May 31, 2014 8:25 PM GMT
Lately I've had a hard (excuse the pun) time knowing what I want out of sex and all that stuff that go hand and hand with it.
After a couple of months just trying to get back to normal after events i won't go into detail, it has left me feeling that everything that I once liked is just out the window along with that drive concerning my libido.
Has this ever happened to anyone? I know that Tops can become Bottoms and same goes for the other way as well, but can it also cover other things? It has made me look at who and what I do, and as a result i'm not exactly comfy with that i found, so i began to change that.
I deleted my apps/websites and just try get back that normality, so i have been hanging out with friends, and going to the gym a heck of a lot, and also generally keeping really fit.But now i find myself not knowing what I want.
is there an answer to the questions, like am i actually wanting something different ? why the sudden change in what i like in and out of the bedroom? or am i just over thinking this?
has anyone else experienced this? or to a degree ? i.d like some advice. i always do things that make me comfortable and happy which is really nice to have now, but not knowing what i want has threw me because i am very contentious person these days when it comes to men in that department.