Is wanting to see your BF once a week (or more) being needy?

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    Jun 12, 2014 3:12 PM GMT
    Just curious icon_lol.gif.
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    Jun 12, 2014 3:50 PM GMT
    no, not if he is relationship (someone you could maybe share your life with) material.
    otherwise its just an acquaintance.
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    Jun 12, 2014 3:51 PM GMT
    It's BF you're talking about...
    One would love to hear their partner talking and enjoy seeing them almost daily.
    Excluding few scenarios of course.
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    Jun 12, 2014 6:57 PM GMT
    Hard to say. This question wrecks me. I started seeing someone on Saturday.. and we talked every day up until yesterday. Saw him on Saturday and Monday.. but held back from contacting yesterday as I'm aware I gotta slow it down. Ugh. I don't want to appear needy.. but seems like the chemistry is mutual.
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    Jun 12, 2014 7:23 PM GMT
    If he's ugly, yes.
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    Jun 12, 2014 8:59 PM GMT
    No. If you only see each other once every week it's like you're still dating and like not sure if you're together yet.
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    Jun 13, 2014 3:33 AM GMT
    PR_GMR saidHard to say. This question wrecks me. I started seeing someone on Saturday.. and we talked every day up until yesterday. Saw him on Saturday and Monday.. but held back from contacting yesterday as I'm aware I gotta slow it down. Ugh. I don't want to appear needy.. but seems like the chemistry is mutual.

    Wise. He's not a BF yet.
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    Jun 13, 2014 9:18 PM GMT
    paulflexes saidIf he's ugly, yes.

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    I didn't think so, but I wanted to see what others thought.

    Even in dating the busiest guys(working 50+ hrs a week), we made it a point to find time once or twice a week to see each other. I tend to get bored and antsy in a relationship in which we see each other any less than that.

    Sometimes it feels douchey/needy to be the one to say "Hey, can we pick up the pace a bit?"... not that that would stop me from saying it icon_lol.gif .
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    Jun 15, 2014 4:06 PM GMT
    no not at all. everyday is needy for sure. but once a week is the bare minimum in my opinion.
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    Jun 17, 2014 2:44 PM GMT
    More than once a week?
    personally I think it is healthy to interact as much as possible....

    if you feel guilty asking your bf to hang out more than once a week....something needs to change.

    You two should sit and have a talk.
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    Jun 17, 2014 5:25 PM GMT
    Anocxu saidMore than once a week?
    personally I think it is healthy to interact as much as possible....

    if you feel guilty asking your bf to hang out more than once a week....something needs to change.

    You two should sit and have a talk.

    Couldn't agree more! You should ask him why he doesn't want to hang out with you more. I know I'd be curious.
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    Jun 17, 2014 6:02 PM GMT
    Premedmuscjock said
    Anocxu saidMore than once a week?
    personally I think it is healthy to interact as much as possible....

    if you feel guilty asking your bf to hang out more than once a week....something needs to change.

    You two should sit and have a talk.

    Couldn't agree more! You should ask him why he doesn't want to hang out with you more. I know I'd be curious.


    True, but.......you're probably not going to get a straight answer. If you do get an answer, it's probably going to be a lie or excuse.
  • Puppymuncher

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    Jun 17, 2014 6:13 PM GMT
    Oh god NO

    Once a week is barely cutting it. Of course, if you guys have extremely busy schedules, that's understandable. But I'd want to see my bf almost everyday if I could.