What Was Your First Experience With A Guy

  • tre18park

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    Jun 09, 2014 2:37 PM GMT
    The Title Says it all. What did you do on your first date with a guy?
  • MikeW

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    Jun 09, 2014 2:53 PM GMT
    lol, my first 'experiences' were hardly 'dates'. I was only about 6 years old. And, no, I'm not going into details. Suffice it to say it was just playing around with a slightly older boy.
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    Jun 09, 2014 2:58 PM GMT
    The title says first experience...
    -Daren, 4th grade--felt me up in our tree house. He was fascinated by my size.

    What did I do on my first date with a guy?
    -Foggy's Notion, SanDog--we both loved their Avocado Burgers.
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    Jun 09, 2014 3:01 PM GMT
    Went to breakfast.
    Then back to my place for a little rough and tumble.
    Then we talked for an hour.
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    Jun 09, 2014 4:19 PM GMT
    I had a secret friend in high school who I'd occasionally go "hunting" with. Ahhhh...the great outdoors, the smell of fresh air and cum, and pine sap.
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    Jun 09, 2014 4:38 PM GMT
    I rode to his place, having made the arrangements using a gay dial-up BBS, non-Internet in 1995. We were both 45, he a bank VP.

    I'd only come out 3 weeks earlier, and wanted to have gay sex so badly it hurt. But I hadn't told him I was a virgin, a total novice with no experience, just a few books I had read. I was afraid he'd reject me if he knew.

    We started making out on his living room sofa. First time I ever kissed a man. He did all the initiating, I hadn't the slightest idea what to do, I was kinda hesitant & awkward. We had gotten our pants undone when he said let's go into the bedroom.

    We stripped and he gave me the best blowjob of my life, I swear I came continuously for a full minute. In fact, I think it remains the most intense orgasm of my life to date.

    Then it was my turn. Part of me worried that I would freak, but I didn't. His dick in my mouth was wonderful. I proceeded on the assumption that a guy will blow you the same way he wants to be blown himself. And so I copied what he had just done to me, using his own technique.

    He came with a nice gush, and told me I gave a really good BJ. WTF??? I hadn't a fucking idea what I was doing. He didn't like anal and so we didn't do that. I had sex with him a number of times in the following months, including on board his cabin cruiser, until he took a transfer and moved away. We never dated, just fuck buddies.

    My first real dating started right afterwards, with a guy I totally fell for. We went to plays (including "Angels in America", I think our very first formal date), ballets, poetry readings, a totally different thing from just sex. I also took him for rides on my motorcycle, something new for him. So that I learned the difference between tricking and dating.
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    Jun 09, 2014 5:25 PM GMT
    I was 21, he was 32. Had a nice cabin right by the Chautauqua playhouse in Mt. Gretna. Lots of weed and wine. First thing you know, his hand was on my thigh...icon_wink.gif
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    Jun 09, 2014 8:52 PM GMT
    I met up with this one older guy (early 30s) when I was a senior in college. We had a little bit of coffee, went back to his apt to hang out. He cooked some food, we watched a movie then started fooling around. He went down on me and I came like 15 mins after that. LOL Ahhhh Memories.
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    Jun 09, 2014 10:04 PM GMT
    First kiss with a guy was in kindergarten.

    Been an 13 year dry spell icon_lol.gif
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    Jun 09, 2014 11:35 PM GMT
    Met on RJ -only guy I met from here-, went to his place for a long weekend; mostly cooking, cuddling, watching movies, mild mingling (technical problems occured...).

    I had a nice time, but after I left he never replied to my Skype messages again. :3 Oh well. Pleasure can't always be mutual.
  • joxguy

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    Jun 11, 2014 3:14 PM GMT
    Answered an ad in the LA Free Press. The guys called me and told me he was in a band and would come over to my apartment after his gig ended. When he knocked on my door I was almost shaking with nerves.

    When I opened the door the guy was great looking. We sat on the couch and talked. He took out some bud and we smoked and talked more. Then he lean in and kissed me. That first kiss lit the fire and we just started making out.

    He then ask me if we could go to the bedroom. When we got in there we stood and kissed again. He then started undoing his pants and let them drop to the floor, I did the same. We started grabbing each other dicks and I was raging hard.

    He pushed me to the bed and we fell on the bed together. He pulled my boxers off and went down on me and swear I blew my load immediately, he just smiled and said "first time".

    I then went down on him, fucking choked on his dick, but kept going. He then started to instructed me what to do and it got better. I JUST sucked and sucked, he told me to add some stroking and I did. When he got close he told me to stop sucking and just jack him off. I was pumping his dick and he was telling me to do this or that. Then he said stop, and told me to lay down, he then got on his knees and start jacking himself, shooting all over my chest.

    We met up a few more times. Neither of us were into fucking so just sucked and jacked. Can remember that night just like it was yesterday. That first touch of another dick and the first time a dick in my mouth-fucking great.
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    Jun 11, 2014 3:25 PM GMT
    joxguy said
    That first touch of another dick and the first time a dick in my mouth-fucking great.

    Same with me. I feel sorry for guys who don't have a good first experience, because ours and others was great, and should be for everyone.

    We're the same age, but how old were you this first time? I was a very late bloomer myself, turning 46. I'd had sex with women, but man sex was way superior, what I'd been missing all my life, and I never went back.
  • Decisive

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    Jun 11, 2014 7:54 PM GMT
    Me and my girlfriend had just broken up...for the previous year I had been getting turned on more and more by straight blowjob porn and I realized that I was fantasizing about being the woman, not the man...so I was watching one day and got so effin' horny. Called up a friend of mine that I knew was bi and had hinted a time or two about us messing around...

    just told him, dude I want to come over and jack you off.
    so, just like that, I did. No hesitation. He opened the door in a towel, we went to his room, he laid down on his bed, I spit on my hand and his dick, pulled on his balls and jacked him off like I had been doing it for years.
    He shot all the way up to his chin. lol he asked me if I was sure I hadn't done it before.
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    Jun 15, 2014 3:13 PM GMT
    Received BJ, then went home.
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    Jun 16, 2014 6:06 AM GMT
    My first encounter was with an older classmate in college (I was 20 and he was 37). I was still quite naive and confused about my sexual identity. I didn't even know he was attracted to me. I, for sure, wasn't attracted to him. I just thought of him as a good friend.

    He invited me for a weekend getaway in Palm Springs. He had booked a gay resort! Still, I didn't think much of it. We hung out and he started touching me. I didn't resist because I was curious what it would feel like. Eventually he gave me a bj but I felt so awkward and uncomfortable I had to ask him to stop.

    A week later, guilt set in and I felt he tricked me and used me, and I ended friendship with him. icon_sad.gificon_mad.gif
  • helloandgoodb...

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    Jun 16, 2014 11:38 AM GMT
    First time is usually NOT a first DATE.

    FIRST TIME...
    I was young. Just hitting puberty and had a sleepover with a friend in my basement. We were joking and horsing around. I kept getting hard but was so naive, I thought I just needed to pee. I did not understand why my cock was "full", but every time I went to the bathroom nothing came out. He was a little older and I assume he knew what was going on because he never wanted have a sleep over together again. lol.

    SECOND TIME...
    A few years later I had a similar "horsing around" experience with a buddy and got hard. He smiled and said "it's ok" and slowly and sweetly massaged my cock through my pants till I came in my underwear. It was my first time cumming with someone else. We did play around a little after that but I was too nervous to do much then.
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    Jun 16, 2014 11:42 AM GMT
    It was very scary...first, second and third but it improved with time
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    Jun 20, 2014 6:42 PM GMT
    I was 17 years old. It was like my third week in this new school when I had been assigned to work on a science project with this preppy, bad boy, trouble maker, answer back, class clown kind of guy. Everyone laughed at everything he said and he was always surrounded by girls. Even I thought he was cool. He was funny. He was a little taller than me. Brown wavy hair that covered the back of his neck. Thick eyebrows on top of big brown eyes. Full lips, yeah he was handsome. He knew it. And his jeans. Damn, the way they fit him all over, thighs, hamstrings, butt and that package. We agreed to meet at his house on a Saturday afternoon. He lived alone with his mother in a 3 story house. It got late and we hadn't finished our homework and since the due date was the following Monday, I got invited to stay the night so we had the following day to finish. After dinner at around 9 p.m. he asked me to accompany him to one of his friend's house who lived down the street. While we were there his friend pulls out a joint. I wasn't a naive kid but when I saw the joint I got nervous. And thanks to peer pressure I hit it for the first time. I don't remember what we talked about but I do remember my stomach hurting, my cheeks hurting, and tears coming out of my eyes from laughing so hard and for so long. It was close to midnight when we went back to my classmate's house. His mom's room was on the first floor and his room was on the third floor. He told me if I was sleepy I could sleep in the guest bedroom or if I prefered to watch TV with him in his room. So I said I was sleepy. He told me to make myself comfortable so, I kicked off my sneakers and crashed on his bed as he turned on the TV and put on South Park. The only light we had was that from the TV and the moonlight coming in from his window. He took off his sneakers and took off his t shirt. He was standing in front of me looking at the screen. My eyes were not on the TV but looking at this guy from behind. He suddenly turns around and as he asks me if I had seen that episode before. He proceeds to unbutton his jeans. I think I nodded as I quietly watched him peel off his jeans right in front of me. I couldn't take my eyes off the outline of his dick inside his white FTL briefs. He was standing there telling me he slept in his underwear and he wanted to know if I wanted to wear his pyjama bottoms. LOL... pyjama bottoms. He threw himself on the bed beside me and told me if I wanted to I could take off my clothes. While I'm doing so, he reaches over to his jeans and says, "Look what I got!" It was the joint butt. My jaw dropped. He said we had to smoke it outside the window. So there we were, standing side by side in our briefs with half our bodies outside the window. I could feel the warmth of his body. His arms rubbing against mine, our legs touching every once in a while. And a hip bump here and a hip bump there. He turned towards me as he passed me the roach so i could take the last hit, I could feel his limp dick brush up against my hip as he coughed out what he had inhaled. That did it. I felt my dick starting to get hard. I was hoping the room was dark enough he wouldn't notice. We went back and lied side by side on the bed. Instead of focusing on the TV, I couldn't stop looking at his body. When suddenly, out of the blue, he reaches over and grabs my junk and asks, "What's this?" I froze. I didn't say anything and I didn't a move a muscle. He started groping me, feeling me up and needless to say I was rock hard. That night we explored our bodies. We touched each other, we kissed each other, we sucked each other and we came as we jerked each other off. At the end of that week we found out we got an "A" on our project. I said we had to celebrate. He told me to go to his house that Friday night. We went to his friend's house again but that time he pulled out Vodka. We got a little drunk and on our way back to his house he asked if I wanted to sleep in his room. He was sucking me off, stops, looks up at me and asks if I wanted to put it inside him. It was an awesome year. Nobody ever knew. It was our secret.
  • kentstrongtom...

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    Jun 27, 2014 7:33 AM GMT
    MikeW saidlol, my first 'experiences' were hardly 'dates'. I was only about 6 years old. And, no, I'm not going into details. Suffice it to say it was just playing around with a slightly older boy.
    Years after did you ever have the chance to confront him?
  • kentstrongtom...

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    Jun 27, 2014 7:39 AM GMT
    It was good. My partner still has the tissue with my dry sperm on it and i.m talking about our first experience as a couple which was my first one.
  • tristan36

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    Jun 27, 2014 12:08 PM GMT
    he came in his pants during kissing...
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    Jun 27, 2014 3:56 PM GMT
    Same as several above... my first time was hardly a date. More like an opportunity that we just kept taking to a next level.

    There were four of us, all friends, in the woods, someone had brought some liquor... were were all 16-17.

    Four buzzed and horny teens... it's not a huge leap to imagine how a game of "truth or dare" would just turn into daring each other to do crazy shit... and of course "crazy" turned to "sexual".

    It would up becoming a 4-way suck and jack fest... things like "I dare you to lick his balls while he's licking yours" were common... and while 2 would couple up as part of the dare, the other two were stroking and laughing as they watched.

    Lots of licking, sucking and jacking that night... ended with the 4 of us in a circle... each jacking the guy on our right. We all came. 3 out of 4 of us shot on the guy opposite us... the 4th was more of a dribbler than a shooter.

    But I knew that moment without a doubt... when I could gasm from another guy's hand... and I cold make another guy gasm with my hand, me and mansex were going to be life-long companions... :-)
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    Jun 27, 2014 4:07 PM GMT
    I guess my first truly gay experience was my first actual date, ahaha. Before he left, he grabbed me by the hand and snogged me right in the face! Very memorable experience, even though we don't talk anymore, it definitely made me feel "wanted" and sort of like I was in a Disney movie for a moment, I really thought I was falling in love! icon_rolleyes.gif

    Oh, how naive I was.

    But anyways, first sexual experience was at his place after.
    I KNOW what he was thinking; that this wasn't my first time... but it actually was. He just made me feel so comfortable that there was never any second-guessing.
    Needless to say I do miss him, but I know he's never coming back.

    What scares me though, is I think he may have been the only one in the world for me. Welp, I fucked that up right.
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    Jun 28, 2014 10:38 AM GMT
    Ajjax saidI guess my first truly gay experience was my first actual date, ahaha. Before he left, he grabbed me by the hand and snogged me right in the face! Very memorable experience, even though we don't talk anymore, it definitely made me feel "wanted" and sort of like I was in a Disney movie for a moment, I really thought I was falling in love! icon_rolleyes.gif

    Oh, how naive I was.

    But anyways, first sexual experience was at his place after.
    I KNOW what he was thinking; that this wasn't my first time... but it actually was. He just made me feel so comfortable that there was never any second-guessing.
    Needless to say I do miss him, but I know he's never coming back.

    What scares me though, is I think he may have been the only one in the world for me. Welp, I fucked that up right.


    The first one will always have a special place in your heart, but that does not mean he is the only one for you. You are young, handsome and smart. You may have more duds before you meet the next "right" guy, but if he was the only one for you it would have worked out. Trust the old timer on this one
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    Jun 28, 2014 10:55 AM GMT
    Ajjax saidI guess my first truly gay experience was my first actual date, ahaha. Before he left, he grabbed me by the hand and snogged me right in the face! Very memorable experience, even though we don't talk anymore, it definitely made me feel "wanted" and sort of like I was in a Disney movie for a moment, I really thought I was falling in love! icon_rolleyes.gif

    Oh, how naive I was.

    But anyways, first sexual experience was at his place after.
    I KNOW what he was thinking; that this wasn't my first time... but it actually was. He just made me feel so comfortable that there was never any second-guessing.
    Needless to say I do miss him, but I know he's never coming back.

    What scares me though, is I think he may have been the only one in the world for me. Welp, I fucked that up right.


    Awww, I doubt that's true though. There's always more than one person out there for you.