Don't want to go back to china

  • Asianboy520

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    Jun 21, 2014 9:10 PM GMT
    The subjects doesn't mean I don't like china, I love china. That is my home where I was born. I have tons of memories there. However, I don't want to go back. Reason is I like American guys. They are so handsome and specially attractive to me. China is not s open as America. I can't imagine what will happen if I tell my parents I am gay. I believe they still love me and treat me like before. But it will put much pressure to them because of the culture. What should I do?a year later, I have to come back to china after finishing my school...noooooooo
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    Jun 21, 2014 9:12 PM GMT
    lol
  • Asianboy520

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    Jun 21, 2014 9:14 PM GMT
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    Jun 21, 2014 9:17 PM GMT
    From your age, I'm guessing that you'll finish your grad school. Am I right?

    After you graduate, will you be given 1-year of OPT? That is your opportunity to extend your stay. And if you land on the right company who hires you and sponsors your visa then you can stay and work here too.

    Is that an option for you? Or else consider going into PhD program?
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    Jun 21, 2014 9:19 PM GMT
    What makes American guys so special to you? Or are you talking about 'white' guys specifically?


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  • Asianboy520

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    Jun 21, 2014 9:22 PM GMT
    Yes, it is a good opt..but it's hard to find a job now here...especially for my major
  • Asianboy520

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    Jun 21, 2014 9:23 PM GMT
    I don't know...feelings...Mexican guys and white guys
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    Jun 21, 2014 9:24 PM GMT
    Asianboy520 saidI don't know...feelings...Mexican guys and white guys


    What about blacks and native americans? Brown skin is sexy too.
  • Asianboy520

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    Jun 21, 2014 9:27 PM GMT


    What about blacks and nativa americans? Brown skin is sexy too. [/quote]


    I think so..I do to them..hard to explain..
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    Jun 21, 2014 9:32 PM GMT
    Asianboy520 saidYes, it is a good opt..but it's hard to find a job now here...especially for my major


    What's your major? Keep looking. You never know. Some of my friends and family got an internship, eventually a job that sponsored them work visa. Don't give up yet. Start with your OPT (optional practical training).
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    Jun 21, 2014 9:34 PM GMT
    polfsky said
    Asianboy520 saidYes, it is a good opt..but it's hard to find a job now here...especially for my major


    What's your major? Keep looking. You never know. Some of my friends and family got an internship, eventually a job that sponsored them work visa. Don't give up yet. Start with your OPT (optional practical training).



    Thank you...I will study hard and keep looking for a good job...thank you for your help
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    Jun 21, 2014 9:46 PM GMT
    Americans are kinda strict on Immigration, giving Visa to foreign workers in the US. Beside, there are ton of US Citizens here who are under-employed, or unemployed and have experiences that you have to compete with. (Do you have any work experiences or internship experiences?)

    You can try to apply for a visa/work permit but I doubt it. I have a friend that had a UCLA grad degree in Journalism, could not get a job in LA so he moved to Beijing in 2009 to be an Anchor there at CCTV. Going back to your own country might not be that bad. Beside, do you have enough $$$ or any family support here to help you? Think hard about it dear.
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    Jun 21, 2014 9:57 PM GMT
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    Asianboy520 saidThe subjects doesn't mean I don't like china, I love china. That is my home where I was born. I have tons of memories there. However, I don't want to go back. Reason is I like American guys. They are so handsome and specially attractive to me. China is not s open as America. I can't imagine what will happen if I tell my parents I am gay. I believe they still love me and treat me like before. But it will put much pressure to them because of the culture. What should I do?a year later, I have to come back to china after finishing my school...noooooooo


    Overstay your visa and be like the millions of other foreigners who are here illegally. You'll be welcomed with free school, free food, free shelter, free cell phone, free health care. We have entire cities and states designated as "sanctuaries" for illegals.


    Lol such as Chinatowns? Lol, is this why we lose so much $$$ in our budget.
  • Asianboy520

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    Jun 21, 2014 10:01 PM GMT


    Overstay your visa and be like the millions of other foreigners who are here illegally. You'll be welcomed with free school, free food, free shelter, free cell phone, free health care. We have entire cities and states designated as "sanctuaries" for illegals.[/quote]

    No, this is not a good way to solve it...I will ruin my life
  • Asianboy520

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    Jun 21, 2014 10:02 PM GMT
    LAXWill10 saidAmericans are kinda strict on Immigration, giving Visa to foreign workers in the US. Beside, there are ton of US Citizens here who are under-employed, or unemployed and have experiences that you have to compete with. (Do you have any work experiences or internship experiences?)

    You can try to apply for a visa/work permit but I doubt it. I have a friend that had a UCLA grad degree in Journalism, could not get a job in LA so he moved to Beijing in 2009 to be an Anchor there at CCTV. Going back to your own country might not be that bad. Beside, do you have enough $$$ or any family support here to help you? Think hard about it dear.



    Just forget it and let it go...I should study hard...
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    Jun 21, 2014 10:07 PM GMT
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    NorthwestBoy1980 said

    Overstay your visa and be like the millions of other foreigners who are here illegally. You'll be welcomed with free school, free food, free shelter, free cell phone, free health care. We have entire cities and states designated as "sanctuaries" for illegals.


    excuse me sir but are you a republican?


    No, he is a sock account and a troll.
  • Paperless_Pen

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    Jun 21, 2014 10:16 PM GMT
    are you ashamed to be asian?
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    Jun 21, 2014 10:18 PM GMT
    owl_bundy said
    kevex said
    owl_bundy said
    NorthwestBoy1980 said

    Overstay your visa and be like the millions of other foreigners who are here illegally. You'll be welcomed with free school, free food, free shelter, free cell phone, free health care. We have entire cities and states designated as "sanctuaries" for illegals.


    excuse me sir but are you a republican?


    No, he is a sock account and a troll.


    how do you know???


    Cuz it's obvious. His profile pic is an actor, he isn't verified and he always posts this type of absurd shit.
  • Asianboy520

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    Jun 21, 2014 10:44 PM GMT
    kevex said
    owl_bundy said
    kevex said
    owl_bundy said
    NorthwestBoy1980 said

    Overstay your visa and be like the millions of other foreigners who are here illegally. You'll be welcomed with free school, free food, free shelter, free cell phone, free health care. We have entire cities and states designated as "sanctuaries" for illegals.


    excuse me sir but are you a republican?


    No, he is a sock account and a troll.


    how do you know???


    Cuz it's obvious. His profile pic is an actor, he isn't verified and he always posts this type of absurd shit.



    I see
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    Jun 21, 2014 10:48 PM GMT
    find a husband on RJ and get married! hahaha
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    Jun 21, 2014 10:49 PM GMT
    Marry a U.S. Citizen and apply for a K-1 Visa.
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    Jun 21, 2014 10:59 PM GMT
    I suggest you go somewhere else, USA is overflowed by asian guys chasing white and latinos. You will have too much competition, unless you're willing to settle with some old white guy, in that case you're heading to the right direction.

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    Jun 21, 2014 11:05 PM GMT
    David3K saidI suggest you go somewhere else, USA is overflowed by asian guys chasing white and latinos. You will have too much competence, unless you're willing to settle with some old white guy, in that case you're heading to the right direction.

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    +1 lol
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    Jun 21, 2014 11:09 PM GMT
    owl_bundy said
    kevex said
    owl_bundy said
    kevex said
    owl_bundy said
    NorthwestBoy1980 said

    Overstay your visa and be like the millions of other foreigners who are here illegally. You'll be welcomed with free school, free food, free shelter, free cell phone, free health care. We have entire cities and states designated as "sanctuaries" for illegals.


    excuse me sir but are you a republican?


    No, he is a sock account and a troll.


    how do you know???


    Cuz it's obvious. His profile pic is an actor, he isn't verified and he always posts this type of absurd shit.


    it is????? icon_confused.gif i reverse image searched his pic and nothing came up except his profile and threads from real jock. there was nothing that said that his profile pic belonged to somebody else or might be fake. not everybody is a sock puppet account.



    The dude in the pic is an actor from the movie My Own Private Idaho. http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0102494/?ref_=nm_flmg_act_45

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    Jun 21, 2014 11:11 PM GMT
    kevex said
    David3K saidI suggest you go somewhere else, USA is overflowed by asian guys chasing white and latinos. You will have too much competence, unless you're willing to settle with some old white guy, in that case you're heading to the right direction.

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    +1 lol


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