Meaningless sex is good for you

  • Paperless_Pen

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    Jun 08, 2014 9:09 AM GMT
    If you believe this, just use condoms and get tested. Really. Otherwise, meaningless sex will just lead to more problems. Do you want infections? Sex is good, but I hope we use common sense.

    Trust takes time and men in general are just lazy. I don't blame men at all. It is as it is, but we can do better. Reduce infections and build trust. Have good communication. Meaningless sex in this decade is having a harmful effect on us.

    http://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/2014/05/27/drug-fuelled-gay-sex-parties_n_5397261.html

    "Gay sex parties in the UK where men inject a cocktail of illicit drugs before engaging in "risky sexual practices" have been flagged as a "public health priority" by an EU drugs agency. So-called "chem-sex parties" see gay men take a range of highly-addictive drugs, including crystal meth, which has ravaged communities in the US, and can last from eight hours up to three days, the European Monitoring Centre for Drugs and Drug Addiction (EMCDDA) said."

    The lives of gay men who want meaningless sex may seem empty because there is no meaning in their lives. Men can't produce babies, straight or gay. They view their bodies and feelings as disposable. We are human beings and gay men who want meaningless sex is even more dirty than straight men who are equally as promiscuous.

    Here is why I am strongly against meaningless sex when you don't use condoms, but you may have differing opinions. Straight or gay.

    First of all I say sex is good for you. Have plenty of sex and use condoms.

    Secondly, where will meaningless sex end? Imagine you want to look for meaningless sex. Where do you find them? Obviously places where other men/women also want meaningless sex. They want orgies and they want pleasure. Straight men who want meaningless sex treat women like dirt. They treat women as objects and as meat. You get pleasure from sex and you feel satisfied. But the trust and the bond you develop with that person only exists if you work on it. Gay men who want meaningless sex treat other men like shit. That to me dehumanizes us and it makes us look pathetic. We are more than just muscled bodies.

    Thirdly, gay men who want meaningless sex feel no shame in what they are doing. They believe what they are doing is not wrong.

    http://www.webmd.com/sexual-conditions/news/20140509/syphilis-cases-climbing-among-gay-men-cdc

    How many infections are caused by gay men who have sex with multiple men? Do these men think about the effects of their actions and their conduct? The feeling might be mutual but at the end of the day what do we really want?

    Meaningless sex suggests you don't know them. You don't know where they have been. You don't know their HIV status. You don't know. There is no trust and you just fuck. That to me is morally defunct and is causing a schism in any community, straight or gay. It causes a rise in infections because there is a lack of trust and the only thing you want is sex. Whether you have an infection or not.

    I am against meaningless sex because of the uncertainty that arises. Building relationships takes time. You might have been rejected because over the 10 years of the monogamous relationship you feel bored. One cheats on you and you feel shocked and disappointed. How do you react? You want meaningless sex and you become lazy. Why bother building a relationship and trust when you can just have meaningless sex? You get satisfied quickly and you like it. Fine. Then what? Ten years down the line, you have lots of meaningless sex. You can boast about how manly you are. Well done!

    I don't want to be treated like dirt or shit. We are human beings. If you used to think like this, then it is shame on you. Knowing a person is what separates us from other animals.

    http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2014/jun/08/hiv-aids-gay-healthcare-africa-russia

    http://www.aidsmeds.com/articles/spyhilis_rates_1667_25703.shtml

    If you have meaningless sex, do bareback and have no moral compass, I find you repulsive.
  • Rene_Aensland

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    Jun 08, 2014 9:11 AM GMT
    I want you to make this into a flier, go to WeHo and hand these out.
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    Jun 08, 2014 9:14 AM GMT
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  • Paperless_Pen

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    Jun 08, 2014 9:17 AM GMT
    [url]http://lgbtweekly.com/2014/06/02/%E2%80%98steep-rise%E2%80%99-in-hiv-infection-feared-among-gay-israeli-men-says-survey/[/url]

    ISRAEL: A survey conducted by the Israel AIDS Task Force shows the likelihood of a steep rise in HIV infection rates among gay men in the country, reports GayAsiaNews.com.
    Of the 989 men who participated in the online poll of gay men, 48 percent reported having unprotected sex at least once this year.


    Explain the rise.
  • muscle_dude

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    Jun 08, 2014 10:35 AM GMT
    I suppose that it's entirely reasonable that u don't find guys attractive who engage in meaningless sex and who don't use condoms. Perhaps it's also ok that u find them "repulsive".

    Maybe I'm missing the point of this stream... But my response would be "fine, so don't date someone who does that stuff".

    I'm not into guys who are obsessed with football and get drunk regularly... But if they want to do it...
  • Paperless_Pen

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    Jun 10, 2014 6:09 PM GMT
    "An arrest has been made in an April attack on a Canadian tourist who said he was held at gunpoint and raped in his hotel room by a man he met using the gay hook-up app Grindr."


    See. Hooking up will make gay men extinct.
  • Rene_Aensland

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    Jun 11, 2014 11:11 AM GMT
    Paperless_Pen said"An arrest has been made in an April attack on a Canadian tourist who said he was held at gunpoint and raped in his hotel room by a man he met using the gay hook-up app Grindr."


    See. Hooking up will make gay men extinct.


    Not every gay man uses Grindr.
    I've never had Grindr.

    You're a fucking idiot.
  • muscle_dude

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    Jun 11, 2014 9:21 PM GMT
    Paperless_Pen said"An arrest has been made in an April attack on a Canadian tourist who said he was held at gunpoint and raped in his hotel room by a man he met using the gay hook-up app Grindr."


    See. Hooking up will make gay men extinct.


    How many guys have ever used Grindr? Since Grindr was created, how many rapes at gun point have occurred of those users? Like swimming at the beach and being bitten by a shark or getting on a plane that crashes, the probability is very low, I'd have thought. I'm not gonna stop swimming or flying or (sometimes) hoing.

    You really need much better evidence if you're gonna convince anyone of your point.
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    Jul 03, 2014 5:08 PM GMT
    Thank you, muscle_dude.

    Sex -- like anything and everything else in one's life -- is exactly what you make of it.
    When someone feels like like they need to have a "convincing conversation," you've already lost your audience.
    Expressing your opinion is one thing, trying to garner agreement to your opinion is another thing entirely---and usually falls on deaf's ear.

    "Meaningless Sex" for you as you've defined in the OP is simply that...for YOU.

    But please don't attempt to put words in the rest of our respective mouths or give examples that frankly fall flat for what any kind of sex is for the rest of us, Paperless_Pen.

    Responsibility, Accountability, Clear Communication and Understanding are applicable to most situations in our day to day exchanges (sexual or otherwise) with others in our respective lives.

    Sex is exactly what YOU want it to be. Or not be. Period.