Ex boyfriends......this has probably been done before but....... how many of you tried to be friends with your Ex's only to get stabbed in the back?

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    Jun 28, 2014 9:40 PM GMT
    in my case i tried to be friends with 2 of my Ex's and only they turned and stabbed me in the back i am a forgiving person but i only can forgive so much....i wont forgive them at all, one of my Ex's i was engaged to and HE broke it off after a month accusing me of not trusting him which in reality i had a right to not trust him because he cheated on me while engaged to me then after a while he told me he wanted to forget that him and i existed as a couple and that really did hurt a lot and all he could do was laugh about it then a few months later he tried talking to me again ONLY to turn around and say he didnt want anything to do with me anymore. i have come to the conclusion that he never truly cared about me nor did he really respect me at all, he really used to call me old and a whore, and i obviously cared more about him and respected him more then he did about me. thoughts and opinions. in my opinion hes an asshole
  • PR_GMR

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    Jun 28, 2014 9:46 PM GMT
    And why would you want to be friends with an asshole?

    You can friends with some exes.. but with some, you won't be able to. I think in your case, it'll be best to cut your losses and move on. Don't force yourself to be friends with someone who treated you like trash.
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    Jun 30, 2014 7:25 PM GMT
    Toxic,...
    Let go..
    Move forward.
  • radtot

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    Jul 03, 2014 1:09 AM GMT
    let it go. XD

    maybe you will turned out as friends sooner but at this moment, Enjoy Life.
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    Jul 03, 2014 1:36 AM GMT
    Yeah, it happened to me. An ex-BF I thought was still my friend turned on me and tried to ruin me.

    Nothing is more vindictive than an old queen. And the older the queen, the more vindictive. A lesson for younger gay guys to keep in mind.

    Never date old queens. They are bitter bitches, and will turn on you in a flash. I've never know an exception to that. Hate to be stereotypical, but that's the reality.
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    Jul 03, 2014 7:08 PM GMT
    Art_Deco saidYeah, it happened to me. An ex-BF I thought was still my friend turned on me and tried to ruin me.

    Nothing is more vindictive than an old queen. And the older the queen, the more vindictive. A lesson for younger gay guys to keep in mind.

    Never date old queens. They are bitter bitches, and will turn on you in a flash. I've never know an exception to that. Hate to be stereotypical, but that's the reality.


    two of my Ex's were both drama queens, the time i finally broke away they both freaked out and tried making my life hell so now i am very happy without them