questions about dating ?

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    Jun 16, 2014 9:01 PM GMT


    i was wondering , can two of the same roles in a bedroom still have an alight healthy relationship?

    i know thats a strange question but there has to be some who have encountered this.
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    Jun 19, 2014 10:01 PM GMT
    As in two bottoms or two tops dating?
    I have seen it a few times... and they were open relationships.
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    Jun 20, 2014 1:19 PM GMT
    i think it would be two bottoms,icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Jun 20, 2014 4:49 PM GMT
    If two guys are serious about each other, I find that this is more negotiable than not. I wouldn't rule out a relationship entirely if we both turned out to be preferred tops.

    In my opinion, It's one thing if two partners are just that sexually incompatible. It's another if a guy is that insistent on his sexual position in the bedroom. You know where his priorities lie - and working on an egalitarian relationship isn't one of them.
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    Jun 20, 2014 5:54 PM GMT
    As long as you care about each other, anything is negotiable.
  • Apparition

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    Jun 29, 2014 6:01 AM GMT
    Why would you do that to yourself? Unless you really like oral your sex life would suck. 3 billion guys, pick one who likes to fuck...
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    Jun 29, 2014 7:49 AM GMT
    Apparition saidWhy would you do that to yourself? Unless you really like oral your sex life would suck. 3 billion guys, pick one who likes to fuck...

    Try telling that to yourself when you fall in love.
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    Jun 29, 2014 4:23 PM GMT
    They'd argue a lot about who is gonna be spit roasted next time...


    But wish there were more couples like that in real life lol
    OP introduce me to them !
  • Destinharbor

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    Jun 29, 2014 4:27 PM GMT
    I think it is certainly worth a try. You never know where chemistry will take you. You may find that one or the other of you can switch. I did. Went from exclusive bottom to 95% top. If you think in all other ways the two of you might be right for each other, and the passion is there, give it a shot.
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    Jun 29, 2014 4:38 PM GMT
    It boils down to "It can work... if you WANT it to work".

    When the "role" in the bedroom becomes "Committed to each other" then things like "Top" and "Bot" no longer matter.

    With love and passion, each will do whatever in necessary to please the other.
  • Apparition

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    Jul 01, 2014 4:44 AM GMT
    Truppensturm said
    Apparition saidWhy would you do that to yourself? Unless you really like oral your sex life would suck. 3 billion guys, pick one who likes to fuck...

    Try telling that to yourself when you fall in love.



    First dates are interviews for me, wouldnt happen. Thats like saying i would fall in love with a woman...wouldnt fall in love with someone sexually incompatible, it wouldnt get past the first question. I like sex to much to start a masochistic relationship.

    1. Are you a top or bottom?
    2. Do you love sci fi?
    3. Is 300$ a lot or little to spend on a halloween costume?

    There are only 3 right answers or the relationship is never going to happen....ever.
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    Jul 01, 2014 6:59 AM GMT
    lol

    I'd feel very uncomfortable having to ask the top/bottom question on a first date.
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    Jul 01, 2014 2:07 PM GMT
    ^
    Maybe you should ask this question before a first date icon_smile.gif

    But my friend is top and his bf is top too. We'll see how long they stay together icon_neutral.gif
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    Jul 01, 2014 2:54 PM GMT
    FoxPrime said ... can two of the same roles in a bedroom still have an alight healthy relationship ... strange question but there has to be ...

    to quote someone on this forum:
    as soon as you demote someone (maybe including your self) to a single word (top or bottom) its failed