So sick of closet cases

  • venue35

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    Jun 29, 2014 8:18 PM GMT
    At my gym there is this guy who never uses the weights or anything else for that matter except the steam room. He is always either in there jerking off and looking for action or staring at you in the shower area.
    I saw him today at the supermarket with his wife and their baby girl buying diapers. I think the color of his face when he saw me is called "crimson".
    Just Fuck You
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    Jun 29, 2014 8:23 PM GMT
    Next time you see him in the steam room, ask him how his wife and kids are doing. icon_lol.gif
  • venue35

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    Jun 29, 2014 8:26 PM GMT
    He'll tell me to "mind my own business"..
    Fuck that bitch ...
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    Jun 29, 2014 8:26 PM GMT
    venue35 saidAt my gym there is this guy who never uses the weights or anything else for that matter except the steam room. He is always either in there jerking off and looking for action or staring at you in the shower area.
    I saw him today at the supermarket with his wife and their baby girl buying diapers. I think the color of his face when he saw me is called "crimson".
    Just Fuck You


    Kind of pathetic isn't it? He felt that going "straight" was the best choice, but obviously that's not working! Suppressing it only makes it appear somewhere else, and not in a good way. It was never a choice I would have made, but I'm definitely GAY and HAPPY!

    Talk to the management, they shouldn't allow it.
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    Jun 29, 2014 8:29 PM GMT
    Have sex with him, record it on a hidden camera, post the video online, then email the link to a local TV station.
  • venue35

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    Jun 29, 2014 8:29 PM GMT
    They would laugh if i mentioned it ... besides they get 220 bucks a year from "fuckface" why would they care if he's married or not?
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    Jun 29, 2014 8:31 PM GMT
    Ask him to take you to Narnia!
  • venue35

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    Jun 29, 2014 8:31 PM GMT
    I just feel bad for his wife. Being lied to in that manner. It's just depressing.
    Im gonna lock that whale in the steam room untill he suffocates.
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    Jun 29, 2014 8:34 PM GMT
    There is another way to look at it. Maybe he feels trapped and afraid. If you think of it from his perspective, if he comes out, he'll likely loose his wife and custody of his kids. Not to mention, he will most certainly loose the support of his wife's family and a good chance he will loose his own family also. And that doesn't even cover what his friends and coworkers will say or do. And he obviously can't go dating other men so casual sex is probably his only outlet for any type of intimacy with another man. And not all men realize they're gay when they get married. For some it's a slow realization that only happens over time. I'm not defending his choices, just offering another way to look at the situation.

    However, we have the same closet cases at my gym so I get pretty pissed off at these types myself from time to time so I can relate to your feelings.
  • venue35

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    Jun 29, 2014 8:39 PM GMT
    I see what you are getting at but it's obvious that it's alot more calculated.
    There is no excuse. Just because your parents want you to marry and have kids does not give you the right to lie and deceive. This bitch is lame believe me..
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    Jun 29, 2014 8:49 PM GMT
    Venue you're aware Greece is playing right now, trying to get into the best 8 in the world, right?

    Maybe you should stop getting into other people's business and root for your country instead
  • venue35

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    Jun 29, 2014 8:54 PM GMT
    Haha im watching the game right now!
    Im not getting in his business yet ... i havent said anything just discussing it here on these forums..we all know what you think about liking both oysters and snails so...
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    Jun 29, 2014 9:06 PM GMT
    yummy
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    Jun 29, 2014 9:12 PM GMT
    Did you just see that?!?!? hahaha what the hell was that goalie doing? He just stood there while the ball slowly got into the net! Feel bad for Samaras one of my favorite players.
    (Didn't mean to hijack this thread, Im out of here now haha).
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    Jun 29, 2014 9:57 PM GMT
    How do you know his wife doesn't know ? Many married couples have open relationships.
  • venue35

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    Jun 29, 2014 10:03 PM GMT
    That shit don't fly here. Homos here are really suppressed.
    They love the hiding and the guilt that comes with it. They think it's sexy.
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    Jun 29, 2014 10:04 PM GMT
    venue35 said
    There is no excuse. Just because your parents want you to marry and have kids does not give you the right to lie and deceive. This bitch is lame believe me..

    I agree. I married because of parental & career pressure. When I realized I was gay I separated & divorced. I wouldn't live 2 lives, or a lie.
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    Jun 29, 2014 10:08 PM GMT
    David3K saidDid you just see that?!?!? hahaha what the hell was that goalie doing? He just stood there while the ball slowly got into the net! Feel bad for Samaras one of my favorite players.
    (Didn't mean to hijack this thread, Im out of here now haha).

    The greek players are all so incredibly hot...and then you see the goalieicon_confused.gif
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    Jun 29, 2014 10:09 PM GMT
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    venue35 said
    There is no excuse. Just because your parents want you to marry and have kids does not give you the right to lie and deceive. This bitch is lame believe me..

    I agree. I married because of parental & career pressure. When I realized I was gay I separated & divorced. I wouldn't live 2 lives, or a lie.

    Im guessing you didn't have children..??
    Homosexuality was much more taboo in those days im sure
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    Jun 29, 2014 10:11 PM GMT
    venue35 said
    David3K saidDid you just see that?!?!? hahaha what the hell was that goalie doing? He just stood there while the ball slowly got into the net! Feel bad for Samaras one of my favorite players.
    (Didn't mean to hijack this thread, Im out of here now haha).

    The greek players are all so incredibly hot...and then you see the goalieicon_confused.gif

    Costa Rica is playing with 10 men. Greece should take advantage of that now, score and avoid penalties.
    I already said (in the world cup thread) that Iran and Greece have the best looking players.
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    Jun 29, 2014 10:17 PM GMT
    I agree this is going to be a close game!
    Please score Greece!!!!!!!!!
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    Jun 29, 2014 10:28 PM GMT
    When I have a son I'm gonna name him Papastathopoulos. Karagounies is also a good choice!
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    Jun 29, 2014 11:05 PM GMT
    Everyone lets hug OP!!
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    Jun 29, 2014 11:34 PM GMT
    venue35 said
    They love the hiding and the guilt that comes with it. They think it's sexy.



    This describes an unmarried neighbor of mine. We live in Midtown Atlanta which is as gay friendly as The Castro of SF.

    But I think he's found a good reason to stay in the closet. He gets more sex.

    He's not attractive and as an openly gay man he'd have to beg for sex from the young guys he likes.

    But as a "straight dude who is open-minded" he can get these young guys to come over and watch a game, AND THEN A LITTLE PORN as they have a few drinks and end up in bed.

    If he were openly gay, there is no way these closeted young guys would ever feel comfortable being seen with him.
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    Jun 29, 2014 11:42 PM GMT
    venue35 said
    Art_Deco said
    venue35 said
    There is no excuse. Just because your parents want you to marry and have kids does not give you the right to lie and deceive. This bitch is lame believe me..

    I agree. I married because of parental & career pressure. When I realized I was gay I separated & divorced. I wouldn't live 2 lives, or a lie.

    Im guessing you didn't have children..??
    Homosexuality was much more taboo in those days im sure

    I do have children, 2 sons.

    When I told my wife I'm gay she got a North Dakota judge to issue a search warrant on my house (we were already separated). They were looking for child pornography, because I was gay, on the automatic presumption that all gay men have child pornography. No evidence, just my own statement to my wife that I'm gay.

    An armed 9-man SWAT team, of local, county & State police, came banging on my door, and they seized my 2 computers, my printer, my Palm Pilot, my cell phone, all my digital storage media, and took most of the paper contents of my file cabinet. It took 5 hours.

    The ND State criminal lab in Bismarck examined them all, and finally returned everything to me 6 months later, when they failed to find anything illegal on them. I was never charged with any crime, never detained.

    She also got a North Dakota court to deny me access to my sons, because I'd said I was gay. It's illegal for me to try to contact them. I haven't seen them in over 10 years. Nor have they ever tried to contact me on their own, which tears my heart out.

    This is what being gay is some parts of the US is like. And some guys here wonder why I'm so anti-Right Wing? Try going what I've been through, and then we'll talk.