Is gay marriage even good for our cause?

  • FuerteC

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    Jun 07, 2014 7:31 PM GMT
    How many of us are monogamous? How many of us are "sluts"? We all deserve rights, but if the majority of gay men are sluts, isn't gay marriage pointless?
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    Jun 07, 2014 7:35 PM GMT
    Why don't you ask this on a straight site?

    How many of us are monogamous? How many of us are "sluts"? We all deserve rights, but if the majority of men/women are sluts, isn't marriage pointless?
  • HottJoe

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    Jun 07, 2014 7:39 PM GMT
    I'm getting married June 28th. For me, it's not a cause. It's taking my relationship to another level. We've been together 10 years, and being husbands will be much more meaningful than boyfriends. The ceremony, the vows, the exchange of rings, all mean something. It's a new discovery for me, as these things meant little to me when they happened only to straight people.
  • FuerteC

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    Jun 07, 2014 7:40 PM GMT
    I am gay and I am asking. If I was straight, I would go to a straight site. Ideally all men are sluts. But that is not the issue here. Is there a straight equivalent of Grindr? You are deflecting the issue, so I would be grateful if you can answer the question.
  • FuerteC

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    Jun 07, 2014 7:41 PM GMT
    HottJoe saidI'm getting married June 28th. For me, it's not a cause. It's taking my relationship to another level. We've been together 10 years, and being husbands will be much more meaningful than boyfriends. The ceremony, the vows, the exchange of rings, all mean something. It's a new discovery for me, as these things meant little to me when they happened only to straight people.


    CONGRATULATIONS.
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    Jun 07, 2014 7:41 PM GMT
    HottJoe saidI'm getting married June 28th. For me, it's not a cause. It's taking my relationship to another level. We've been together 10 years, and being husbands will be much more meaningful than boyfriends. The ceremony, the vows, the exchange of rings, all mean something. It's a new discovery for me, as these things meant little to me when they happened only to straight people.

    Oh stop reminding us so that you can get more gifts.icon_rolleyes.gificon_lol.gif

    That's excellent. Congratulations! icon_razz.gif

    My lover and I have been together for 10 years as well and are also talking about getting married.
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    Jun 07, 2014 7:44 PM GMT
    There's still gay men in a monogamous relationship that deserve the right to marry. It's not about generalizing an entire group of people and saying "there's no point"
  • Timbales

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    Jun 07, 2014 7:44 PM GMT
    Our cause?

    I don't give a shit how many other people cannot or will not commit, don't try to say my right to isn't important.
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    Jun 07, 2014 7:48 PM GMT
    Marriage is stupid and outdated. I have no interest in fighting for someone's right to get married. If you wanna get married, you fight for it. There are bigger elephants in the room. On top of that, nobody is 100% monogamous.
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    Jun 07, 2014 7:49 PM GMT
    Timbales saidOur cause?

    I don't give a shit how many other people cannot or will not commit, don't try to say my right to isn't important.


    agreed
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    Jun 07, 2014 7:51 PM GMT
    younger men will see it as an option in life.

    any man, who is getting married, is a fool not to see his life flash in front of him.
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    Jun 07, 2014 7:52 PM GMT
    FuerteC saidHow many of us are monogamous? How many of us are "sluts"? We all deserve rights, but if the majority of gay men are sluts, isn't gay marriage pointless?


    Well, look at race (omg race!) if the majority of people were white, would equal rights for blacks be important? Or pointless?

    Back in the 60s when people of different races couldn't marry (mixed marriages)in many places, would giving them the right to have been pointless?

    cheers!
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    Jun 07, 2014 8:02 PM GMT
    I'm not getting married for any cause... but for a much deeper, personal reason.
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    Jun 07, 2014 8:03 PM GMT
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    creyente saidWhy don't you ask this on a straight site?

    How many of us are monogamous? How many of us are "sluts"? We all deserve rights, but if the majority of men/women are sluts, isn't marriage pointless?


    Because gay guys are way more promiscuous - just take a look at STI rates and which group suffers way more epidemic outbreaks - HIV, Hepatitis, Herpes, Gonorrhea, Anal Warts/Cancer, other weird bacterial infections of the gut and skin.

    Gay 'marriage' is an activist crusade, keeps them 'relevant', in work and the funds flowing their way. Plus there is a malicious ideological motivation to "Smash the patriarchy!!!".

    So of course any idea of monogamy will be smashed into oblivion along with the central concept of an institution of a father and mother with their biological children in a stable environment - which is in a chronically dilapidated condition anyway.

    The only long term gay relationships are open, ie sex club cruising, male prostitutes etc - just look at the old 'married' geezers cruising this site.

    Dol drug use, suicide, promiscuity STI rates recede in the gay 'community' as a result of 'gay marriage rights' as the activists claim? Of course not.

    So it would be just one more nail in the coffin of marriage.



    Man, this fucker is dedicated to his character (or lack thereof)
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    Jun 07, 2014 8:05 PM GMT
    FuerteC saidHow many of us are monogamous? How many of us are "sluts"? We all deserve rights, but if the majority of gay men are sluts, isn't gay marriage pointless?



    lol You made this dumb thread because of this one? http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/3846241

    Why don't you ask the losers from Jersey Shore or the millions of couples that end in divorce?
  • roadbikeRob

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    Jun 07, 2014 8:05 PM GMT
    HottJoe saidI'm getting married June 28th. For me, it's not a cause. It's taking my relationship to another level. We've been together 10 years, and being husbands will be much more meaningful than boyfriends. The ceremony, the vows, the exchange of rings, all mean something. It's a new discovery for me, as these things meant little to me when they happened only to straight people.
    Wishing you the very best in married life.
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    Jun 07, 2014 8:05 PM GMT
    Attorneys say, "YES!"
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    Jun 07, 2014 8:09 PM GMT
    creyente said... if the majority of men/women are sluts, isn't marriage pointless?
    If the majority of men/women are imperfect, isn't our entire existence pointless?
  • FuerteC

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    Jun 07, 2014 8:10 PM GMT
    paulflexes said
    creyente said... if the majority of men/women are sluts, isn't marriage pointless?
    If the majority of men/women are imperfect, isn't our entire existence pointless?


    That is not answering the question.
  • FuerteC

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    Jun 07, 2014 8:12 PM GMT
    kevex saidMarriage is stupid and outdated. I have no interest in fighting for someone's right to get married. If you wanna get married, you fight for it. There are bigger elephants in the room. On top of that, nobody is 100% monogamous.


    Really? Evidence please.
  • FuerteC

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    Jun 07, 2014 8:12 PM GMT
    http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/301153/
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    Jun 07, 2014 8:13 PM GMT
    FuerteC said
    paulflexes said
    creyente said... if the majority of men/women are sluts, isn't marriage pointless?
    If the majority of men/women are imperfect, isn't our entire existence pointless?


    That is not answering the question.
    Yes, it is. Think about it.
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    Jun 07, 2014 8:14 PM GMT
    ThePenIsMyTier said
    silver_bullet said
    creyente saidWhy don't you ask this on a straight site?

    How many of us are monogamous? How many of us are "sluts"? We all deserve rights, but if the majority of men/women are sluts, isn't marriage pointless?


    Because gay guys are way more promiscuous - just take a look at STI rates and which group suffers way more epidemic outbreaks - HIV, Hepatitis, Herpes, Gonorrhea, Anal Warts/Cancer, other weird bacterial infections of the gut and skin.

    Gay 'marriage' is an activist crusade, keeps them 'relevant', in work and the funds flowing their way. Plus there is a malicious ideological motivation to "Smash the patriarchy!!!".

    So of course any idea of monogamy will be smashed into oblivion along with the central concept of an institution of a father and mother with their biological children in a stable environment - which is in a chronically dilapidated condition anyway.

    The only long term gay relationships are open, ie sex club cruising, male prostitutes etc - just look at the old 'married' geezers cruising this site.

    Dol drug use, suicide, promiscuity STI rates recede in the gay 'community' as a result of 'gay marriage rights' as the activists claim? Of course not.

    So it would be just one more nail in the coffin of marriage.



    Man, this fucker is dedicated to his character (or lack thereof)


    lol, take a look at what he posted on this topic. I quoted it for you. icon_lol.gifhttp://www.realjock.com/gayforums/3846241#159825_3846372_name
  • FuerteC

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    Jun 07, 2014 8:14 PM GMT
    paulflexes said
    FuerteC said
    paulflexes said
    creyente said... if the majority of men/women are sluts, isn't marriage pointless?
    If the majority of men/women are imperfect, isn't our entire existence pointless?


    That is not answering the question.
    Yes, it is. Think about it.


    Why don't you tell me? I am dumb and stupid.
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    FuerteC said
    paulflexes said
    creyente said... if the majority of men/women are sluts, isn't marriage pointless?
    If the majority of men/women are imperfect, isn't our entire existence pointless?


    That is not answering the question.


    Because the question is stupid. Do you really think marriage is sacred in a world where TV shows like Who Wants To Date a Millionaire? or Flavor of Love exist? Also, love doesn't need a title or validation.