Jul 05, 2014 6:30 PM GMT
Okay guys, I am hoping I am putting this in the right section, if not sorry, I'm new. Anyway my boyfriend and I have known each other for almost two years, and have been together for about 5 months. Hes 20 and I'm 22. We have sex all the time which is great, but at the same time I am not satisfied with it. I mean on his part I am, but on my part I'm not. I can't seem to last very long, at all. Usually I last maybe 3 minutes if I am lucky. I get the occasional 20 once and a while, but not often. It really does embarrass me. He tells me I am amazing in bed, but I feel like hes just trying to boost my confidence. I don't even last long with bjs or hand jobs. I have tried almost everything I can think of to last. Prolonging gel, masturbation, you name it and nothing really works. It is to the point I don't want to have sex anymore. I just feel like I can't compare. He is literally porn star status, no matter what I do I can't seem to get him off. This sorta leads into the second question. He can last forever. The other nights I literally jerked him off for an hour and nothing. I can't get him off orally either. I feel like I am horrible at all of it. I mean I know I'm okay at it because the sounds he makes, you can't fake those. It seems like no matter what I do I can't get him off, and it really makes me feel horrible, because he can get me off easily. He and I have talked about this, and he said maybe he is the one with the problem. Maybe hes just used to it all because as a teenager he would masturbate three or more times a day. To me though that makes no sense because I was the exact same way. I have never been able to last long, even on my own. It just really bugs me and I'm not sure what to do. At this point I told him I don't want to have sex or do anything sexually until I figure out what is wrong with me. Thankfully he is amazing and understands. I have thought about going to a doctor, but sadly I can't afford it. So if there are any tips or advice you could lend me on how to last longer with masturbation, sex and foreplay, and finding a way to be able to get him to reach an orgasm I would greatly appreciate it. Thank you guys for reading my rambling. Sorry to sound so whiny, but all of this really makes me feel down about myself, so any advice would be amazing.