Done with the gay community & its antics...

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    Jun 05, 2014 2:09 AM GMT
    I came to one conclusion when I was dealing with the gay community; when I started seeing how they have no problem in showing their true colours, it became more than unattractive, it became a HUGE sexual turn-off over the years. They play way too many games for my taste, they're cliquish, materialistic, shallow & RACIST of all things & I refuse to partake in any of it, whatsoever. It was so amazing to even see the drug addicts have an attitude! Even more, I had a case of the "fake people", who had nerve to call themselves my friends hooking me up on blind dates with people they wouldn't even be caught dead with, but hooking me up with them like they were any good for me (yes, I told their fake asses to not let the door hit you where the Almighty Lord can split you); I was under fire constantly & the school shit I had tolerated over the years made me grow a serious backbone; I don't even fool with or see the ones who mistreated me & they try to talk to me & I don't hold grudges against them, I just have no interest in fuckin' with them. They had their shot & they fucked up by choosing to & that's all she wrote. It has given me a severe case of #KansasCityBurnout & I give it an F+!

    I do, however, keep a small circle of gay friends that do not fool with them, either. I traded the gay bars for the gym; liking the results I am getting over time, eating healthier..oh, I am no longer attracted to them & its making my life much more easier! I always said if I go cold towards them, it is a compromise of my principles & compromise is always wrong if it means sacrificing a principle.

    More focused on the finer things...

    Church first (glad to be back in Saturday Mass & trying to read up on my Holy Bible; happier without having to fool with those who mistreated me, but under any circimstances, do not hold any grudges towards them, just let them be who they are & do what they do best, straight or gay)

    Work (my $$$!)
    Gym (self-explanatory in itself)
    Travel (going places)

    I'm done. Anyone who feels the need to post anything disparaging, feel free to do so(:
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    Jun 05, 2014 2:20 AM GMT
    Congrats on figuring out what's really important to you and not wasting more time with the bottom feeders you've been dealing with. They are part of a gay-scene that not many people on RJ want to associate with either.

    However there are also other gay environments like lgbt centers, political orgs, sports clubs where people are respectful of one another.
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    Jun 05, 2014 2:22 AM GMT
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    Jun 05, 2014 2:24 AM GMT
    :C

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    hmmmm

    well, I guess your pictures of cars aren't materialistic... ;/
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    Jun 05, 2014 2:26 AM GMT
    *hugs*
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    Jun 05, 2014 2:32 AM GMT
    W8n2Xhale_Remixed saidThey play way too many games for my taste, they're cliquish, materialistic, shallow & RACIST of all things


    Yep... that sounds pretty much like a church! icon_razz.gif

    Good luck finding whatever you're looking for.
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    Jun 05, 2014 2:45 AM GMT
    W8n2Xhale_Remixed said

    I do, however, keep a small circle of gay friends that do not fool with them, either.


    I whittled down your post to this key statement.
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    Jun 05, 2014 2:46 AM GMT
    bhp91126 saidCongrats on figuring out what's really important to you and not wasting more time with the bottom feeders you've been dealing with. They are part of a gay-scene that not many people on RJ want to associate with either.

    However there are also other gay environments like lgbt centers, political orgs, sports clubs where people are respectful of one another.

    This
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    Jun 05, 2014 1:12 PM GMT
    dayumm said
    W8n2Xhale_Remixed saidThey play way too many games for my taste, they're cliquish, materialistic, shallow & RACIST of all things


    Yep... that sounds pretty much like a church! icon_razz.gif

    Good luck finding whatever you're looking for.


    Dayumm, my SDA church doesn't condone that kind of mess. They treat & love you like family, something I really wasn't getting from the old church I broke away from...
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    Jun 05, 2014 1:15 PM GMT
    W8n2Xhale_Remixed said... Anyone who feels the need to post anything disparaging, feel free to do so(:
    I farted.
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    Jun 05, 2014 1:44 PM GMT
    W8n2Xhale_Remixed said ... Church first (glad to be back in Saturday Mass ...
    i am literally reading this ?right:
    we all have considered going to church on the down lo and they will accept you good enough. Try holding hands with your bf / husband. Give him a big wet gay kissss...

    -You might be more cautious what you incorporate to your life.
    -Show off and start with your self.
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    Jun 05, 2014 1:55 PM GMT
    You poor, poor people that don't understand there isn't a group without serious flaws. The sooner you realize that the best group for you is the group of awesome individuals you choose yourself, the better off your life will be.
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    Jun 05, 2014 2:46 PM GMT
    SuntoryTime saidYou poor, poor people that don't understand there isn't a group without serious flaws. The sooner you realize that the best group for you is the group of awesome individuals you choose yourself, the better off your life will be.


    I keep trying to explain to them that racism, hate etc. are very prevalent among heterosexuals (depending where you live), and not a 'gay' symptom.
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    Jun 05, 2014 3:16 PM GMT
    You're accusing all of the "gay community" of being shallow, materialistic, racist, etc. - yet you're generalizing and stereotyping it based on a couple of bad experiences. See the double-standard?

    You could be correct about the people that you've encountered, but you're making a mistake in believing that these people represent the entire community. I used to think just like you - I've had a couple of bad experiences, bad dates, bad nights, bad fights etc. until I've realized that I was just hanging around the wrong crowd, for me at least. Once I opened myself up more and expanded my social circle, I ended up meeting all kinds of interesting, fun and eclectic people. In any social setting, it takes awhile before you pick out your place and find the crowd you that you best associate with. Even then, people are people; we're not perfect and mistakes will always be made, regardless.

    On the other hand, if you say that you're more content with occupying yourself with other things or elsewhere, maybe it was for the best at this point in time.
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    Jun 05, 2014 3:23 PM GMT
    Any disparaging comments probably prove your criticisms of the "gay community."

    Finding serenity by attending Mass and becoming better acquainted with the Bible are very smart moves, in my opinion.

    All of the people who are important to me are Christians or Jews, and an important subset of the former are Catholics.

    It's both ironic and tragic that the phrase "gay community" rings hollow so much of the time, but there are always believers who are worth knowing.

    Speaking of Mass, there are some stunning Masses on YouTube






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    Jun 05, 2014 3:48 PM GMT
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    Jun 05, 2014 4:05 PM GMT
    jockfever saidAny disparaging comments probably prove your criticisms of the "gay community."

    Finding serenity by attending Mass and becoming better acquainted with the Bible are very smart moves, in my opinion.

    All of the people who are important to me are Christians or Jews, and an important subset of the former are Catholics.

    It's both ironic and tragic that the phrase "gay community" rings hollow so much of the time, but there are always believers who are worth knowing.

    Speaking of Mass, there are some stunning Masses on YouTube







    Man, you have serious issues. How can people like you stand to live the way you do?
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    Jun 05, 2014 4:17 PM GMT
    very conservative member (if not fake)
    he's got southbeach1500 on his Hot List
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    Jun 05, 2014 4:31 PM GMT
    pellaz saidvery conservative member (if not fake)
    he's got southbeach1500 on his Hot List


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    Hey, To Each His Own! icon_razz.gif
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    Jun 05, 2014 6:57 PM GMT
    Snaz said:C

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    hmmmm

    well, I guess your pictures of cars aren't materialistic... ;/


    Hmmm... had you asked me or read my profile, you would've read I have a fascination with cars; instead you twisted it into something that has nothing to do with the sort. Nice assumption but, then again, that's expected(:
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    Jun 05, 2014 7:26 PM GMT
    pellaz said
    W8n2Xhale_Remixed said ... Church first (glad to be back in Saturday Mass ...
    i am literally reading this ?right:
    we all have considered going to church on the down lo and they will accept you good enough. Try holding hands with your bf / husband. Give him a big wet gay kissss...

    -You might be more cautious what you incorporate to your life.
    -Show off and start with your self.


    Who said anything about being in or going to church on the "down low"? You obviously missed the part where I said I would find peace of mind before I give into my cold side & if it means backing away from ppl who portrayed themselves as bottom feeders to me, then so be it. I saved myself a lot of headaches by cutting them loose...

    And BTW, make sure you quote the whole sentence instead of pieces of it...
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    Jun 05, 2014 7:39 PM GMT
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    SuntoryTime saidYou poor, poor people that don't understand there isn't a group without serious flaws. The sooner you realize that the best group for you is the group of awesome individuals you choose yourself, the better off your life will be.


    I keep trying to explain to them that racism, hate etc. are very prevalent among heterosexuals (depending where you live), and not a 'gay' symptom.


    True. Unfortunately many people don't realize that when you find yourself surrounded by people who don't share your values, it may be a result of your own poor choices.

    It seems the OP is on the right track to making better choices in his friends.

    I hope the church he is attending is one that accepts who he is, and will support him as he focuses on making healthier life choices for himself.

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    Jun 05, 2014 7:52 PM GMT
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    Sweetooth said
    SuntoryTime saidYou poor, poor people that don't understand there isn't a group without serious flaws. The sooner you realize that the best group for you is the group of awesome individuals you choose yourself, the better off your life will be.


    I keep trying to explain to them that racism, hate etc. are very prevalent among heterosexuals (depending where you live), and not a 'gay' symptom.


    True. Unfortunately many people don't realize that when you find yourself surrounded by people who don't share your values, it may be a result of your own poor choices.

    It seems the OP is on the right track to making better choices in his friends.

    I hope the church he is attending is one that accepts who he is, and will support him as he focuses on making healthier life choices for himself.



    Absolutely, whether gay, straight, atheist, Christian , asian, latino, white, black etc. racism will exist, negativity, hate etc. You need to choose good people.
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    Jun 05, 2014 7:53 PM GMT
    W8n2Xhale_Remixed saidI came to one conclusion when I was dealing with the gay community; when I started seeing how they have no problem in showing their true colours, it became more than unattractive, it became a HUGE sexual turn-off over the years. They play way too many games for my taste, they're cliquish, materialistic, shallow & RACIST of all things & I refuse to partake in any of it, whatsoever. It was so amazing to even see the drug addicts have an attitude! Even more, I had a case of the "fake people", who had nerve to call themselves my friends hooking me up on blind dates with people they wouldn't even be caught dead with, but hooking me up with them like they were any good for me (yes, I told their fake asses to not let the door hit you where the Almighty Lord can split you); I was under fire constantly & the school shit I had tolerated over the years made me grow a serious backbone; I don't even fool with or see the ones who mistreated me & they try to talk to me & I don't hold grudges against them, I just have no interest in fuckin' with them. They had their shot & they fucked up by choosing to & that's all she wrote. It has given me a severe case of #KansasCityBurnout & I give it an F+!

    I do, however, keep a small circle of gay friends that do not fool with them, either. I traded the gay bars for the gym; liking the results I am getting over time, eating healthier..oh, I am no longer attracted to them & its making my life much more easier! I always said if I go cold towards them, it is a compromise of my principles & compromise is always wrong if it means sacrificing a principle.

    More focused on the finer things...

    Church first (glad to be back in Saturday Mass & trying to read up on my Holy Bible; happier without having to fool with those who mistreated me, but under any circimstances, do not hold any grudges towards them, just let them be who they are & do what they do best, straight or gay)

    Work (my $$$!)
    Gym (self-explanatory in itself)
    Travel (going places)

    I'm done. Anyone who feels the need to post anything disparaging, feel free to do so(:


    Yeah, I don't believe in God.
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    Jun 05, 2014 7:57 PM GMT
    I think gay men complain too much.