Jun 25, 2014 5:43 AM GMT
Even though I have been mostly dating inter-racially (Latino/White), I still have a thing for the brothers. Big time. I always have.
I recently left from out west (an area majority of brothers in gay scene like white guys) and went back to Florida for a lil while. Well, once I got there, I started getting a lot of responses from other brothers. Well, I ended up meeting up with 1 of them...and we hit it off real well. We went out, it wasn't just a hookup. When it came down to the sex, he wasn't falling short there either. We'll definitely be kicking it again when I return.
Contrast that to my interracial encounters. They're good, but I'm just finding so much objectification involved with them. I like being a top, but too many guys got jungle fever and expect the Black dude to be a massive, aggressive fuck machine. I hate when guys I hookup with tell me something like, "Black guys (insert whatever complimentary sex verb you can think of)" What makes these guys think I want to know they've been knocked up by 50 million other brothers. I'm going to start asking, well what happened to them? Lol.
I have a friend who is Arabic tell me once in awhile, he doesn't like to do Black guys because, "we fuck like beasts, and take a long time to cum". Although considered a compliment, I told him no, that's a misconception. The truth is, many guys who are into us 'expect' and even ASK us to fuck like beasts, and many Black guys have mistakenly believed that's what most guys (mainly interracial) want. I told him straight up, I haven't come across hardly any Black dude, that hasn't respected my boundaries when it comes to sex. To even believe in that, is sterotyping and living in 'fear'. The very epitome of racism. In addition, I have found with interracial encounters, majority of the guys rarely ever call or text back after sex. They chase, chase, chase...but once they get it, all efforts turn null. It's like they get what they secretly want, and that's it. They never want to hookup again, or play lil bullshit games. You're left wondering, what the fuck? But they just about playing the field, get as many Black dicks as they can get, and discard and repeat. Or, the be on that experimental tip, or going thru a 'phase'.That doesn't happen as much, after I hook up with a brother.
I still do enjoy interracial partners...but I think now I'm going to start opening myself more to brothers too. Also, Not every guy Who likes blk dudes is like what I described either. I find Latins who been in the states for awhile, aren't usually like that.. What's your E-pinion?
I recently left from out west (an area majority of brothers in gay scene like white guys) and went back to Florida for a lil while. Well, once I got there, I started getting a lot of responses from other brothers. Well, I ended up meeting up with 1 of them...and we hit it off real well. We went out, it wasn't just a hookup. When it came down to the sex, he wasn't falling short there either. We'll definitely be kicking it again when I return.
Contrast that to my interracial encounters. They're good, but I'm just finding so much objectification involved with them. I like being a top, but too many guys got jungle fever and expect the Black dude to be a massive, aggressive fuck machine. I hate when guys I hookup with tell me something like, "Black guys (insert whatever complimentary sex verb you can think of)" What makes these guys think I want to know they've been knocked up by 50 million other brothers. I'm going to start asking, well what happened to them? Lol.
I have a friend who is Arabic tell me once in awhile, he doesn't like to do Black guys because, "we fuck like beasts, and take a long time to cum". Although considered a compliment, I told him no, that's a misconception. The truth is, many guys who are into us 'expect' and even ASK us to fuck like beasts, and many Black guys have mistakenly believed that's what most guys (mainly interracial) want. I told him straight up, I haven't come across hardly any Black dude, that hasn't respected my boundaries when it comes to sex. To even believe in that, is sterotyping and living in 'fear'. The very epitome of racism. In addition, I have found with interracial encounters, majority of the guys rarely ever call or text back after sex. They chase, chase, chase...but once they get it, all efforts turn null. It's like they get what they secretly want, and that's it. They never want to hookup again, or play lil bullshit games. You're left wondering, what the fuck? But they just about playing the field, get as many Black dicks as they can get, and discard and repeat. Or, the be on that experimental tip, or going thru a 'phase'.That doesn't happen as much, after I hook up with a brother.
I still do enjoy interracial partners...but I think now I'm going to start opening myself more to brothers too. Also, Not every guy Who likes blk dudes is like what I described either. I find Latins who been in the states for awhile, aren't usually like that.. What's your E-pinion?