There is no excuse. Just because your parents want you to marry and have kids does not give you the right to lie and deceive. This bitch is lame believe me..
I agree. I married because of parental & career pressure. When I realized I was gay I separated & divorced. I wouldn't live 2 lives, or a lie.
Im guessing you didn't have children..??
Homosexuality was much more taboo in those days im sure
I do have children, 2 sons.
When I told my wife I'm gay she got a North Dakota judge to issue a search warrant on my house (we were already separated). They were looking for child pornography, because I was gay, on the automatic presumption that all gay men have child pornography. No evidence, just my own statement to my wife that I'm gay.
An armed 9-man SWAT team, of local, county & State police, came banging on my door, and they seized my 2 computers, my printer, my Palm Pilot, my cell phone, all my digital storage media, and took most of the paper contents of my file cabinet. It took 5 hours.
The ND State criminal lab in Bismarck examined them all, and finally returned everything to me 6 months later, when they failed to find anything illegal on them. I was never charged with any crime, never detained.
She also got a North Dakota court to deny me access to my sons, because I'd said I was gay. It's illegal for me to try to contact them. I haven't seen them in over 10 years. Nor have they ever tried to contact me on their own, which tears my heart out.
This is what being gay is some parts of the US is like. And some guys here wonder why I'm so anti-Right Wing? Try going what I've been through, and then we'll talk.