Verse guys: How do you depict when you want to Top or Bottom?

  • Rhiley4one92

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    Jun 13, 2014 10:42 PM GMT
    So I really just want to know what goes on in a verse guys head when he makes the decision of topping or bottoming a guy he's into. There's the obvious decision of just flip-flopping but usually when I see a hottie I like I always picture how they'd look topping. So ow does a verse guy go about it?
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    Jun 13, 2014 10:44 PM GMT
    This is the kind of stuff they need to teach in sex ed.
  • Decisive

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    Jun 13, 2014 11:12 PM GMT
    For me I can say that it just depends on how I feel. I can honestly say though that while I am vers, I really love to bottom so its usually an easy decision for me.
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    Jun 13, 2014 11:17 PM GMT
    "Depict"? Is that like declaim or decant?
  • Rhiley4one92

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    Jun 14, 2014 12:43 AM GMT
    Decisive saidFor me I can say that it just depends on how I feel. I can honestly say though that while I am vers, I really love to bottom so its usually an easy decision for me.


    so it doesn't matter if they have a specific asset that makes you want to top or bottom for them? like...it doesn't matter the guy it's just dependent on your mood?
  • Rhiley4one92

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    Jun 14, 2014 12:46 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidThis is the kind of stuff they need to teach in sex ed.

    Ha! yeh sure. "Welcome to Sex Ed. Boys: only top another guy if he can pick up a soda can off the freeway in the middle of traffic w/ BOTH ass cheeks!" yeh I like that ahaha
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    Jun 14, 2014 1:55 AM GMT
    Rhiley4one92 said
    paulflexes saidThis is the kind of stuff they need to teach in sex ed.

    Ha! yeh sure. "Welcome to Sex Ed. Boys: only top another guy if he can pick up a soda can off the freeway in the middle of traffic w/ BOTH ass cheeks!" yeh I like that ahaha
    "...and bonus points if he can blow over a tractor trailer rig with one fart."
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    Jun 14, 2014 5:49 AM GMT
    Lol good question. I top or bottom base on my mood.

    I top when I see a younger, slim, cuter guy that I want to sleep with. If he acts all like grinding his ass against my crotch while dancing. If he has a very nice booty Lol. Or if I just want to be more aggressive and **Hit it in the bedroom. icon_lol.gif

    I bottom when I'm lazy, not really aggressive in bed. I meet a stronger, taller or bigger guy than me. Lol, of course if he has a really nice hot Dick, too. But mostly, I bottom when I'm usually tired and just want to get sex over with. icon_redface.gificon_redface.gificon_razz.gif
  • AMoonHawk

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    Jun 14, 2014 5:58 AM GMT
    it just sort of happens one way or the other ... sort of depends on the other guy too ... how much is he giving and getting involved in play ... if he is just laying back and letting you do all the work, then he's bottoming
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    Jun 14, 2014 10:27 AM GMT
    I've wondered if there are none verbal cues where a verse guy can tell if the guy he is getting with is a top, bottom or fellow verse guy.
  • funguy222

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    Jun 25, 2014 12:10 AM GMT
    Easy for me cause im always bttm I love getting pounded mmm lol
  • ricnob

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    Jun 25, 2014 2:04 AM GMT
    i am truly vers so it really depends on the guy i have in front. The key thing is that i want to have sex with him... then it is really the same for me to be top or btm...
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    Jun 25, 2014 6:08 AM GMT
    It completely depends on the guy for me.



    If he's taller, bigger/muscular frame, aggressive then he's going to top me. Not a question about it.

    If he has the same build as me or is smaller (skinnier/shorter), then i'll probably end up topping.



    I've never done the "Flip Flop" thing because guys I meet are either one or the other. icon_lol.gif
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    Jun 25, 2014 6:56 AM GMT
    Funny how taller stronger guys are always perceived to be the top and not bottom.
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    Jun 26, 2014 2:23 AM GMT
    Energy.
    Sex is ALL ABOUT energy.

    I don't even Ask what their preference is. That's boring.
    When I wrap my arms around them - I know within 2 seconds what is about to go down. As soon as our lips touch, it's over.

    If we battle back and forth with aggressive tongue lashes, play with power and enjoy the struggle - we are going to have a fun flip session.

    If I'm able to gain control based on his slight timidness, or eager attitude - throw him down on to the bed and work my legs under and between his and spread them, hell yeah!

    If he has an overbearing and masculine energy, I can't help but submit (but not fully until I know he is able to handle being in control. Some men just aren't cut for it)



    Really no matter what if we have fun a second time:
    I am going to convince a bottom with the right energy that he is a decent top, and to try it.
    I am GOING to get inside of that hyper-masculine top who has never experimented with bottoming.
    Expand your horizons people!
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    Jun 26, 2014 2:40 AM GMT
    ThePenIsMyTier saidEnergy.
    Sex is ALL ABOUT energy.

    I don't even Ask what their preference is. That's boring.
    When I wrap my arms around them - I know within 2 seconds what is about to go down. As soon as our lips touch, it's over.

    If we battle back and forth with aggressive tongue lashes, play with power and enjoy the struggle - we are going to have a fun flip session.

    If I'm able to gain control based on his slight timidness, or eager attitude - throw him down on to the bed and work my legs under and between his and spread them, hell yeah!

    If he has an overbearing and masculine energy, I can't help but submit (but not fully until I know he is able to handle being in control. Some men just aren't cut for it)



    Really no matter what if we have fun a second time:
    I am going to convince a bottom with the right energy that he is a decent top, and to try it.
    I am GOING to get inside of that hyper-masculine top who has never experimented with bottoming.
    Expand your horizons people!


    This! This!! This!!!
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    Jul 03, 2014 4:57 AM GMT
    the bubble ass equals the topper
    bottom have to be really horny
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    Jul 03, 2014 7:29 AM GMT
    Sometimes I just really wanna stick my dick in a nice ass! And other times, it's the other way around. I really get into it when I know what my guy wants from me. I'm just a sloppy mess
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    Jul 03, 2014 9:49 AM GMT
    I sit down with my guy ahead of time and plan out the action on a whiteboard... Lots of Xs and Os and arrows like they do in football....

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    Nah... Just kind of go with the flow and see where he wants to take it. Best thing about being versatile is that you're pleased with whatever direction things go!!
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    Jul 03, 2014 9:55 AM GMT
    For me its an easy choice, I love a hard cock pounding my bung hole,,icon_biggrin.gif,,but if given the choice I like feeling my cock inside some guys hot hole,,icon_smile.gif,,being verse is great, but being a bottom is even greater.,,,and YES, like Paulflexes said, this is the kind of stiff they need to teach in sex ed.
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    Jul 03, 2014 1:06 PM GMT
    Verse guys: How do you depict when you want to Top or Bottom?

    That's what the defunct hanky code used to tell you.
  • Decisive

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    Jul 03, 2014 6:30 PM GMT
    Rhiley4one92 said
    Decisive saidFor me I can say that it just depends on how I feel. I can honestly say though that while I am vers, I really love to bottom so its usually an easy decision for me.


    so it doesn't matter if they have a specific asset that makes you want to top or bottom for them? like...it doesn't matter the guy it's just dependent on your mood?


    Assuming we are talking about a guy that I am into, I often get so caught up in making him cum that I usually just prefer to bottom. You know, I have never really thought about this question before lol.

    To be honest though, I have seen some asses before that I would just have to top.
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    Jul 03, 2014 8:39 PM GMT
    LOL, This is just an elaborate way of what I said earlier....(in a very details-oriented way). icon_redface.gificon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gif

    ThePenIsMyTier saidEnergy.
    Sex is ALL ABOUT energy.

    I don't even Ask what their preference is. That's boring.
    When I wrap my arms around them - I know within 2 seconds what is about to go down. As soon as our lips touch, it's over.

    If we battle back and forth with aggressive tongue lashes, play with power and enjoy the struggle - we are going to have a fun flip session.

    If I'm able to gain control based on his slight timidness, or eager attitude - throw him down on to the bed and work my legs under and between his and spread them, hell yeah!

    If he has an overbearing and masculine energy, I can't help but submit (but not fully until I know he is able to handle being in control. Some men just aren't cut for it)



    Really no matter what if we have fun a second time:
    I am going to convince a bottom with the right energy that he is a decent top, and to try it.
    I am GOING to get inside of that hyper-masculine top who has never experimented with bottoming.
    Expand your horizons people!