Ohno saidIn terms of what I like visually I am completely with you, but the first time a guy puts your knob in his mouth all that kind of goes out the window given how nice it feels
OMG, is THAT a true statement!
And to also address some of the OPs posts: my own feelings about porn and male nudity have changed since I came out, and continue to change today.
Because I lived in denial for so long, and had a long Army career, where I was regularly in contact with other naked guys (barracks, locker rooms, nude swimming) I trained myself not to look at men "down there", even to cringe at the sight. Tough balancing act, because hidden deep inside me I sure still wanted to look!
Perhaps as a defense mechanism against getting myself in trouble and losing my career (and possibly my freedom along with a few teeth) I eventually convinced myself that men weren't attractive naked, even telling myself dicks were ugly. In those days I played all kinds of mind games on myself to rationalize & suppress my true desires, and protect myself from their dangerous consequences within the US military, to include believing I was straight.
When I did finally come out after Army retirement I had a field day, like the dam had burst. Bought lots of gay porn mags & videos, went to bathhouses, couldn't get enough views of dick, hard & soft, nor enough action. And I was nuts about nuts, too, still love a good pair.
To the frequent question of which view of a man you like best, I would always vote dick & balls. The last few years, though, I've come to increasingly appreciate a fine ass. I guess we never stop evolving, our tastes revising. As long as it makes me smile and feel a reaction I really don't care if it's front or back.
Regarding gay sex, at first I thought anal was kinda gross, and dirty. I told my first gay friends I could never do it, didn't even like to look at it. Oral was what I liked. A few years later, though, curiosity got to me (and maybe some growing lust) and I carefully arranged to be "deflowered". Being a bottom was great, but I also learned I liked being a top, too. Anal turned out to be good after all, and now I watch it in porn videos, too.
But my favorite remains oral, which I love to give, and to watch on screen. And a generous facial is the perfect climax. I basically watch what I like to do myself in real life. As to the perennial issue of whether gay porn is good for relationships or not, naturally that varies with the men involved.
My late partner saw any porn as competition with him. He got upset if I watched it, pics or vids, thought it meant I wasn't interested enough in him. Not actually the case at all, but that's what he believed, no changing his mind, so I avoided porn for the years we were together. A man in my bed is worth 2 on the screen.
My current partner is fine with porn, and it doesn't concern me when he looks at it, either. I think it's a sign of continued male sexual health and well-being. I visit gay porn sites all the time.
To me it's like when you see a TV commercial for a food place. They show you pictures of delicious meals, that you can't eat off the screen, hoping to get your mouth watering enough to come visit them in person.
Likewise I'll see some luscious man meat on my computer screen, that also gets my mouth watering. But a 2-dimensional image can't satisfy my appetite. It merely reminds me that the real meat is a few steps away in the bedroom, already laid out.
So for me porn is just the appetizer, to ready me for the main course. I wish my late partner could have understood that, porn being more his ally than his enemy. But this guy knows it, and so porn is OK in our household.