Bisexual and she is open minded

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    Jul 03, 2014 11:03 PM GMT
    Any guys that are in a loving relationship with a woman and she is accepting of your bisexual side? My partner for two years is ok with me exploring my bisexual side. She knows that before we met I had an affair with another married man. If she says it's cool, is it really?? I would love to have both worlds, but do worry that it will introduce tension into a relationship I do not wish to damage. Any suggestions or advice???
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    Jul 04, 2014 1:29 AM GMT
    Here is a great site for bisexual people:
    www.shybi-guys.com/forum

    you'll find tons of info there and more accepting of bi atmosphere, unlike here
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    Jul 04, 2014 3:09 PM GMT
    If it's agreed upon by you and your partner, it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks.
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    Jul 04, 2014 3:26 PM GMT
    Okajuurou saidHere is a great site for bisexual people:
    www.shybi-guys.com/forum

    you'll find tons of info there and more accepting of bi atmosphere, unlike here


    Thanks for this
    I shall be amused for hours and hours now.

    to the OP
    with all relationships communication is key.
    How is she going to feel when you fall in love with a man?
    I would think a 'poly' situation works when all parties are equally invested--good luck with that.
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    Jul 04, 2014 4:05 PM GMT
    dustin_K_tx saidto the OP
    with all relationships communication is key.
    How is she going to feel when you fall in love with a man?
    I would think a 'poly' situation works when all parties are equally invested--good luck with that.

    I think there's merit in considering this. An important part of this whole equation is YOU! Are you really bi or are you gay but not wanting to come out because of family, friends, stigma, etc? There are bi guys, don't get me wrong but there are also others that use the title for their cover to avoid facing the reality of being gay and it comes back much later to bite them. It really is all about communications (in any relationship), understanding and honesty with yourself and your partner(s). If this relationship is new, she might be agreeing for fear of losing you but find it gets old after you're out with someone else while she's home alone. Think it through!
  • Webster666

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    Jul 04, 2014 10:09 PM GMT
    Women often don't say what they mean.
    Open minded ?
    Depends on her definition of open minded.
    And, that could very well change.

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    Jul 04, 2014 10:31 PM GMT
    Have you considered a three-way?
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    Jul 04, 2014 11:00 PM GMT
    bon_pan saidHave you considered a three-way?


    Or what would really be fair is a 4-way with you, your girl, another guy and another girl. Everyone could potentially "bi" into that situation.
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    Jul 04, 2014 11:08 PM GMT
    I offer it as a suggestion, not as a show of disrespect. Could turn out to be a wonderful thing, could also give OP a crash course on just how forthcoming his woman is.

    If she is OK with your homosexual liasons, more power to the both of you.
  • buddycat

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    Jul 05, 2014 12:49 AM GMT
    I don't know anything about this but I don't see any woman being okay with you having an affair with anyone regardless of gender unless she was doing the same thing with another woman.
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    Jul 05, 2014 4:47 AM GMT
    Sounds like she wants to hook up with a chick.