Gagging, during oral sex


  • Jan 07, 2009 2:28 AM GMT
    Hey Guy’s, I need some help here. I am still kind of new in respect to giving a good blowjob. I have no problem, except my gag reflex is really strong. Love to go down on a guy. To compensate I tend to lick his balls, lick his shaft and suck on his head, if I go down more than 4 inches, my gag is so strong, I almost throw up.

    I need help here, so any tips or suggestions are welcome….!

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    Jan 07, 2009 2:29 AM GMT
    remember to keep breathing through your nose when you do it
    it usually helps
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    Jan 07, 2009 2:36 AM GMT
    Practice, practice, practice. The gag reflex can be overcome with time, it just won't happen in a week or a month if it's very pronounced. You can give a guy a great BJ on half his shaft by using strong tongue pressure and strong suction.

    The more often you blow the deeper you'll be able to take it. Have fun getting there!
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    Jan 07, 2009 2:54 AM GMT
    relax.. take it easy, no, I'm not singing icon_razz.gif

    In truth, start small, don't try to take him all at once, its not cool for him and its not cool for you, while your teasing him, you can be working on not gagging..

    after a few minutes you'll be well on your way to a gag free blow job (or at least, you wont be gagging, he might be gagged though)

    I don't know about anyone else, but when I've swallowed a cock, I generally can't keep breathing, I'll slowly suffocate hahaha well, I don't tend to keep them down that long even the little man needs some air.

    And remember, there is more to play with then just the cock, don't leave out his arse, torso and the legs...

    And if hes standing and you can carry his weight, stick him on your shoulders... not totally sure why, but guys really get off on it, I've never gotten it, no many guys can lift my weight!
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    Jan 07, 2009 2:57 AM GMT
    How do you give head at carnegie hall? practice, practice, practice (or get a job as a page turner). If you want, you can get a little dildo. Don't get the jagunda 12 inch horse cock. Get a nice six incher. Make sure it is made out of flexible material. Put on some music, scatter some rose petals on the bed, and jackhammer your throat until your gag reflex disappears. You will figure out what technique works best for you and in no time you will be deep throating like a champ.

    *edit* this wont make you good at giving head at all. Oral sex is an art no less as complex or beautiful as dance or film making. This will just get you over the gag reflex provided there isn't some psychological reason you are gagging.
  • auryn

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    Jan 07, 2009 4:07 AM GMT
    Whatever you do, make sure the guy removes his piercing until you get really good.


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    Jan 09, 2009 6:30 AM GMT
    Auryn saidWhatever you do, make sure the guy removes his piercing until you get really good.


    <3 the sweetest thing.


    you're, too big to fit in here, too big to fit in here too big to fit in here!
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    Jan 16, 2009 4:24 AM GMT
    tommieboiisf saidremember to keep breathing through your nose when you do it
    it usually helps


    I agree with tommieboiisf... I does help a lot and you will enjoy it a lot better!icon_lol.gif
  • GQjock

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    Jan 17, 2009 12:54 PM GMT
    What better way to get to Carnegie Hall? icon_cool.gif

    Either that or look for guys with small penises icon_confused.gif
  • GoodPup

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    Jan 19, 2009 8:02 AM GMT
    I am the same exact way... and I hate it when dudes remind me to breathe as if it will make everything all right and they shove it deeper. One time I actually did lose my lunch... talk about embarassing!
    But yeah, the breathing suggestion only comes from guys that don't completely empathize with a severe gag reflex.
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    Jan 23, 2009 3:08 AM GMT
    lilTanker said

    And if hes standing and you can carry his weight, stick him on your shoulders... not totally sure why, but guys really get off on it, I've never gotten it, no many guys can lift my weight!


    If you ever make it to the states, done it to someone bigger than you if you'd like a turn! ;)
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    Jan 23, 2009 3:24 AM GMT
    Oh yeah, ON the subject....

    Yeah, practice and a little concentraition are the best remedies. Sounds strange, but also making a little humming sorta thing in the back of your throat kinda relaxes it while he's in there too. I'm at a loss for how to describe that better for some reason. I can demonstrate a lot better than I can tell you! Anyone want to act as the visual aid? haha Someone can probably explain what I mean better, I hope.