SEXUAL ESCALATION: J/O TO BJ TO ANAL TO FISTING?

  • Svnw688

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    Jun 04, 2014 8:33 AM GMT
    My question is whether people's sexual appetite changes and escalates.

    When I was younger, mutual j/o and oral was fun. Then I started doing anal. Then j/o complete fell off deck, and oral became merely a precursor to the more fun anal. Now that I have a B/F I'm getting laid everyday nearly and starting to watch more porn about fisting. I used to hate fisting porn. I never wanted to watch it. Now I find myself turned on by fisting porn and considering it.

    Will my appetites plateau? Are there limits, beyond the physical or am I destined to wind up trying watersports, autoerotic asphyxiation, and slings? None of those things turn me on now, but at this rate icon_rolleyes.gif

    I only have one fetish: socked feet. I've always had that fetish and no new fetish has developed, so we're clear on that avenue.
  • Svnw688

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    Jun 05, 2014 1:35 AM GMT
    Girls, you better answer my question icon_cool.gif
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    Jun 05, 2014 7:19 AM GMT
    I don't imagine that any gay guy ever started his gay career with fistfucking. So to answer your question, yes, mens' sexual appetites and tastes (can) change over time.
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    Jun 07, 2014 1:30 AM GMT
    I agree that our sexual appetite can change / evolve with time and experience. For instance, I once wasn't interested in any sort of lube (for self exploration). Now - I have to have some sort of lube or lotion if I jack it.

    Another example for me: Once I could barely stand to have my balls sucked or handled. I sort of held my breath and just waited until a guy finished there and got on to something else. Now, I not only like those balls touched, I actually want them mistreated a little.

    I don't think becoming accustomed to fisting will lead to watersports or autoerotic asphyxiation, necessarily. You may just be wanting to push your limits and experience the pain and pressing through / fists clenched, lower lip bitten, the agony on your face, the crying out for mercy - as your b/f impales you with something immense!
  • Destinharbor

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    Jun 07, 2014 1:54 AM GMT
    No, it doesn't necessarily escalate but as you get familiar with one thing, something new sounds like fun. Just experiment with anything that sounds like fun and your partner is willing to try. Like Jockbod, my partner was interested in cbt, giving, so we tried it and it was crazy for a while. We don't anymore but it was fun for a while. Point is, you can experiment and not everything will work for you but you'll laugh and share the experience with your guy. That said, you can also say "No, not sure that's for me." Totally cool.
  • HottJoe

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    Jun 07, 2014 3:42 PM GMT
    Fisting is the new rimming....icon_eek.gif

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    Jun 07, 2014 6:59 PM GMT
    HottJoe saidFisting is the new rimming....icon_eek.gif

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    Joe - are you a bottom or a top in that department?
  • theonewhoknoc...

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    Jun 08, 2014 1:20 AM GMT
    I am very turned on by fisting videos, especially the ones where they go really deep, but I can never imagine trying to fist someone myself without worrying about whether they've had a through-enough enema beforehand, and how nasty the hole looks afterwards when not gaping open.
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    Jun 10, 2014 11:33 AM GMT
    Gateway sex? LOL

    I've been a dilettante in many sexual things. W/S, fisted a couple of times, light SM, etc. Some of it just wasn't "me" and that was the end of it. Maybe again? Probably not. It seemed like a silly game to me. I do what I like and am good at. I'd rather be really good at one thing than passable at many.