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  • KaZT

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    Jul 06, 2014 10:29 PM GMT
    One day someone said me that it's fells better when we shere our problems here, so I am going to do it.

    I've been in contact with a guy for 8 months, we were meeting each other for weekends, because we lived in diffrent parts of my county.

    He is 8 years older than me, and he have good carrer, and I finished my higher education just week ago. He is bouying, already bought a new apartment, and offered me if I want to live with him. I accepted that invitation, and make everything directly on that way.

    I didn't look for job in my City, because I was sure that I will move to Warsaw soon, also I withdrawed from an agreement about rent room. When I toled him that last news (about flat) he told me that he is no more into me, and he don't want me anymore in hi s flat.

    So, for now. I am without work, without money and in 6 days I will have no place to live.

    FOr the very first time in my short life I do not have a clue what to do.

    Ps. Please do not hate me here, I didn t wrote it for extra views.
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    Jul 07, 2014 12:05 AM GMT
    Duzz yu fells better?
  • WrestlerBoy

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    Jul 07, 2014 12:12 AM GMT
    KaZT saidOne day someone said me that it's fells better when we shere our problems here, so I am going to do it.

    I've been in contact with a guy for 8 months, we were meeting each other for weekends, because we lived in diffrent parts of my county.

    He is 8 years older than me, and he have good carrer, and I finished my higher education just week ago. He is bouying, already bought a new apartment, and offered me if I want to live with him. I accepted that invitation, and make everything directly on that way.

    I didn't look for job in my City, because I was sure that I will move to Warsaw soon, also I withdrawed from an agreement about rent room. When I toled him that last news (about flat) he told me that he is no more into me, and he don't want me anymore in hi s flat.

    So, for now. I am without work, without money and in 6 days I will have no place to live.

    FOr the very first time in my short life I do not have a clue what to do.

    Ps. Please do not hate me here, I didn t wrote it for extra views.


    You're smart and handsome. Put that together with some hope, and you'll work something out, even in 6 days. As Lord D'Aubernon said about the English, "Their minds work best when it's almost too late." Be a bit English this week? Good luck icon_smile.gif
  • Rene_Aensland

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    Jul 07, 2014 12:48 AM GMT
    I would show up at his apartment.

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    Jul 07, 2014 2:31 AM GMT
    Wow what a harsh wake up call. First Don't beat yourself up. Tell yourself YOU ARE VALUABLE. We care about you and your success.
    Please be very careful to get help from trustworthy good people in finding a new job and place to live. Don't rush to take just any strangers help, especially if they think you are gay. Don't think you have to prostitute yourself.
    You might have to work 2 jobs for a while but fight like your life depends on it.
    Hugs
  • WrestlerBoy

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    Jul 07, 2014 2:32 AM GMT
    RJemailjunkie saidWow what a harsh wake up call. First Don't beat yourself up. Tell yourself YOU ARE VALUABLE. We care about you and your success.
    Please be very careful to get help from trustworthy good people in finding a new job and place to live. Don't rush to take just any strangers help, especially if they think you are gay. Don't think you have to prostitute yourself.
    You might have to work 2 jobs for a while but fight like your life depends on it.
    Hugs


    What's wrong with prostituting himself?
  • Webster666

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    Jul 07, 2014 7:09 AM GMT
    Do you have family or friends with whom you could stay until you can get a job and a place of your own or a room with room mates ?

    Does the city of Warsaw or any church (or other organization) offer a place for people to stay ?
  • KaZT

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    Jul 08, 2014 3:02 PM GMT
    I am trying to organize quick move to Li'verpool, but its not so easy.

    The last option is back to my familly home ( very very last) I have my reasons. Maybe I would even prefer to be homeless.

    PS. I didn't think about escorting;)
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    Jul 10, 2014 12:07 AM GMT
    Hi, Are there temporary job agencies that can help you find work. I've found work this way. Also working in group homes for the handicapped.
    Any former school friends that can store your things temporarily, if you need to live in a shelter short term?
    Thanks for the update. Hope you don't mind me praying for your success.
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    Jul 10, 2014 12:22 AM GMT
    Man, hope you find the way out of this mess quickly. Important life lesson all of us can learn from for sure. Trust someone but have a backup plan.
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    Jul 10, 2014 7:15 AM GMT
    Don't you get money from government after you graduate? When we finish high school or university here we get like around 900 euros every month until we find a job.
  • Nayro

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    Jul 10, 2014 7:28 AM GMT
    what a dickhead, hope you find something soon icon_sad.gif
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    Jul 10, 2014 11:41 AM GMT
    Why don't you consider escorting? Honestly half the time guys just bitch to me about their problems and I make bank.
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    Jul 10, 2014 11:54 AM GMT
    Avsigkommen saidWhy don't you consider escorting? Honestly half the time guys just bitch to me about their problems and I make bank.

    You mean whoring yourself?
  • Rene_Aensland

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    Jul 10, 2014 11:56 AM GMT
    Avsigkommen saidWhy don't you consider escorting? Honestly half the time guys just bitch to me about their problems and I make bank.


    Your Grindr hookups aren't considered "escorting."

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    Jul 10, 2014 11:58 AM GMT
    Rene_Aensland said
    Avsigkommen saidWhy don't you consider escorting? Honestly half the time guys just bitch to me about their problems and I make bank.


    Your Grindr hookups aren't considered "escorting."



    Die in a fire. <3

    Truppensturm said
    Avsigkommen saidWhy don't you consider escorting? Honestly half the time guys just bitch to me about their problems and I make bank.

    You mean whoring yourself?


    Call it what you want icon_cool.gif
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    Jul 10, 2014 12:15 PM GMT
    It's really sad and pathetic that the main advice to this guy is to become a prostitute. And people wonder why so many people don't want anything to do with the gay "community."
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    Jul 10, 2014 12:50 PM GMT
    Start selling some things if you are about to be completely super broke. I'd say get a part time job somewhere. Yes I know its not the dream career but at least it might get you by until you move or do whatever you need to do. Maybe you can roommate with a friend til you get a plan going or roommate with a stranger. Bills are way cheaper when there is more than one person pitching in on them.
  • KaZT

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    Jul 10, 2014 2:49 PM GMT
    The society in Poland is not like in USA or in EU... People are not helping each other, because they can't.

    I am trying to get any job ofcourse, What is the worst, some people tell me I will help You etc, and later... oh sorry i forgot. Like it's a something totally unrelevent.

    I have place to sleep when I will have to leave my current room, sadly both of them are gays, I am sure they won't expect sex from me, but I saw them twice or three times and I am afraid they invited me because they tougt they should, but they really do not want it..

    PS. To some guys above, I am so glad that my problem can make people laught and fun.
  • tj85016

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    Jul 10, 2014 6:47 PM GMT
    Avsigkommen saidWhy don't you consider escorting? Honestly half the time guys just bitch to me about their problems and I make bank.


    lol you take AmEx or Visa?
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    Jul 10, 2014 8:16 PM GMT
    tj85016 said
    Avsigkommen saidWhy don't you consider escorting? Honestly half the time guys just bitch to me about their problems and I make bank.


    lol you take AmEx or Visa?
    Mastercard...never leave homos without it. icon_razz.gif
  • KaZT

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    Jul 31, 2014 6:37 PM GMT
    Hello, an attention whore in me won so I will upgrade


    I hired myself in Masurian villages, I am help farmers during hearvest. I have place to sleep, meals and possibility to earn quite nice money, sadly work is hard.

    Afterthat, in middle August I am ready to go to Liverpool, but I concider other option in Nederlands.

    I am OK, so don't worry.

    PS. I am single hehe.
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    Jul 31, 2014 6:47 PM GMT
    Happy you are ok
    thanks
    -I hate that no one ever upgrades.

    Masurian villages with WiFi?
    Fascinating.
  • KaZT

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    Aug 17, 2014 10:31 PM GMT
    I live in Liverpool now.

    I am all right.

    Grettings all.

    Not going to be more update
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    Aug 18, 2014 3:13 AM GMT
    KaZT saidHello, an attention whore in me won so I will upgrade


    I hired myself in Masurian villages, I am help farmers during hearvest. I have place to sleep, meals and possibility to earn quite nice money, sadly work is hard.

    Afterthat, in middle August I am ready to go to Liverpool, but I concider other option in Nederlands.

    I am OK, so don't worry.

    PS. I am single hehe.


    A bit late, but glad to hear that you're doing ok. icon_biggrin.gif