Knowing your gay and feelings

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    Jun 04, 2014 4:32 PM GMT
    So i dont really know how to say it as a question but basically today is a example in that i was walking to town and i saw this average guy, sort of the stature and build i would go for and the first thing i noticed was his really nice arse icon_redface.gif inside myself i got this feeling kinda like adrenalin rush and i get that when i see certain guys and their body parts i tend to look at more etc but with women its like meh... although i would never say no to a experience with women lol

    Opinions on me and my situation and maybe your own situation and feelings ?

    (please no attacks on me its boring and disrupts a thread whats wanting advice)
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    Jun 04, 2014 4:41 PM GMT
    Seeing a man's arse bring a tremor to your insides , nothing wrong with that ..Does it mean you are gay , you might be , but you for sure are bisexual .
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    Jun 04, 2014 4:59 PM GMT
    forget the labels
    at some point you have to go with what works best for you.
  • PR_GMR

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    Jun 04, 2014 5:04 PM GMT
    I'm bisexual.. though these days I almost exclusively date and fuck men. I wouldn't say no to a very sexy/curvy women, but I'm past the stage where I would want a relationship with one.
  • MikeW

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    Jun 04, 2014 5:11 PM GMT
    We (humans) have feelings. All *kinds* of feelings. I walk down the street and there are so many impressions that jerk me in so many directions. Everything from repulsion, fear, attraction, annoyance, humor, even feeling 'awe struck' occasionally.

    So far as sexual attractions go, that's fairly normal, right? We see people we're attracted to, at least superficially. (We might not be that attracted to them if we interacted with their personality.) Yes, sexual attraction is visceral, energetic, chemical, exciting! ;) Nothing wrong with that. I know I'm gay but occasionally I'll see a woman I think is 'hot'. It's rare but, hell, I'm not blind!

    For me, determining my sexual orientation had more to do with what I fantasized about. I realized that very young. Boys did it, girls didn't. No question about it.
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    Jun 04, 2014 7:59 PM GMT
    Its such a good feeling though mixed with anxiety on to, like adrenaline and going over a bridge fast.
  • buddycat

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    Jun 04, 2014 9:31 PM GMT
    I agree sounds like you are bi. Being turned on by guys is a part of what makes you gay or bi (of course it certainly it is not limited to this). You are also young so your hormones are raging. Perhaps the anxiety is that you have not accepted your attraction fully?
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    Jun 05, 2014 3:56 AM GMT
    neffa saidSeeing a man's arse bring a tremor to your insides , nothing wrong with that ..Does it mean you are gay , you might be , but you for sure are bisexual .


    I don't get it. If OP says he feels meh toward women, how can he be bi? icon_confused.gif
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    Jun 05, 2014 7:11 AM GMT
    Dennis89 saidSo i dont really know how to say it as a question but basically today is a example in that i was walking to town and i saw this average guy, sort of the stature and build i would go for and the first thing i noticed was his really nice arse icon_redface.gif inside myself i got this feeling kinda like adrenalin rush and i get that when i see certain guys and their body parts i tend to look at more etc but with women its like meh...

    Opinions on me and my situation and maybe your own situation and feelings ?

    Dennis, if I had to guess, I would say you were gay - just not certain yet. If you get a rush looking at a man's ass . . . that says it all.
    But if looking at women never excites you (tits, ass, snatch, the way they walk, etc.) , then you are not bi.
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    Jun 05, 2014 7:52 AM GMT
    Nothing wrong with that!
  • buddycat

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    Jun 05, 2014 7:59 AM GMT
    He said he would not say no to the opportunity to be with a woman, I certainly would say no to this and many gay guys would say the same. Just because he is willing to be a woman doesn't mean that is what he prefers. You can certainly be bi more on the gay side or straight side or prefer one over the other. He obviously prefers men but the source of anxiety could be because of different reasons. Only he knows really what he is. Maybe coming to grips with his sexuality.
  • buddycat

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    Jun 05, 2014 8:04 AM GMT
    polfsky said
    neffa saidSeeing a man's arse bring a tremor to your insides , nothing wrong with that ..Does it mean you are gay , you might be , but you for sure are bisexual .


    I don't get it. If OP says he feels meh toward women, how can he be bi? icon_confused.gif

    If a woman wanted to have sex with you would you or would you pass at the opportunity?
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    Jun 05, 2014 12:37 PM GMT
    Hey thanks for all your replies they are much appreciated icon_smile.gif , well yes i know i am gay and yep the meh to women i just aint attracted is true but i only said i would not turn away a experience with a woman lol, i knew i couldnt question my thread proper ut what i was aiming at was about how do other people react when they are attracted to men and lets say their attributes lol do you get that rush inside sort of like the mix of adrenalin and lol the example i used of when you drive over a small bridge fast haha
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    Jun 05, 2014 4:05 PM GMT
    Dennis89 saidHey thanks for all your replies they are much appreciated icon_smile.gif what i was aiming at was about how do other people react when they are attracted to men and lets say their attributes lol do you get that rush inside sort of like the mix of adrenalin and lol the example i used of when you drive over a small bridge fast haha

    Not quite as severe a response as jumping from a height, but I have been known to get a hardon when a handsome man's pretty ass in tight blue jeans is walking in front of me. . .