Casual sex with ex?

  • highforthis

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    Jun 22, 2014 6:15 AM GMT
    I broke up with my ex boyfriend at the end of last year, and have had a couple of flings with other guys since then. The thing is we're both still very attracted to each other, just that I didn't find us emotionally compatible. He has insinuated a number of times that he's willing to hook up. After many months without any sex, I'm starting to feel tempted... it's a bad idea right?
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    Jun 22, 2014 7:48 AM GMT

    Considering same situation!

    Will share my experience.
  • Apparition

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    Jun 24, 2014 3:34 AM GMT
    Sex with the ex is ok after fucking others
  • highforthis

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    Jun 24, 2014 4:53 AM GMT
    ^^I've made out with two other guys, but haven't fucked anyone since my ex. He's still the hottest IMO; problem is I see myself having a more meaningful LTR only with someone who is an old soul like myself, which he isn't. Damn, and he keeps sending me texts reminding me of our good times...
  • SinfulWays

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    Jun 24, 2014 5:28 AM GMT
    Well, since he's your ex and the only thing is your wanting a LTR and him not. I say "FUCK HIS BRAINS OUT" Enjoy as much Sex with him as you can until the right guy comes along. Why be deprived of great sex? Obviously it's a healthy boundary for you two!!! So blow him into a Coma and enjoy the bliss!
  • AMoonHawk

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    Jun 24, 2014 5:36 AM GMT
    Stop living in a fantasy world, you may be throwing away the only best thing to ever come your way ever .... There's no such thing as old souls ... The universe is eternally old, and we are old new here, so quit making excuses and figure out what is your real problem with him.
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    Jun 24, 2014 7:26 AM GMT
    You seem reluctant. Ask yourself why that is.

    If it's because you're worried about those previous emotions arriving out of the situation, maybe it is a bad idea.

    If you're willing and able to put those emotions aside and take it for what it is (just a couple of guys having some sex icon_twisted.gif ), go for it.

    Sometimes ex's have made the best FwBs, in my experiences. You still have that level of respect for each other, you know how to 'press' each others 'buttons' in bed and you already know how to communicate with each other (unless it was a bad relationship). A much more desirable situation, in my opinion, than going elsewhere for sexual gratification.