How to go about exercising my fetish?

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    Jun 23, 2014 11:09 PM GMT
    So roughly a few years ago back in my early 20's I found this site while I was on the brink of a mental breakdown. Long story short..I have a very peculiar non-sexual fetish, that has taken the place of sex in my mind. Its nothing "disgusting or perverted", however, it's not something you would call a common "turn-on", now, would some call it Homoerotic? yes,but its not something that you find tons of guys into(you can PM me if you'd like to know what it is).

    After getting psychological help as well as several other consultations for this issue, a definitive and unanimous conclusion was reached, the only way I can "recover/heal" from this issue is to exercise it as much as possible with the "get it out of your system" approach.

    Being that my situation is so rare, I know for a fact that I will most likely NEVER find a guy thats into what I am my question is, does anyone know how I can go about perhaps HIRING guys to entertain my fetish? I make a decent income, so money isn't an issue really. My primary concern is where to go to pitch the idea? seems SUPER SEX oriented and craigslist just seems to be SKETCH city, are there any other sites or methods you guys may know of to present this "Odd Job" Any constructive input or opinions would be greatly appreciated.
  • Webster666

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    Jun 23, 2014 11:38 PM GMT
    The very wise sex advice columnist Dan Savage has said that, no matter what your fetish is, there is ALWAYS someone else out there who is into the same thing. And, because of the internet, it's relatively easy to find that other person or persons.

    And, I agree.
    Go to any of the popular hookup web sites, post your profile, and tell the world what you are looking for.

    CAUTION: I expect that offering money, up front, would bring out all the crazies.

    So, post your profile (without offering money), and just see what kind of responses you get. But, since your turn on is apparently something unusual, don't be surprised if you get some vicious feedback from other members of that web site who believe that anything "different" is bad. Still, don't let that deter you.

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    Jun 24, 2014 12:00 AM GMT
    is it tickling?
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    Jun 24, 2014 2:27 PM GMT
    JackBoneTX saidis it tickling?

    Lol no, that's actually a COMMON fetish
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    Jun 24, 2014 5:24 PM GMT
    Goto the site recon

    Lots of people think that they are the only one with their fetish, only to find hundreds of other who like tickling ears with green dusters or sniffing the fish counter at the market.

    I'm into very aggressive "pushy" sex haha and thought it was a bit embaressing at one point, but found that there were loads of guys who were into the same and way more extreme stuff than me, and fighting for top clubs too.