Do I ask or not ask

  • jnick91776

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    Jun 03, 2014 9:41 PM GMT
    I know I posted this last week but I have a different question to ask...A few months ago I posted my ex left me for someone else. They split up 2 weeks ago. We spent last Friday night to Saturday night together. He told me then he wanted to take it slow. Yesterday, last Wednesday, I get a text saying (he wants to be left alone right now. I got to many problems. I just don't like being pushed. I just want to be alone)....Should I ask him if he still wants to take it slow or if he got back with his ex or just not ask....
    thanks guys
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    Jun 03, 2014 9:53 PM GMT
    He used you to make himself feel better. I think you need to avoid him for a long time.
  • Destinharbor

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    Jun 03, 2014 9:56 PM GMT
    He doesn't care for you. Ditch him.
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    Jun 04, 2014 1:17 AM GMT
    Did he not say that he just wants to be left alone? I would leave him alone.

    From the sounds of it, sounds like you can do without his rebound-y bs anyhow. Unless the sex was good and you're 100% detached from the emotional weight (because he'll probably want to be "left alone" after that).
  • Timbales

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    Jun 04, 2014 1:27 AM GMT
    Destinharbor saidHe doesn't care for you. Ditch him.


    +1

    Why would you want him back? If you let him back in, he knows you are his back up who will be there when he doesn't have anything better.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Jun 04, 2014 1:44 AM GMT
    He's not into you! Why do you keep wasting your time?
  • phildec159

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    Jun 27, 2014 10:33 AM GMT
    I just believe that after people break up, it should stay that way. Because you broke up for reasons you couldn't work through, so why waste each other's time by trying to force it. That's just how i feel about it.
  • PR_GMR

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    Jun 27, 2014 3:54 PM GMT
    Are you going to take him back after he blatantly left you for someone else? He has no respect for you and he used you. Cut off contact and move on.
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    Jun 27, 2014 7:33 PM GMT
    jnick91776 saidI know I posted this last week but I have a different question to ask...A few months ago I posted my ex left me for someone else. They split up 2 weeks ago. We spent last Friday night to Saturday night together. He told me then he wanted to take it slow. Yesterday, last Wednesday, I get a text saying (he wants to be left alone right now. I got to many problems. I just don't like being pushed. I just want to be alone)....Should I ask him if he still wants to take it slow or if he got back with his ex or just not ask....
    thanks guys


    Some of you guys make me laugh! He must have a 10 inch schlong that makes your eyes roll back and have you speaking in tongues.
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    Jun 27, 2014 8:49 PM GMT
    Sometimes love is "about letting go when you want to hold on".
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    Jun 27, 2014 11:04 PM GMT
    Poison him!
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    Jun 28, 2014 1:40 AM GMT
    Your ex is your ex for a reason - he already dumped you for someone else. Did you enjoy being dumped? No? Then why go back for more of the same?

    When a relationship fails it's a chance to learn something, move on, and do better next time. You seem to be skipping the lesson and asking for a do-over.
    Don't.
  • PRDGUY

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    Jun 28, 2014 1:47 AM GMT
    Ohno saidHe used you to make himself feel better. I think you need to avoid him for a long time.



    DITTO... +1
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    Jun 28, 2014 3:27 AM GMT
    you're just his booty call. Move on, it's for the best.