Poster: 3

    My best is 1. Dammit.
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    Jan 06, 2009 3:59 PM GMT
    a1972guy saidI'll just go with attention whore, period.


    Ok, attention slut then.....
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    Jan 06, 2009 4:01 PM GMT
    Haha...Is this post asking for advice, venting, or bragging?
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    Jan 06, 2009 4:09 PM GMT
    All I can say is that at least you were up front with the guy when he called you. It was sex, just sex and nothing more than sex. You're not being a dick for doing so, you're being honest.
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    Jan 06, 2009 4:09 PM GMT
    So you're a slut. Bless your heart.
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    Jan 06, 2009 4:12 PM GMT
    HighVoltageGuy saidAll I can say is that at least you were up front with the guy when he called you. It was sex, just sex and nothing more than sex. You're not being a dick for doing so, you're being honest.


    I think it was actually via a Dear John email, not by phone, and then only after a couple of prior emails where he didn't make his intentions known. Not trying to dis the guy, but you gotta think of the other guys' feelings in this scenario, not just the OP's.
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    Jan 06, 2009 4:16 PM GMT
    I'm starting to believe he posted this to clear his conscious.....
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    Jan 06, 2009 4:22 PM GMT
    I am all for guys boinking other guys as frequently as they like. Extra points for playing safe each time. But you lose points in the upfront and honest category. Next time, tell the dude you just want to fuck them before you fuck them.

    Have fun. Post pictures.