Jun 11, 2014 1:16 AM GMT
Over the past few weeks, I have noticed that the guy I have been dating for the past 9 or so months has been more distant. He still gets around to checking in everyday via text (although later than in the past), but the conversations are much shorter. It is somewhat confusing and I have thought perhaps it was the slow breakup technique/gradual vanishing act. But why would he bother to check in at all? He does still want to see me on Friday nights (but I view that as hookup only territory). I'm just trying to figure out what this change is about--any thoughts would be appreciated!