Public sex

  • sissyben

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    Jun 22, 2014 3:58 PM GMT
    Hi, i live in the UK and always fancied having gay sex in public, is it legal.
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    Jun 22, 2014 4:45 PM GMT
    The only crime is getting caught. icon_wink.gif
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    Jun 22, 2014 5:21 PM GMT
    I don't live in the UK, so I don't know the laws there.

    Why don't you try it out? Then get back to us and let us know how it went.
  • sissyben

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    Jun 22, 2014 6:08 PM GMT
    Ok thanks guys, ill report back on wednesday nigth icon_razz.gif
  • kew1

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    Jun 23, 2014 3:08 PM GMT
    sissyben saidOk thanks guys, ill report back on wednesday nigth icon_razz.gif

    Unless you're in a police cell.
    You're in Cumbria, so if the only witness is a bemused sheep, you'll be fine. If it's in Asda, expect to be arrested.
  • Destinharbor

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    Jun 23, 2014 3:13 PM GMT
    I've done it. It is a thrill. Don't make a habit of it, though. Odds have a way of catching up.
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    Jun 24, 2014 7:58 PM GMT
    Sex in public can land you as a sexual offender. Just pissing on the side of the road can do that (exposure).

    Yes I've done it. Just be VERY very cautious about where you do it! At this point in my life I prefer playing in someone's big back yard for that "outside experience".
  • PRDGUY

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    Jun 26, 2014 11:25 PM GMT
    Ask George Michael 4 that information. After all that's what he was charged with in a London public toilet I believe.
  • kew1

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    Jun 27, 2014 3:35 PM GMT
    PRDGUY saidAsk George Michael 4 that information. After all that's what he was charged with in a London public toilet I believe.


    In England,the law specifically bans sex in public toilets
    http://www.legislation.gov.uk/ukpga/2003/42/contents
    section 71.
    This law is sexist, according to section 66 only men can be done for exposure.
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    Jun 28, 2014 5:05 PM GMT
    PRDGUY saidAsk George Michael 4 that information. After all that's what he was charged with in a London public toilet I believe.


    Wrong, he was in LA at the time.

    Word to the wise - it's much smarter to carry on in public (discreetly) with someone you already know. Police departments the world over waste untold amounts of money on undercover entrapment. In court, whose word do you think is accepted? The gay guy who swears he was walking along when somebody caught his eye and made suggestive remarks and felt him up - or the cop who swears the same thing?

    Also, be sure to do a thorough visual sweep of your surroundings for hidden and not-so-hidden cameras. Big Brother seems to be watching everywhere these days. icon_cry.gificon_mad.gif

    "Public action" pornos are filmed about as spontaneously as the performers in "straight to gay" pornos are straight and have no idea what's about to happen. icon_rolleyes.gif It's OK to be "inspired" by them but foolish to think real life plays out that way.
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    Jun 30, 2014 5:05 AM GMT
    I don't know how public it was but it was by the banks of a creek behind the arts building of my college. At night.
    Just as we pulled out of the parking lot, campus security drove by...icon_eek.gif So glad we didn't get caught! icon_wink.gif
  • WrestlerBoy

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    Jun 30, 2014 11:41 PM GMT
    sissyben saidHi, i live in the UK and always fancied having gay sex in public, is it legal.


    Yes, it is. And you mean in "England and Wales" (there is no "UK" law in this sense: Scotland has different laws applying to such matters).

    As noted above: (But Section 66, not 71)

    http://www.legislation.gov.uk/ukpga/2003/42/contents

    66. Exposure

    [F1(1)A person commits an offence if—
    (a)he intentionally exposes his genitals, and
    (b)he intends that someone will see them and be caused alarm or distress.

    "AND" he intends that someone...."

    So, if you're having sex in a field and you DON'T intend that someone will see your genitals...

    If you're having sex in the middle of Harrod's, they'll argue that of COURSE you "intended" for someone to see them.

    It can be extremely difficult in England and Wales to prosecute someone, say, walking through the open fields of the countryside completely naked... until they get to the village, you know.
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    Sep 01, 2014 1:06 AM GMT
    Done it at Longwood gardens (Philadelphia) and Winterthur (under the roses.)

  • Sep 01, 2014 4:29 PM GMT
    i dont mind wankn in public or haveing a guy push his way into my cubical n i blow him is hot but not cool to be caught in bushes grunting while getting fucked n caught though when camping with friends is great being beararsed. n because we know each othern i like them watching thats fine
  • jayatl56

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    Jul 02, 2016 12:27 PM GMT
    I once knew a guy who was having sex in a park in Prague sometime around 2am when two beat cops came up on them and turned their flashlights on. All the did was ask if they were ok - they wanted to be sure the bottom wasn't being raped. When the two said they were ok, the police left them. It was in a park but not really in full view of anyone so I guess they believe in live and let live.
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    Jul 08, 2016 9:56 PM GMT
    TIMinPS saidSex in public can land you as a sexual offender. Just pissing on the side of the road can do that (exposure).

    Yes I've done it. Just be VERY very cautious about where you do it! At this point in my life I prefer playing in someone's big back yard for that "outside experience".


    Exactly Timm, I have done it at nude beaches in Sydney and the Gold Coast, but not in the open as their is also the factor of unwanted other Gay men will try to join in or you may get verbally abused or worse be the subject of violence if your unlucky enough to be seen by some homophobic straight guys. If your going to do it, best to get somewhere like a nude beach where you at least have other Gay or MHSM around to act as a potential warning if something dangerous is imminent. Its a big thrill to do I must admit, I even had a few porn star friends get me to do some nude pics of them around the rock pool of one particularly well known Gay attended nude beach. I generally don't bother much with outdoor or beats but if in moment, I end up doing it I have a couple of self imposed rules I stick by that have kept me from it all going wrong.
    1. make sure your not in view of the general public and that there is some coverage of some kind so that you only get seen by people who are involved or want to be involved (other gay guy onlookers)
    2. you and the guy/s your with have an understanding that whoever has an uninterrupted view keeps a look out for unwanted attention which is not to difficult and means you can have as much fun as you want knowing theirs gonna be a warning
    3. If you do get caught while in the middle of things, make sure your aware of local laws on nudity and if the place you are playing is legal for you to be in the first place because your legal rights will be complicated if nudity, sex in public and trespassing a thrown at you. If you are unlucky enough to encounter violence or harassment provided your jurisdiction doesn't have sodomy laws or is totally red neck you still have a right to report what happen to police
    4. I would recommend not doing the George Michael type toilet beats as you are exposing more risk and also potentially underage boys around so you don't want to be seen cruising or even doing it with them nearby.
    5. If you do end up playing in a toilet beat, in most jurisdictions if things are done behind the closed toilet door, I have been re-assured by a female friend who is a professor of law that its not considered public in the eyes of the law so make sure you close the door before exposing yourself

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    Jul 08, 2016 10:52 PM GMT
    jayatl56 saidI once knew a guy who was having sex in a park in Prague sometime around 2am when two beat cops came up on them and turned their flashlights on. All the did was ask if they were ok - they wanted to be sure the bottom wasn't being raped. When the two said they were ok, the police left them. It was in a park but not really in full view of anyone so I guess they believe in live and let live.


    That's sound like those cops showed common sense. I used to be on a volunteer phone service run by the local Aids Council and as part of the training we were all educated about the legal do and don'ts of beat or public sex. By chance one late evening coming home from shift work, in Brisbane Qld, I was passing a park in the city known as a beat and for the young prostitutes of whom I used to occasionally stop and talk to as they were generally very talkative and liked me because I wasnt trying to sleep with them. The pro-boys would attract all the cop attention meaning the beat users in the middle of the park never got hassled, but this one time they weren't there up by the entrance to the park. I saw to police walking that way and overheard what they said about scaring the crap out of the "faggots in the park"
    and decided in the moment to shortcut through the park and warn people. I saw 3 guys let them know the cops were looking to get whoever is in their. The police must have called in back up and so any escape impossible. As we approached the cops I said to the guys to not run or be rude and to only answer questions and not offer any extra info. I even made up personal details for them and said if they wished too, use those details because without id they only have to say name and address and the reason for passing through. It worked and the cops had to let us go
    Another time I saw to guys approaching the entrance way and same two cops intercepted them and had threatened them verbally and held out a batton until they saw me.

    The two police ceased the threatening and i pulled out a piece of paper and pen to fake righting down what i saw. Those guys where then able to leave as the police decided to come toward me but I only stayed for long enough to make sure the guys they had approached had the chance to leave

    I later red in the paper the male cop (other was a junior female cop) was the subject of internal affairs investigation and had to face charges. My point to that story is that people get scared in the moment into reacting in a way that makes them seem guilty of something but if you don't get caught (witnessed directly) in most jurisdictions there is very little the police can do and if you are going to have public sex be aware of worst case scenario if you want be be able to enjoy the thrill of it and still have a plan to protect yourself should something go wrong.

    On top of that and I have spoken to security people who patrol parks and to some police I have known socially and the response they gave about what they do if they are called to a beat or outdoor sex situation, is that in truth the hate trying to intervene and their preference is not to catch anyone having sex, but they would rather scare them away or ask questions that let anyone they do speak to be aware that the place is known for sexual activities already. They also added that they do not patrol closely the are that the sexual activity is known to occur, instead the most common method was to use spotlights high enough up that whoever sees them will stop having sex and make an attempt avoid the spotlight won't be caught. Police generally only go to know sexual hooku up place after being contacted by disgruntled people who are passing by or in building close to that place. I the Police are called they are forced by law to attend and at least try to make it look like they were serious about the report, but on most occasions Police would rather individuals ('self police') and not cause any disruptions to local and if that happens they would rather not turn up if theyre is little to no noise in a

    Pick the spot you try outdoor sex, any place where they're is enough of a buffer so that you can see any signs of a problematic incident and above everything don't start getting down n dirty in plain view of General public who are passing by or you'll have serious problems from the Public and police.