Why are handsome men such jerks?

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    Jun 10, 2014 6:23 AM GMT
    Why are handsome men such jerks?

    What has been your experience?
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    Jun 10, 2014 6:33 AM GMT
    Because it's fun to see the pain and suffering in the ugly guys' faces when we take off our shirts and show them what a real man is supposed to look like. icon_twisted.gif
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    Jun 10, 2014 6:34 AM GMT
    Pff not all handsome men are jerks, maybe youre just attracted to jerks.
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    Jun 10, 2014 7:00 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidBecause it's fun to see the pain and suffering in the ugly guys' faces when we take off our shirts and show them what a real man is supposed to look like. icon_twisted.gif


    Well played, Paul!
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    Jun 10, 2014 7:03 AM GMT
    David3K saidPff not all handsome men are jerks, maybe youre just attracted to jerks.


    When I was younger I had moar patience for handsome jerks. There was this Town of Palm Beach lifeguard who was a total jerk. I remember the first night we met and went home to fuck, I was, like, ready to just go home.

    But the sex was really, really good.

    We would get together after that, and we both "knew the code" that we would not talk, just fuck.

    It worked for a while. Then we moved on.
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    Jun 10, 2014 7:05 AM GMT
    ehhhhhhhhhhhhhhh :c

    I'd rather not think about it icon_smile.gif
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    Jun 10, 2014 7:07 AM GMT
    Snaz saidehhhhhhhhhhhhhhh :c

    I'd rather not think about it icon_smile.gif


    WTF are you doing up and on the computer so late????

    You should be out screwing and getting laid before you get OLD like me!

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  • buddycat

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    Jun 10, 2014 8:22 AM GMT
    Could be several reasons. Maybe there are just jerks out there but people tend to excuse it in the good looking ones. It is a stereotype that handsome men are jerks, I am sure there some nice guys out there. You know how men are though, the most handsome guys are hit on all the time and that can get annoying after a while.
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    Jun 10, 2014 4:21 PM GMT
    I think it is the same with people with power...it is the way other people treat them or elevate them that empowers them, which eventually get to their head
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    Jun 10, 2014 4:57 PM GMT
    Lol because every gay guy wants them. Lol they don't need to try that hard.
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    Jun 11, 2014 4:08 AM GMT
    They're not all jerks but I think this question is already answered for pretty much any gay man that has been dating.
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    Jun 11, 2014 5:14 AM GMT
    Only the ones in your league. Looks and personality all have trading value
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    Jun 11, 2014 6:25 AM GMT
    Handsome is subjective. Everyone is ugly to someone.
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    Jun 12, 2014 12:02 AM GMT
    Most of the time, I find hot handsome guys unfriendly. They wouldn't even say hi or make eye contact. icon_confused.gif
  • whytehot

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    Jun 12, 2014 12:40 AM GMT
    Seems like many guys are confusing friendliness with "willingness to put out".
  • Timbales

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    Jun 12, 2014 12:40 AM GMT
    I don't trust good looking people.
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    Jun 12, 2014 12:43 AM GMT
    Why are handsome men such jerks?

    Because they can afford to be, and get away with it without consequences. Because, after all, they ARE handsome, which covers all sins, a license to abuse others penalty free. Beautiful women have always used good looks to excuse their bad behavior, and handsome gay men are no different.
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    Jun 12, 2014 4:50 AM GMT
    Art_Deco saidWhy are handsome men such jerks?

    Because they can afford to be, and get away with it without consequences. Because, after all, they ARE handsome, which covers all sins, a license to abuse others penalty free. Beautiful women have always used good looks to excuse their bad behavior, and handsome gay men are no different.


    Quite the generalization and generally quite wrong. This is true to a point, in that there is a certain percentage of the population that would like to use "good looks" to excuse behavior, and a smaller percentage still that actually believes this to be a workable situation, and thus even still a smaller percentage attractive enough to ever pull this off. So yes, who you described exists, but is a much rarer species.

    Attractive people most often get the reputation for being mean because they are more likely to gain the attention of other people for no reason other than the way they look. If this superficial interest is not reciprocated(a likely situation in the event that the person initiating the interest is not as attractive), then the subject of the interest(the attractive person) is labeled a jerk. This isn't particularly fair of course, since he/she would be acting just like everyone else, but I guess that is the price they pay for the other advantages afforded to them on account of said attractiveness.

    So the short answer, just as the article states, is that handsome men really are jerks to the same extent that all other men are.
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    Jun 12, 2014 7:54 AM GMT
    whytehot saidSeems like many guys are confusing friendliness with "willingness to put out".


    I think we both know that some take friendliness the wrong way.
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    Jun 14, 2014 12:51 AM GMT
    buddycat said
    whytehot saidSeems like many guys are confusing friendliness with "willingness to put out".


    I think we both know that some take friendliness the wrong way.


    Word, it's because those guys haven't get laid in a long time. LOL
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    Jun 14, 2014 2:36 AM GMT
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    Art_Deco saidWhy are handsome men such jerks?

    Because they can afford to be, and get away with it without consequences. Because, after all, they ARE handsome, which covers all sins, a license to abuse others penalty free. Beautiful women have always used good looks to excuse their bad behavior, and handsome gay men are no different.

    Quite the generalization and generally quite wrong. This is true to a point, in that there is a certain percentage of the population that would like to use "good looks" to excuse behavior, and a smaller percentage still that actually believes this to be a workable situation, and thus even still a smaller percentage attractive enough to ever pull this off. So yes, who you described exists, but is a much rarer species.

    Attractive people most often get the reputation for being mean because they are more likely to gain the attention of other people for no reason other than the way they look. If this superficial interest is not reciprocated(a likely situation in the event that the person initiating the interest is not as attractive), then the subject of the interest(the attractive person) is labeled a jerk. This isn't particularly fair of course, since he/she would be acting just like everyone else, but I guess that is the price they pay for the other advantages afforded to them on account of said attractiveness.

    So the short answer, just as the article states, is that handsome men really are jerks to the same extent that all other men are.

    Naturally I made a generalization, but generally NOT quite wrong. Rather the rule, I would say.

    And not entirely by design of the handsome men and the beautiful women themselves. Rather, society grooms them that way, by spoiling & pampering them. Multiple studies show how handsome people get preferential hiring and other arbitrary perks, that the rest of us do not receive. Other people defer and bow to their good looks.

    It's just human nature, apparently. And it's even better if you're a blonde:

  • killercliche

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    Jun 14, 2014 5:03 AM GMT
    Art_Deco said
    Multiple studies show how handsome people get preferential hiring and other arbitrary perks, that the rest of us do not. Other people defer and bow to their good looks.


    Yes, quite often people sight these "studies" that show preferential treatment to attractive people, but to then use this a proof of attractive people being more likely to be assholes, is quite a leap. On the contrary, it is often said that attractive people are often more cheerful and have a much brighter disposition and worldview on account of receiving these perks, many times assuming that all people are treated similarly.
  • tango02

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    Jun 14, 2014 5:56 AM GMT
    There are certainly a lot of jerks who are handsome but I've known just as many ugly and average people who are jerks too, maybe it seems that way because good looking people reject others the most making it seem like they're always being jerks.
  • MarkW1

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    Jun 14, 2014 7:19 AM GMT
    Yea, as some have said already. Not all are jerks, a lot of my friends are and they are some of the loveliest people I know. Guys in town call me it a lot but that doesn't mean I'll be horrible to anyone.
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    Jun 14, 2014 4:47 PM GMT
    I have found that jerks come in all sizes, all jerks suffer from insecurity and low self esteem, handsome or not, buffed or fat. Fuck mean people.